Everybody talks about political polarization, the communication messes this nation and world are in, and how people who disagree can’t talk to each other any more, so we can’t resolve conflict.
I do it too—that is, get into conversations where I shut down meaningful communication—though less than before, telling me that we can learn to communicate effectively. I’ve learned tremendously the times I’ve reversed that trend—that is, to listen to people I disagree with. I learn from them, probably more than I learn from people I disagree with.
Today’s episode covers an interaction within a community of people formed to increase dialog. Even in a community for that purpose, I find them not knowing what to do about it, even augmenting the problem.
One of the problems, as I see it, is depriving students the experiences that teach the social and emotional skills to handle difficult social and emotional situations. Teaching more facts, knowledge, and abstract analysis don’t help, yet schools at all levels pile on that strategy.