644: Janet Allaker, part 1.5: Joy first
In our second conversation, Janet reveals that she did part of her commitment, but found traveling not by car took longer than she expected and didn’t do it often.
At one point in this conversation, she shares she felt she had to reduce pollution. I point out I didn’t say she had to reduce pollution. I invited her to manifest emotions she liked.
Our society burdens us with thinking we have to ACT BIG! SCALE! SOLVE GLOBAL PROBLEMS!, which create obstacles to starting and prime us to expect it takes work and sacrifice. Environmentalists create that burden as much as anyone. Yet nature is a joy!
The Spodek Method aims at first at the modest effect of leading someone to act on intrinsic motivation, which makes acting meaningful and purposeful. I contend the fastest, most effective way to act big, scale, and solve global problems is to start where you can, engage intrinsically, and keep going.
After the Spodek Method’s mindset shift comes the process of continual improvement, which I distinguish from lots of people doing small things. It’s leading to where you enjoy it so you want to keep improving so you do big things because doing them improves your life, so you do more. Big things that spread out of joy, fun, and freedom scale.
You’ll hear Janet reset her feelings of obligation—extrinsic motivation—in favor of intrinsic motivation to continue joyfully.
She also asked me many questions about what I’m doing and following up many episodes she’s listened to.