Before we recorded, Marni humbly said what she did wasn’t that big of a deal, just a bit more than she normally did. She wondered the point of sharing it. So this second conversation with Marni was short and we talked as much about the podcast as about what she did. Which is to say, the episode narrated itself.
I look forward to where it’s mainstream for stewardship to feel second-nature, for people not just to say they care but act that way naturally. I don’t feel that everyone doing little things adds up. I don’t argue that it won’t, but I believe that if leaders don’t, then most others will follow their inaction with inaction of their own. Actually, I think I described the past 50 years or more since global warming was predicted. Plus plastic, deforestation, mercury, and nearly every other form of pollution.
The exciting part of Marni and my conversation, for those interested in dating, attraction between men and women, and my past, is referring to my appearing on her podcast, The Ask Women Podcast: Dating Advice For Men.
I can’t mention here what I mentioned there, but you might be able to figure it out from the title. Here’s the description:
Want to know the most attractive thing you can be with women? A LEADER. Now I don’t mean a man that bosses women around and tells them what to do. Leading women means gently guiding them towards something and requires the man to know who he is and what he wants.Â Being a real leader with women is easier than you think and doesn’t require you to be a jerk. Guest: Joshua Spodek PhD MBA http://www.joshuaspodek.com.
By doing what others don’t, Marni is swimming upstream so everyone else can swim downstream
Environmental action doesn’t have to be a big deal. On the contrary, one day it won’t be a deal at all.
Sometimes I think of the first women to wear pants. Can you imagine the vitriol and scorn they may have faced? Now it’s normal. Soon stewardship will be too. The sooner each of us acts, the more people will see us as leaders of the movement we create.