Category Archives: Nonjudgment

Non-judgmental Ethics Sunday: Must a Mental Illness Be Revealed on a First Date?

on April 17, 2016 in Ethicist, Nonjudgment

Continuing my series of alternative responses to the New York Times column, The Ethicist, looking at the consequences of one’s actions instead of imposing values on others, here is my take on today’s post, “Must a Mental Illness Be Revealed on a First Date?” I have struggled with mental illness, off and on, for most of my life. It can be debilitating and has resulted in numerous hospitalizations. I also[…] Keep reading →

Non-judgmental Ethics Sunday: Should a Nephew Be Told Who His Real Father Is?

on April 10, 2016 in Ethicist, Nonjudgment

Continuing my series of alternative responses to the New York Times column, The Ethicist, looking at the consequences of one’s actions instead of imposing values on others, here is my take on today’s post, “Should a Nephew Be Told Who His Real Father Is?” My sister has told me that her son is not the biological son of her husband. His sperm count was very low; she was having an[…] Keep reading →

Non-judgmental Ethics Sunday: What Do You Owe the Friends You Unwittingly Scammed?

on April 3, 2016 in Ethicist, Nonjudgment

Continuing my series of alternative responses to the New York Times column, The Ethicist, looking at the consequences of one’s actions instead of imposing values on others, here is my take on today’s post, “What Do You Owe the Friends You Unwittingly Scammed?” Several years ago, a friend of mine encouraged her friends, including me, to buy what turned out to be fraudulent securities. This friend believed the securities were[…] Keep reading →

Non-judgmental Ethics Sunday: Must a Woman Confront a Bigoted In-Law?

on March 27, 2016 in Ethicist, Nonjudgment

Continuing my series of alternative responses to the New York Times column, The Ethicist, looking at the consequences of one’s actions instead of imposing values on others, here is my take on today’s post, “Must a Woman Confront a Bigoted In-Law?” My father-in-law is quietly racist, sexist and anti-gay. He was kind enough to offer me a job at his firm. I had previously voiced my (respectful) dissent, but this[…] Keep reading →

Non-judgmental Ethics Sunday: Should Parents Reveal That a Father at Their Child’s School Is a Sex Offender?

on March 20, 2016 in Ethicist, Nonjudgment

Continuing my series of alternative responses to the New York Times column, The Ethicists, looking at the consequences of one’s actions instead of imposing values on others, here is my take on today’s post, “Should Parents Reveal That a Father at Their Child’s School Is a Sex Offender?” My daughter goes to a public elementary school. Recently, one of the parents in our class discovered that a fellow parent, the[…] Keep reading →

Don’t “Become an entrepreneur.” Solve people’s problems so well they pay you for it.

on March 19, 2016 in Entrepreneurship, Models, Nonjudgment, Tips

Teaching entrepreneurship, I often hear people say they want “to become an entrepreneur,” “to be their own boss,” and “to run their own company.” I have to distinguish between thinking and behaving entrepreneurially and “becoming an entrepreneur.” Thinking and behaving entrepreneurially means identifying problems that people would pay you to solve, figuring out how to solve them, creating sustainable models to implement the solutions, attracting teammates, marketing and selling the[…] Keep reading →

My Inc. post: Trump: Why Voters Love Him and What You Can Learn From Him (Even If You Hate Him)

on March 18, 2016 in Inc.com, Leadership, Nonjudgment, Perception

My Inc. post today, “Trump: Why Voters Love Him and What You Can Learn From Him (Even If You Hate Him),” begins Trump: Why Voters Love Him and What You Can Learn From Him (Even If You Hate Him) Love him or hate him, he’s effective at something and you can learn what works from his technique. An example confusing people trying to understand Donald Trump: the picture above shows[…] Keep reading →

Why people fear failure. It’s not what you think.

on March 13, 2016 in Awareness, Entrepreneurship, Leadership, Nonjudgment

I hear people talk about how much people fear failure, but also that you have to learn to handle failure. They talk about it like it’s abstract—just not achieving a goal you want to. Like if you want to start a business and you end up not making money. Or you want to achieve some other goal and don’t. We don’t like not achieving goals, but we don’t fear such[…] Keep reading →

Learn Feedforward with me in London, Monday March 14!

on March 11, 2016 in Education, Events, Exercises, Leadership, Nonjudgment

Want to learn and practice one of the most effective leadership techniques? Then join me for a workshop, Monday, March 14th at 6:30pm. Click here to register! I look forward to seeing you there. From the announcement: Feedforward by Professor Joshua Spodek Interesting Talks is incredibly excited to welcome Joshua Spodek. Joshua is professor at New York University and is visiting London. We are lucky enough to have him speak at[…] Keep reading →

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