Leadership


Would you help an abusive parent get more efficient?

People struggle to understand that unintended side effects that can become the major effects in systems. In particular, making elements of a polluting system like our economic system more efficient may lower pollution locally, but if you make a polluting system more efficient, you pollute more efficiently. I'm exploring a new way to explain it. Sorry if talking about child abuse is difficult for you, but polluting the environment hurts and kills people, it's not abstract. I write about it here all the time. There are many differences between parenting children and stewarding humanity and nature, but consider a parent who was raised to believe that what you consider abusing a child was an appropriate way to show their love. You’d want to help them…

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How Not to Give Up

A friend emailed to respond to yesterday's post After the Pride and Queer Liberation Marches 2022: Washington Square Park wrecked again. I could cry to say "I have to admit I can’t even get myself to watch the videos, the images are truly horrifying! I don’t know what to say…" I responded with a sentiment I've posted to this blog before, but I think it bears repeating. Leading in unknown territory, like toward stewardship, where people say they want to go there but do the opposite, is emotionally grueling. It's lonely and full of people misunderstanding you. Most people act against stewardship without realizing it and get angry when the conflict between the behavior and their identity starts becoming exposed. The only way to learn…

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My emotional job as a leader in sustainability

I keep in touch with Olympic gold medalist, Extinction Rebellion activist and guest on my podcast, Etienne Stott MBE. I think I can say we're becoming friends despite not having met in person yet. England is a long way to sail and neither of us wants to pollute much. He shared some stories about his activism: BBC: Extinction Rebellion: Six arrested after Olympians scale oil tanker: "Six people have been arrested after climate change activists, including two Olympians, scaled an oil tanker."Team GB gold medallist says ‘life or death oil tanker protest felt like Olympics’: "A gold medal-winning canoeist said protesting against the oil industry was just as ‘nerve-wracking’ as competing in the Olympics." He shared more of the bleakness of watching society capitulate, mixed…

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Transitions in the path to acting sustainably

I've noticed people go through a few transitions as they start acting sustainably. I haven't catalogued them all, but a few: From expecting acting sustainably means deprivation and sacrifice to expecting it bring rewarding emotions. Before this transition, you don't want to start trying. You may feel obliged or shamed into acting, but you resent it. The AIM/Spodek Method that I teach and coach starts this transition. From thinking your actions don't matter to expecting you'll influence others. Before this transition you think personal actions don't change systems. You think only actions that change everything or scale to change everything are worth doing. Nothing does, so you don't start. From seeing the problem as "out there" to seeing it as inside us. Before this transition…

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“It is an ideal which I hope to live for and to achieve. But if needs be, it is an ideal for which I am prepared to die.”

Today, April 20, in 1964, Nelson Mandela, on trial for sabotage with about a dozen other men, for which they would be found guilty, instead of a defense, spoke for almost four hours, closing with the words entitling this post. Here is the full text he read from. I recommend taking a moment today to review the story. Here is one video among many others and the Rivonia Trial Wikipedia page. I consider a leader's story in changing a nation and world as poignant today as ever. People call me extreme today for eating vegetables and not flying. I don't look to polluters for inspiration or comparison. I suggest you don't either, but consider Mandela and his peers instead, with one major difference: the consequence…

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A New Record in Clean Living: Over 6.5 Months With the Fridge Unplugged

I'm continuing living clean from my addictions to polluting behaviors. Last year I kept my fridge unplugged for six and a half months. If unplugging the fridge sounds weird or stupid, check out my post on why I would and what I got out of it: 12 Sustainability Leadership Lessons Unplugging My Fridge for 6.5 Months Taught Me. Also consider that much of the world lives without a fridge, many healthier and living longer than us. All lived without fridges before we invented them. It's tempting to expect refrigeration would keep foods fresher, but as usual systems work differently than elements in systems. When we develop ways to slow foods from decomposing, we create longer supply lines, resulting in less-fresh foods and more doof. Unplugging…

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566: The CEO of Ford and Boeing, Alan Mulally: Leadership environmentalism should learn from

"What I do doesn't matter," say many environmentalists as they order steak or buy tickets to fly some place. That's the addiction speaking. I recently heard Alan Mulally speak on how he led turning Ford around from losing tens of billions of dollars to number one in many categories creating joy, teamwork, and fun despite challenging work. Before being CEO of Ford, he led Boeing, among the two greatest promoters of pollution in the world. Nonetheless, because he leads, which I distinguish from telling people facts and numbers, protesting, or cajoling, coercing, or convincing, I contend that he would be more effective than nearly any environmentalist I know of. I consider him one of my top role models because I see his methods among the…

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How We Reached Our Environmental Predicament so We Can Take Responsibility

The situation: More people than ever are living healthy, happy lives yet Pollution and garbage are growing and acceleratingPredictions suggest our waste is going to cause nearly everyone on Earth to suffer including many dying and, here's the big confounding issue We can't stop ourselves. With rare exception, everyone I know and even know of knows they are polluting, hurting people by it, so potentially contributing to the greatest catastrophe ever, yet won't or can't stop. Why? How? What do we do about it? How is this conflict possible? I've been trying to figure it out. I've worked out a framework I'll develop here. One: The human mind's reward mechanisms Some reward feels like pleasure, others excitement, connection, relief, and more (people associate various forms…

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Am I in an African-American / African-Diaspora dominated field?

When I list the people I think would benefit from my podcast and could use it to influence most, I think of the people with the greatest potential to lead the most number of Americans. The names roll off my tongue from mentioning them so many times and from trying to think of who would add the most value: Oprah, LeBron, Serena. Do I need to mention their last names? When I list the people who most influence me and whom I consider role models: Martin Luther King, Nelson Mandela (not American or Diaspora), Gandhi (who started his leadership work in South Africa), Muhammad Ali, and Malcolm X. On par with them would be Henry David Thorough, the first non-African-American or -diaspora. When I think…

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Would you have opposed atrocities in the past? Do you oppose them today?

We look up to historical figures who opposed great atrocities of the past, especially helping people who couldn't help themselves, which we consider on a different level than just helping ourselves, or at least I do. For example: Oskar SchindlerDietrich BonhoefferFrederick DouglassThomas ClarksonWilliam WilberforceWilliam Lloyd Garrison History shows that most people don't help others in difficult times. For every one Oskar Schindler, maybe millions of Germans in the 1930s and 40s figured what they did wouldn't matter and went with the flow. For every one Thomas Clarkson, maybe millions of others kept buying sugar, rum, and other slave-produced good. We are lowering Earth's ability to sustain life. What are you doing? Today we face billions of lives at risk in our lifetimes. Who are your…

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My first solar-powered famous no-packaging vegan stew

Last week I wrote about my latest step in going a month off-grid in Manhattan: buying (used, off Craigslist) the solar panels to power the battery I bought last year. First: solar panels and batteries are not sustainable. They require fossil fuels and other non-renewable resources for manufacture, with no end in sight for that dependence. I don't pretend using them is clean. Cleaner than burning oil or coal isn't clean. I see them like methadone: as part of a plan by someone intending to quit an addiction, they can help. But giving methadone to addicts with no intent or plan to quit is just giving them more opiates. They'll use the old stuff and the methadone. Likewise, humans with solar and wind power are…

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Liberals: get your stories straight, part 1: individual ability and responsibility.

I'll start with a liberal inconsistency relevant to sustainability, not that they monopolize them or are the most egregious, but I have to start somewhere. Mention anything related to my environmental footprint or personal action to many liberals and I'd better prepare for them to lecture me on how BP publicized the concept to deflect blame from them to individuals, or some similar reason why their or my actions don't matter. I think they partly want to show off how smart they are knowing about BP's nefarious plots, or think they are, but mostly I think they want to rationalize that they don't want to sacrifice their creature comforts, like flying, takeout, and such. Their intended message: "You can't change the system through individual action.…

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My Solar Experiment to Go Off the Electric Grid in Manhattan Continues

Months ago I bought a battery (used off Craigslist) to power my apartment. They call them power stations, partly to sound more impressive, partly since they can receive and deliver electric power in many ways. The process started years ago, when I started reducing my electric power demand to where a battery would suffice, and I dropped my demand to a couple dollars worth per month. The other day I bought the solar panels (also used off Craigslist). Portable ones like I bought cost more than the bulky ones most people put on their homes, but I anticipated carrying mine up and down eleven flights each way to my buildings' roof for more sunlight. Simple set-up I figured I'd need to read a lot in…

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People don’t want to travel as much as they say they do

People say they want to travel to explore different cultures and cuisines, but their behavior says otherwise. If people want to travel for cuisine and culture, why do so many tourist places have McDonald's and Starbucks in them? Why do tourist sites look increasingly similar if people want difference? People say they travel to explore new tastes and cuisines. If so, why don't people buy radishes when in season? The farmers market has plenty this time of year and I bet most people rarely eat radishes. They could save thousands of dollars, months of work to afford it, and sample something new, but they don't try something new. Instead, they travel far to eat something they know and could have eaten without traveling.

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Coach John Wooden on sustainability

I just finished reading Wooden: A Lifetime of Observations and Reflections On and Off the Court. His coaching tells more how to live sustainably as individuals and a culture than anything else I remember reading or hearing. For those who don't know, from Wikipedia: John Wooden (1910 — 2010) was an American basketball coach and player. He won ten NCAA national championships in a 12-year period as head coach for the UCLA Bruins, including a record seven in a row. No other team has won more than four in a row. His teams won a record 88 consecutive games. Wooden won National Coach of the Year a record seven times and the AP award five times. They had four perfect 30—0 seasons, won 38 straight…

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How to Create a Sustainability Movement: sneak preview of my book and workshops

On a call with Dan McPherson, podcast guest and friend, I mentioned recent advances on my book and how to lead people and create a movement. We decided to record part of the call sharing my screen. It's based on my work on This Sustainable Life leading hundreds of world-renowned guests to live joyfully sustainably based on intrinsic motivation. Nearly all return for second episodes. Many refer me to peers based on valuing the experience. Many have become friends. The video mixes story with theory. By sneak preview, I mean it's a work in progress, but I wanted to share what's coming, even if not polished to perfection yet. https://youtu.be/4pOsMT5ByOA

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How Biden can pass his program with bipartisan support. With global support.

Joe Biden can lead in a lot more ways than using authority, which is the least effective tool of a leader. The President of the United States is not some guy on the street. He's at a leverage point of a system, with great influence. Imagine if Biden stood with the protesters of a pipeline. Imagine he simply took an inventory of his personal waste and minimized it and showed the inevitable increase in productivity and effectiveness people don't believe until they experience it. Maybe it sounds crazy or like it may not work, What he's did didn't work either. Imagine he acted genuinely, authentically, and effectively instead. I'm not saying he can solve all the world's problems by himself overnight, nor that anyone should…

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How I started coaching professionally: a “free coaching” offer on Craigslist

Anyone can do it. It cost me nothing. Cleaning my backup hard drive, I found a file with the text of how I started coaching professionally: by offering free coaching on Craigslist. Below is the text. It led to a few clients. One eventually told me he found it valuable enough he insisted on paying me. I insisted on staying with free, as that's what I offered, but he said he'd get more value for something he paid for. He's moved past coaching now and we're still friends. To clarify, I had informally coached friends, also free, for a while before posting, which I felt justified describing myself as "experienced." What dreams are waiting for you that cost nothing to start? Are you looking To…

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Heartwarming reasons I pick up litter knowing it alone won’t fix the world’s problems overnight.

Picking up litter has its joys. A friend wrote about our meeting, in which we walked around Washington Square Park and picked up litter, also talking business. The meeting certainly was inspirational and I think back to it every time I see a piece of trash on the ground. So, you certainly made a difference in my life. I always tried to pick before, but now I make it a point. And every person counts, right? My routine dog walk was completely clear of debris this morning, which I feel is a fantastic accomplishment considering my route goes through an elementary and middle school parking lot! Since I haven't been here for a week, maybe someone saw my and also decided to take up this…

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Saying “It won’t matter if we pollute less if China and Russia don’t” is the opposite of leadership.

People say all the time that what we in the U.S. or anywhere to act sustainably doesn't matter if China and Russia don't act too. They say that they pollute so much that even if we don't pollute at all, their pollution is enough to sink us all. Whether it is or not, to say they have to act first abdicates leadership. It says we choose to follow, not lead. For us to lead, we would act first, or at least independently of others, and expect others to follow us. People think we can't lead while setting an example. Sadly, I think many people think they only way to influence people is with authority. I don't consider motivating through authority leadership. I don't see how…

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Advice to a young adult in 2021

A father in one of my online communities asked people for what advice they'd give to a twelve-year-old. I'm not a father and haven't been twelve since the 1980s, so I don't know how appropriate for that age, but here was my answer: Not knowing the kid (barely knowing myself), I can only guess at his interests and situation, but here's what I would want someone to tell me if I were becoming an adult today. If not appropriate for twelve years old, well, I haven't been that age in a while so don't mind if you filter it. I recognize it may rub some the wrong way. We're all unique. These are not normal times. Despite nearly every message you'll hear from the mainstream,…

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What leadership brings to sustainability

Nearly every effort I see for sustainability use methods that don't work, that promote resistance. They don't inspire. They tools like cajoling ("Here are ten little things you can do for the environment"), coercing ("people will suffer if you don't act"), convincing ("If you value your kids' future, you should change"), and authority (laws). Such methods imply nobody wants to do the things. You may gain compliance but reinforce the systemic values causing the problem. Nobody promotes Drinkless Driving Tuesdays or Seat Belt Wednesdays. We say never drink and drive because we believe sobriety always benefits everyone behind the wheel. I inspire, people tell me. Not all, but most of my podcast guests enjoy the experience, do more than they promised, come back for second…

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Is flying to protest in Glasgow like PETA practicing animal sacrifice?

I'm not criticizing protesters at COP26. Maybe they'll achieve more than I will, though the meaningful comparison is to what they could achieve optimally. It seems to me that flying to Glasgow to protest polluting is like PETA practicing animal sacrifice to help animals or the Pope worshiping Satan to promote Christianity. I'm not trying to be coy. I think you need to practice the values you promote if you want others to follow. My point isn't about the magnitude of the emissions of their personal flights. It's about their credibility and effectiveness. Again, the relevant question is how effective could they be without acting against their values? Could they have protested as effectively without flying there? If forced not to fly, what could they…

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The environment has losing stories.
The cover of Love in the Time of Cholera I read

The environment has losing stories.

When myths and stories contradict, the ones that persist aren't the ones that are right. The ones that people remember and share persist. I'm writing about it after reading this quote from E. O. Wilson: Creation stories gave the members of each tribe an explanation for their existence. It made them feel loved and protected above all other tribes. In return, their gods demanded absolute belief and obedience. And rightly so. The creation myth was the essential bond that held the tribe together. It provided its believers with a unique identity, commanded their fidelity, strengthened order, vouchsafed law, encouraged valor and sacrifice, and offered meaning tot he cycles of life and death. No tribe could long survive without the meaning of its existence defined by…

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