Category Archives: Tips

Year 4, Day 1 with my apartment disconnected from the electric grid

on May 24, 2025 in HandsOnPracticalExperience, Tips

I only wish I’d disconnected sooner. Not needing something means more freedom, especially not needing something that hurts people. People often ask if everyone could live like me. If every American lived like me, we could reduce our electric grid to a tiny fraction of its present incarnation. Our national security would increase, as would our health, community, and safety. Wealth disparities would decrease among many other friendly social outcomes.[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, May 18, 2025: The Male Brain

on May 18, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: The Male Brain, by Louann Brizendine: I heard of Brizendine’s first book The Female Brain, but the library had The Male Brain, so I got it instead. Reading it was satisfying, learning about differences between the male brain and what I hear more about, which is our commonalities. There seems to be a mainstream outrage that claims that the male brain and body are considered normal[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, May 11, 2025: Racism, The Case for Reparations, Clamor

on May 11, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: Racism: A Very Short Introduction, by Ali Rattansi: This book follows up last month’s The Myth of Race. I’ve read a lot about slavery, abolitionism, Nazism, what people call race, and related topics but haven’t read scholarly books about the history of racism. Racism seems just a part of human society, like marriage and school. In principle I knew it had to have started at some[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, May 4, 2025: Pattern Breakers, The Shock Doctrine, What If We Get It Right

on May 4, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: Pattern Breakers: Why Some Start-ups Change the Future, by Mike Maples Jr and Peter Ziebelman: I borrowed this book after hearing Mike speak about it. In parts, I felt he spoke to me about my work: starting a company can revolutionize a field, but doesn’t have to, even in Silicon Valley. Many ventures simply provide a service in a system it doesn’t change. By contrast, some[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, April 27, 2025: The Myth of Race

on April 27, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: The Myth of Race: The Troubling Persistence of an Unscientific Idea, by Robert Wald Sussman: Wow! What a fascinating book on the history of the concepts of race (by more than one definition of the term) and the practice of racism. Sussman was an anthropologist and academic, which are the lenses he mostly looks through. He defines what he means by race and racism, describes some[…] Keep reading →

This Week’s Selected Media, April 20, 2025: Discipline Is Destiny, Hope Dies Last, I’m Glad My Mom Died

on April 20, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: Discipline Is Destiny: The Power of Self-Control, by Ryan Holiday: Like Courage is Calling, Holiday recalls virtues largely abandoned these days with diverse historical examples. It makes sense to practice them, yet we don’t. I don’t think I’m flattering myself to say I believe I practice discipline, approaching a quarter-million burpees without missing a day in over a decade among other sidchas. I think I also[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, April 13, 2025: Matewan, This Changes Everything

on April 13, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: Matewan: In college, a teammate on the ultimate Frisbee team was a graduate student in the film school and cited this movie as one of his favorites. I watched it a long time ago and re-watched it this week. I found it compelling as a movie. Having taken acting classes, I thought about how much fun an actor could have playing the bad guys since they[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, April 6, 2025: Troubled, The Message

on April 6, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: Troubled: A Memoir of Foster Care, Family, and Social Class, by Rob Henderson: I saw Rob Henderson speak about this book in person and met him briefly. I confess I didn’t know much about the book before learning about the event, but other attendees shared how much the book meant to them. It also sounded like it resonated with some experiences of my childhood. His sounds[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, March 23, 2025: Courage Is Calling, Robert Clary’s Holocaust remembrances

on March 23, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: Courage Is Calling: Fortune Favors the Brave (The Stoic Virtues Series), by Ryan Holiday: This book spoke to me about what I’m doing with living by a different culture than nearly everyone around me. I hadn’t considered myself courageous. I’m just living by my values. For that matter, I’m living by the values everyone who values I also hadn’t considered those compromising on those values to[…] Keep reading →

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