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How to reform taxes: A chess model

People are proposing wealth taxes People are talking about taxing wealth. Everyone relies on society so if you own more, you use more and benefited more, they say, so should pay more. Besides, they add, the wealthy can structure what anyone would call income so it doesn't look like income on taxes so avoid paying any taxes. Moreover, they further add, there's no "natural" law that makes wealth untaxable, so society can decide what to tax or not. The U.S. once taxes around ninety percent during economic boom times. Others oppose them Others criticize the idea. If money people earn can be taken away, they'll lose motivation to start businesses that help the economy and create jobs, they counter. It will motivate rich people to…

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My fourth TEDx talk: Don’t call Doof Food: systemic change begins with personal change

The TEDx people posted my fourth TEDx talk: Don't call Doof Food: systemic change begins with personal change. I think you'll like it. If you do, please go to YouTube and upvote, comment, and share it. When it resonates, you start using the term doof, and you never call food doof, let me know. I recommend using the term. It will simplify and clarify a lot in your life. https://youtu.be/L4OAaI_uXgY Thanks to Leonardo and the TEDxCowes crew for organizing. I also recommend the talks from the event's other speakers, all available here. The Script Here's the script: Context Do you remember the first picture you saw of a beach covered with garbage? How shocked you were? Adults remember it. My nieces and nephews don't, because…

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Advice to a young adult in 2021

A father in one of my online communities asked people for what advice they'd give to a twelve-year-old. I'm not a father and haven't been twelve since the 1980s, so I don't know how appropriate for that age, but here was my answer: Not knowing the kid (barely knowing myself), I can only guess at his interests and situation, but here's what I would want someone to tell me if I were becoming an adult today. If not appropriate for twelve years old, well, I haven't been that age in a while so don't mind if you filter it. I recognize it may rub some the wrong way. We're all unique. These are not normal times. Despite nearly every message you'll hear from the mainstream,…

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A gift your partner will love receiving. No cost or waste. Minutes to prepare.

Following up on my post yesterday about Buy Nothing Season, I came up with a gift idea that costs nothing, takes almost no time to prepare, and only uses a sheet of scrap paper. I don't know about you, but I would love to receive it. I think it would build a relationship. I doubt I came up with it. More likely I heard it a while ago and it popped into my head. The gift Take a piece of scrap paper. Divide it into twelve pieces. Write on each the following, or what's appropriate to your relationship: "Good for one X within 24 hours of redeeming, no questions asked.", where X can be Shoulder rubFull body massageHome-made dinnerListening to you in an argument without…

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Tomorrow is Buy Nothing Day. Make it Buy Nothing Season. Give the gift of your presence and attention.

Our culture promotes the wrong idea that buying things brings happiness. More like addiction. Stores yesterday were busy fake marking up prices to fake mark them back down. They aren't doing you any favors. Did you know that many manufacturers make lower quality items specifically for this time of year. They break down sooner, costing you more, filling landfills more. But they really hit the poorest this way, which is how they stay poor. Tomorrow and for the rest of the year, besides food, avoid buying stuff. Give the gift of your presence and attention, undivided and undistracted by stuff. What to do instead Instead of buying, enjoy what nature you have access to: parks, rivers, jogging, plogging, cooking. Read books. Give a shoulder rub…

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“Touch grass”

I've seen this phrase more lately: "touch grass." When someone starts sounding stir-crazy---that is, sounding as if they've been cooped up too long---someone will say "touch grass." They mean, go outside and connect with nature. When did you last walk barefoot on land that humans didn't manicure, or even that they did, like a lawn? It's fall here, so maybe you walked on the beach. How about in a stream or woodland path? When did you last eat a fruit, vegetable, or fungus you picked, within minutes of picking it? Maybe touching grass would make a good sidcha. Podcast guest Dr. Michael Greger did a video on forest bathing, a therapeutic practice of visiting nature: https://youtu.be/AV4g_wMpE5g Our ancestors only ate and lived this way for…

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I don’t pick up litter because I care about the environment. I care about the environment because I pick up litter.
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I don’t pick up litter because I care about the environment. I care about the environment because I pick up litter.

Today, picking up litter, it occurred to me that the more I act, the more I care about what I do. The less I act, the more indifferent, apathetic, and complacent I become. It could apply to picking up litter, avoiding packaged food, or many things I learned to do after childhood. I care (second) because I act (first). If you want to get technical, caring and acting are parts of a system and drive each other. But I think the action is more likely to start the cycle. Like love, you have to spend time together and do things for each other before falling in love, at least in my experience. It's like thinking Arnold Schwarzenegger went to the gym because he was strong…

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“Olympic Swimmer Caeleb Dressel Says the Key to Success Is Making Your Bed”

Everyone who knows me knows every morning I make my bed, cross the room, and turn off the alarm before it turns off, meaning within sixty seconds. I have other sidchas, like picking up litter daily, which I've done without fail since 2017. People ask why, which seems obvious. Doing something with a measure of quality and a time limit gives a sense of purpose. For a cash cost of zero, I start every day with purpose, and a time gain of over thirty minutes compared to how long I took to get out of bed before starting this habit five years ago or so. If you don't do it, I recommend it. I couldn't imagine doing it before. I lacked discipline. It helped develop…

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My new top advice on what to do about the environment

Someone in 111F Portland wrote: "I'm hunkered down and keeping cool in my (outside Portland) apartment. I really don't know what else to do anymore. Some of us have no ability to avoid these coming times..." I responded: Generations of people said they didn't know what to do and didn't do anything. We are suffering their inaction. Imagine you could go back to tell them what they could do.Now imagine someone from decades from now coming back. What would they say? Probably similar to what we'd say: "Even though you can't feel the effects immediately, stop flying so much, buy less stuff, change your diet, have fewer kids, and so on. Most of all, lead others to change so your effect multiplies."However bad it feels…

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How I keep going when I feel like giving up (which is often)

If you choose to act on sustainability, you will face darkness. You will want to give up. You will feel alone, misunderstood. I don't say so to dissuade, but to prepare to face a part of all of us. Nobody is polluting because they are monsters. We're all human. What is the alternative to confronting this part of us? To give up? To try to ignore and forget and try to find blissful ignorance? Hope someone else solves it? Hope the predictions that have been accurate for generations turn out wrong? Or, most common and most ghastly, hope the worst hits only after you die? The Scream by Edvard Munch Nearly everyone has disengaged for the past few generations. Their vain hope has only resulted…

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The solution to intermittency in solar and wind power

Everyone knows we can't use fossil fuels sustainably. The future means living without them. But the sun doesn't always shine and the wind doesn't always blow. Fusion may never work. Fission has huge problems that its proponents downplay but never go away. I recommend Caltech-trained UCSD physics professor and podcast guest Tom Murphy's assessment in his recent book that does the math on nuclear's challenges. So what do we do if we don't live near a place geothermal or hydroelectric work? The solution is obvious. I'm not saying it's easy, though I will say if you do it the way I did, you'll love the results. Change your lifestyle. Reduce your demand overall and increase your resilience. Remember, most humans lived without electricity or power…

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Pollution:Earth :: Obesity:Body
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Pollution:Earth :: Obesity:Body

This headline, Goodwill Doesn't Want Your Broken Toaster, reminding me of my recent post that lines to dump worthless junk on Goodwill are often longer than the lines to buy it prompted me to post an idea I've had for a long time but for some reason haven't posted. Pollution on the Earth is obesity on our bodies, manifesting our values and behaviors in different places. This: is this: The pileup at Goodwill is fatty liver disease. Addictions to opioids are like diabetes, where we've lost our sense of value in material things so we seek reward elsewhere. What Value in the Analogy? We aren't facing many problems in the world today. It may look like many, between climate, plastic, mercury, deforestation, political polarization, and…

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How to take two years to fill a load of trash or get a $1.70 electric bill

People ask how to use only $1.70 for a month of electrical use and take two years to fill a load of trash. I tell them I'll give them two answers. The first is the one they think they want, but they always respond with something like, "Oh, yeah, well I can see that would work for you, but I'm different. It wouldn't work for me." That answer is to tell them specifics like cooking from fresh vegetables and fruit. No one ever acts on what I do so I feel this answer wastes my breath. It seems to reinforce people doing what they used to. The second is like how to play Beethoven. You don't point at the music score and say, "this note…

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Month 6, Day 1: Fridge still off (Happy Earth Day)

Today marks the first day of my sixth month with my fridge unplugged. My past two months' electrical charges from Con Ed were $1.70. I used about two percent the average American's power use. I'm still avoiding packaging, so no cans or other sealed stuff. On the contrary, I'm finding fresh vegetables and fruit stay a long time without refrigeration. Here's my podcast episode describing my motivation. It's not about one person's emissions. It's about a culture's resilience. It's about values. How to live without a fridge in two steps There's no way before trying I could have imagined living without a fridge for a day or two. When I unplugged it the first time in December 2019, I could only think of what would…

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How to Get Free Vegetables With a Smile

I collected my expenses on food for 2019 and found I spent less than the average American, despite those costs including feeding at least fifty people with my famous no-packaging vegan stews. Wait, aren't farmers markets more expensive? Shouldn't I have paid more? I'll leave for another time launching into the perverse incentives in the billions of dollars subsidizing crops and factory farming, forcing me to pay for doof making the nation sick, while the government subsidizes nearly nothing of fresh, local vegetables and fruit (do I sound bitter?), and focus on how I found even with government distorted prices, I still saved money buying local and fresh. First, I buy in season. While others might lament missing strawberries in December, buying seasonal to me…

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Vegan Seitan Stew, 4 minutes prep time (video)

I saw a post on Reddit's community on vegan fitness that talked about making seitan with a prep time of 90 minutes. I responded 90 minutes sounds insane. I make mine with a prep time of about two minutes. Add water and soy sauce to wheat gluten, mix with spoon then with hands, cut into pieces. Then put in pressure cooker with stew for a few minutes cooking time. Maybe I should make a video. They asked me to make the video, so I did. If you want to see just the seitan-making part, jump to the 2-minute mark. Otherwise you can watch me make the whole stew. Including talking to the camera, the prep time is about five minutes for about five meals. Learning…

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You can make a habit stick faster than the “experts” say

All the "experts" have some study for how long it takes for a habit to stick. Here are a bunch of articles from searching "how long to start a habit" not worth reading that give the common answers: How Long Does It Take for a New Behavior to Become Automatic? begins: "According to a 2009 study published in the European Journal of Social Psychology, it takes 18 to 254 days for a person to form a new habit. The study also concluded that, on average, it takes 66 days for a new behavior to become automatic."How Long Does it Actually Take to Form a New Habit? (Backed by Science) says, "Maxwell Maltz was a plastic surgeon in the 1950s when he began noticing a strange…

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Pandemic Fatigue? How to Achieve Pandemic Thriving

I posted on handling what people call pandemic fatigue to Thrive Global today: Pandemic Fatigue? How to Achieve Pandemic Thriving. Here's the text of the article: When I learned I would be locked down indefinitely, knowing we were all heading into unknown territory, I looked for role models. Who had handled such a situation successfully? Nelson Mandela had been locked down for twenty-seven years, most of that time on a cold island, breaking rocks, with a bucket for a toilet. He negotiated with presidents of the nation that locked him up and emerged to get their jobs. I could see what was possible under lock down. While he remained imprisoned, the world celebrated his seventieth birthday with a global celebration. Over six hundred million people…

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I love Goodwill, but we let it enable our wasteful choices

[EDIT: I added a powerful video at the bottom of this post that came out after I wrote this post that documents the results I describe. I recommend watching it. You can make a difference. What you do matters.] If you're going to buy clothes, I recommend shopping at thrift stores, but I think most people use them for selfish, nefarious purposes. There's a Goodwill between me and Washington Square Park and another on 14th Street I pass on the way to and from Union Square. I consistently see lines for people donating to them. Sometimes trucks deliver truck-fulls of stuff to sell. That is, people drop off tons of stuff. I'm pretty sure a lot of them think they're helping people in need. I'm…

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Update: Day 365 of current load of trash

I last emptied my trash on December 26, 2019 so today marks one year for this load. I made a video about the milestone in the style of my first time crossing one year, More than a year since I emptied my garbage, June 2018. Recall, I minimize waste to live by my values, as a matter of integrity, curiosity, and personal growth. I'm happy if people use me as a role model, but I don't believe leading by example works with sustainability. People generally respond, "I'm glad you do it, but I can't." Their addiction speaks. Separately from living by my values, I also lead. Making this video may lead others, but just minimizing trash I do for integrity. https://youtu.be/EQ4qz1Ah4uQ To see what motivates…

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Year 10, day 1 of daily burpees (about 163,000 and counting)
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Year 10, day 1 of daily burpees (about 163,000 and counting)

Today begins my tenth year of daily burpees, not one day missed. My spreadsheet says I've done over 163,000 of them. I have yet to spend one penny doing them. Since I consider them something I do instead of TV, I've saved time doing them too. A recent morning burpee The activity continues to evolve in its meaning and value to me, always increasing, but mostly I think of them, along with the rest of the calisthenics and stretching that make up my twice-daily routines, like brushing my teeth. They're harder to start and leave me more winded, but just as habitual. Discipline I value them most for developing discipline. Without them, or some regular vigorous exercise, what discipline they've developed in me would atrophy…

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A solution to social media messing up elections

We've all read how Facebook, Twitter, and other social media are messing up elections. Lies spread faster than accurate information. Nations like Russia and people looking to troll can create mayhem. Algorithms promote conspiracies. People feel informed when they aren't. Communities polarize. You know the results. The companies behind each platform give lip service to reducing the trends but the trends are profitable for them so they act half-heartedly. They don't look for practical, effective solutions. They suggest things like banning political ads just before the election. I thought of a practical, effective solution. You'll see why they wouldn't think of it. You'll also see how effective it is. My proposal My simple, effective, practical solution: shut down all social media sites for a period…

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My famous no-packaging vegan stew webinar with Plant Powered Metro New York (plagued by technical problems)

Two weeks ago I presented online how to make my famous no-packaging vegan stew with a group called Plant Powered Metro New York. I apologize that Murphy's Law struck hard. Everything that could go wrong did, but I couldn't tell what in the moment so only on viewing it now did I hear how much the microphone distorted my voice. The lighting was off. After starting we found out they gave us the wrong url so we had to restart. Apparently they stitched together the part I did to no one. Lots more problems not worth going into except to note that they filled me with anxiety that I couldn't recover from because we were recording. I wish someone told me how awful the sound…

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Looking for work? See me on Columbia Alumni’s panel: Navigating a Job Search in a Difficult Market

See me and other coaches from the Columbia Alumni Association on a panel: Columbia at Home: Navigating a Job Search in a Difficult Market. The event was July 22. Here is the video: https://youtu.be/DF1yNZUe8_k I mentioned my book, Initiative, so here's the link to it. Event notes How do you keep up your job search virtually and navigate a difficult job market? Career experts Caroline Ceniza-Levine '93BCJulia Harris-Wexler '83TC, '14BUSEric Horwitz '90CCJoshua Spodek '93CC, '96, '99GSAS, '06BUS of the Columbia Career Coaches Network (CCCN), share their top tips on preparing for the job search now and how to best market yourself. A Q&A session follows the panel discussion. The CCCN is a fee-based service of accredited professional alumni career coaches who want to help you…

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Habits create a lifestyle: Hear me on the Style Your Life podcast

Erin and Michelle host the Style Your Life podcast. They wanted to learn and share with their audience about habits, which are the foundation of a lifestyle. They can be if you choose. They led a conversation around habits and how to keep from quitting them. I talk and write a lot about habits and sidchas here. This conversation is a friendly, non-intense entry point. Few things improve a life more than starting and keeping effective habits and sidchas based on your values. Listen to the conversation. EDIT: Erin and Michelle posted the video recording: https://youtu.be/AFGWPHwT9Zs Listen to the conversation.

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