I don’t like writing long posts here so I will sum up. I have done 7 and have had 2 folks interview me and the most important thing that I have noticed is the impact of the sensory part of the inquiry. When I try to go to emotions too quickly, many folks find it hard: really immersing in the 5 senses helps to deepen the intimacy in a way that is more natural and major manageable for people who are awkward or who I dont know well.