Category Archives: Awareness

How do we know the people living here when Europeans arrived were indigenous?

on December 1, 2025 in Addiction, Awareness, Freedom

First I have to make as clear as possible: I oppose imperialism, colonialism, and outcomes they produce such as slavery, racism, genocide, and the coercive, often violent and deadly destruction of cultures, including indigenous ones. That opposition contributes significantly to my work, since living unsustainably drives all those results. In light of that connection, since I know no one even trying to live sustainably, which is necessary to lead others[…] Keep reading →

Am I the only one who sees these problems with America’s liberals, conservatives, and libertarians?

on November 14, 2025 in Awareness

I’ve meant to write this post for a while, but I feel like people will misunderstand and think I’m saying something I’m not. Sometimes I feel like everyone sees the main problems with America’s liberals, conservatives, and libertarians. Others I feel like I’m the only one. In fairness, each group does what the others do, but each specializes in the following: Does anyone else see that the biggest problems with[…] Keep reading →

We respond differently when society conflicts with men versus with women

on October 15, 2025 in Awareness, Perception

I keep meaning to write a post on the pattern I keep seeing, but for the time being, I’m just going to collect and list examples of it. The pattern isn’t perfect and anyone who thinks I’m suggesting it is misunderstands me, but the pattern I see is: When society conflicts with men, we say men have to change or take responsibility. When society conflicts with women, we say society[…] Keep reading →

Passing fancies and shiny objects sap life of meaning, if you don’t know your values and how to live them

on October 10, 2025 in Awareness, Choosing/Decision-Making, Exercises

I said the following words today and realized I had to post them here: Chasing shiny objects means you’re running away from what you value. For background, I describe passing fancies in my book Initiative: Passing fancies are things we enjoy in the moment but don’t bring long-term emotional reward. Since everyone’s values differ, your passing fancies will differ from mine. Our world is full of passing fancies like social[…] Keep reading →

The easy and hard parts of exercise and another value of sidchas

on September 20, 2025 in Awareness, Fitness, Habits, SIDCHAs, Stories

This morning’s calisthenics involved four sets of burpees. I noticed a funny thought as I started the third set. I had barely done a tenth of a burpee in that third set when I thought, “Only one set left.” That’s an odd thought. Since I had barely started the third set, I had closer to two sets left. Why did I think I had one set left when I actually[…] Keep reading →

I love developing resilience and strength: AI version, part 1

on July 15, 2025 in Addiction, Awareness, Creativity, Freedom, HandsOnPracticalExperience, Perception

A recent article on artificial intelligence in the New Yorker wrote about how people who are suffering from loneliness are finding help from artificial intelligence. Some people can’t help loneliness, not out of character defect but circumstance. It gets the reader thinking about the elderly, for example, who outlive everyone they’ve been close to, or it describes as worse, if those who remain are senile. Sorry to give away the[…] Keep reading →

Another sad reminder of our culture as it is: dumping garbage on memorials of our loved ones

on June 6, 2025 in Awareness, Perception, Visualization

I walked past what was once likely a planter bed filled with lovely flowers or maybe a tree. I presume it was something nice because someone installed a plaque that began “In loving memory of.” Instead of flowers, a tree, or anything lovely or nice, the bed was filled with garbage. I’ve passed it before and seen it filled with garbage. It’s nice to think that environmental problems haven’t hit[…] Keep reading →

If you pollute and deplete, make your peace with the consequences of your actions instead of accusing others of making you feel guilty

on May 30, 2025 in Awareness, Nature, Nonjudgment, Tips

I’ve written before that if you do something that kills people and you don’t want to kill people, you have to stop doing that thing, even if you like it. That sentence seems about as matter of fact as you can get. It’s not designed to make anyone feel guilty. That polluting and depleting kill people isn’t an open question. We all pollute and deplete. Come to think of it,[…] Keep reading →

Ayahuasca and psychedelics: I propose an alternative if you want to learn about ego, life, the universe, and everything

on May 27, 2025 in Awareness, Doof, Fitness, Nature, Tips

I don’t know what it’s like where you are, but in New York, people talk about psychedelic drugs a lot. Everyone is talking about microdosing (probably not as much as in California), going to shamans in Peru for ayahuasca, and so on. People describe the value of the experiences as life changing. I’m prompted by a recent New Yorker piece This Is Your Priest on Drugs: Dozens of religious leaders[…] Keep reading →

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