Category Archives: Tips

If you pollute and deplete, make your peace with the consequences of your actions instead of accusing others of making you feel guilty

on May 30, 2025 in Awareness, Nature, Nonjudgment, Tips

I’ve written before that if you do something that kills people and you don’t want to kill people, you have to stop doing that thing, even if you like it. That sentence seems about as matter of fact as you can get. It’s not designed to make anyone feel guilty. That polluting and depleting kill people isn’t an open question. We all pollute and deplete. Come to think of it,[…] Keep reading →

Ayahuasca and psychedelics: I propose an alternative if you want to learn about ego, life, the universe, and everything

on May 27, 2025 in Awareness, Doof, Fitness, Nature, Tips

I don’t know what it’s like where you are, but in New York, people talk about psychedelic drugs a lot. Everyone is talking about microdosing (probably not as much as in California), going to shamans in Peru for ayahuasca, and so on. People describe the value of the experiences as life changing. I’m prompted by a recent New Yorker piece This Is Your Priest on Drugs: Dozens of religious leaders[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, May 25, 2025: The Way Home; Right Thing Right Now

on May 25, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: The Way Home: Tales From a Life Without Technology, by Mark Boyle: I learned of Mark Boyle probably years ago and I think watched his TEDx talk. Recently a guest suggested I connect with an Australian woman, Jo Nemeth, who is living with no money. I connected with Jo, which led to engaging conversations. Jo describes Mark as a hero, which prompted me to read this[…] Keep reading →

Year 4, Day 1 with my apartment disconnected from the electric grid

on May 24, 2025 in HandsOnPracticalExperience, Tips

I only wish I’d disconnected sooner. Not needing something means more freedom, especially not needing something that hurts people. People often ask if everyone could live like me. If every American lived like me, we could reduce our electric grid to a tiny fraction of its present incarnation. Our national security would increase, as would our health, community, and safety. Wealth disparities would decrease among many other friendly social outcomes.[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, May 18, 2025: The Male Brain

on May 18, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: The Male Brain, by Louann Brizendine: I heard of Brizendine’s first book The Female Brain, but the library had The Male Brain, so I got it instead. Reading it was satisfying, learning about differences between the male brain and what I hear more about, which is our commonalities. There seems to be a mainstream outrage that claims that the male brain and body are considered normal[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, May 11, 2025: Racism, The Case for Reparations, Clamor

on May 11, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: Racism: A Very Short Introduction, by Ali Rattansi: This book follows up last month’s The Myth of Race. I’ve read a lot about slavery, abolitionism, Nazism, what people call race, and related topics but haven’t read scholarly books about the history of racism. Racism seems just a part of human society, like marriage and school. In principle I knew it had to have started at some[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, May 4, 2025: Pattern Breakers, The Shock Doctrine, What If We Get It Right

on May 4, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: Pattern Breakers: Why Some Start-ups Change the Future, by Mike Maples Jr and Peter Ziebelman: I borrowed this book after hearing Mike speak about it. In parts, I felt he spoke to me about my work: starting a company can revolutionize a field, but doesn’t have to, even in Silicon Valley. Many ventures simply provide a service in a system it doesn’t change. By contrast, some[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, April 27, 2025: The Myth of Race

on April 27, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: The Myth of Race: The Troubling Persistence of an Unscientific Idea, by Robert Wald Sussman: Wow! What a fascinating book on the history of the concepts of race (by more than one definition of the term) and the practice of racism. Sussman was an anthropologist and academic, which are the lenses he mostly looks through. He defines what he means by race and racism, describes some[…] Keep reading →

This Week’s Selected Media, April 20, 2025: Discipline Is Destiny, Hope Dies Last, I’m Glad My Mom Died

on April 20, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: Discipline Is Destiny: The Power of Self-Control, by Ryan Holiday: Like Courage is Calling, Holiday recalls virtues largely abandoned these days with diverse historical examples. It makes sense to practice them, yet we don’t. I don’t think I’m flattering myself to say I believe I practice discipline, approaching a quarter-million burpees without missing a day in over a decade among other sidchas. I think I also[…] Keep reading →

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