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How “helping” people with disposable goods, especially plastic, isn’t helping compared to reusable. It’s not hard to switch back.

Regular readers know I volunteer to deliver food that stores were going to throw away to groups that make it available for free to anyone who wants it, and sometimes to people directly, always for free. The context: free food distributed with disposable plastic One of the groups, Food Not Bombs, distributes food that many volunteers bring. They also distribute for free hot food that they cook. I believe all the food they cook is made from food that would have been thrown away, though maybe small ingredients like spices, salt, and oil might be bought. People who want the hot food get in line. When served, they are given the food in disposable containers in their choice of plastic or paper (lined with coating)…

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The joy of learning from people I diametrically disagree with (I recommend the practice)

I've written before about a practice I've come to see as a part of maturation: reading and studying people I disagree with---the more opposition, the more I value the learning. I mean more than just learning their views. I mean empathizing with them, learning the sources of their views, and reaching a place where what they say makes sense. Reading, learning, and understanding don't mean agreeing or supporting. On the contrary understanding to the point where they feel understood enables you to lead them. For example, if a pro-choice person says a pro-life person just wants to control women's bodies or a pro-life person says a pro-choice person wants to kill babies, each has undermined their ability to influence the other. When I tell people…

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This week’s selected media, October 19, 2025: The Radicalism of the American Revolution, The Wave (1981), Die Welle (2008), Lithium Extraction and “Green Capitalism,” Anything You Want, Hell Yeah or No

This week I finished: The Radicalism of the American Revolution, by Gordon Wood: Wow, what a book. I'd never read a history like it. It didn't just present dates and events. It talked about how people lived, how their lives changed, how culture changed. I found it fascinating. I learned plenty, including areas I thought I knew well before. His perspective put me more in the moment, understanding changes from their perspective. The book contrasts with Howard Zinn's history of America. Wood's coverage seems as comprehensive and he seems as thoughtful, but he paints a very different picture. Wood loves America, though not blindly. His description of life in the colonies and how things worked before the revolution reveals how it differed from any other.…

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This week’s selected media, October 12, 2025: Tokyo Story, Talkin’ Greenwich Village

This week I finished: Tokyo Story, directed by Yasujiro Ozu: Someone in my meditation group recommended this movie after I spoke about how much Yi Yi and A Brighter Summer Day affected me. I didn't know what to expect. I'd never heard of the director or even the movie. I'm sure I'd seen the title since so many best-movie-ever lists include it. Many reviewers write how it is about a family but so universal that it's about all families. It seemed to me to be so universal as to be about life in general. Yes, it's about an old couple, their children, their children's families, and their grandchildren. It's also about times changing faster than people are prepared for, therefore about war and peace (it…

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This week’s selected media, October 5, 2025: Power and Liberty, two addiction articles, Blood Brothers, and Behind the Curve

This week I finished: Power and Liberty: Constitutionalism in the American Revolution, by Gordon Wood: I've been reading, watching, and listening to Akhil Reed Amar's work. He praises Gordon Wood so I borrowed this book from the library and watched a bunch of videos of his talks. This book covers the history around the Declaration of Independence and Constitution. It covers the events prompting the colonists developing new views on liberty versus monarchical rule, developing principles like separation of powers and the people being sovereign, voting for representatives, checks and balances, and other developments, some new in history. This book led me to realize how easy it's been to consider declaring independence and writing a constitution obvious steps. The parallel processes of creating thirteen state…

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This week’s selected media, September 28, 2025: The Devil’s Climb

This week I finished: The Devil's Climb, starring Alex Honnold and Tommy Caldwell: I got tickets to watch this movie followed by a talk including Honnold and Caldwell. My nephew is a rock climber, so I invited him, who invited a climbing partner friend, plus a coaching client is a climber, so the four of us attended. The movie was engaging, heartwarming, and thrilling. It touches on climate but not other issues of polluting and depleting. On the other hand it shows their camaraderie. My nephew's friend said he thought it skimped on the climbing details, but I lacked the background to tell. Plus we met the two stars and members of their team after, in person. It was part of "Climate Week," where something…

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This week’s selected media, September 21, 2025: The Constitution Today, Groundhog Day, podcasts with Christopher Ryan and Arthur Brooks

This week I finished: The Constitution Today: Timeless Lessons for the Issues of our Ira, by Akhil Reed Amar: I have been studying the Constitution like never before. The path to it was realizing sustainability meant changing culture, which forced me to ask if it was possible, which pointed me to abolitionism, which pointed me to Lincoln and abolitionists, which led me to the Thirteenth Amendment, which led me to the Constitution. Another path branched off to learning about Robert Carter III, which led went through learning the flaws of founders like Jefferson, Madison, Washington, and Franklin, which led to the Constitution. Amar is a constitutional law professor like podcast guest Michael Herz. I first found Amar looking up James Madison. There are dozens, maybe…

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Stop saying the playbook for doubt and deception comes from “big tobacco.” What to say instead.

When people talk about industries sowing doubt to avoid being scrutinized or regulated, people often say that those industries are using the tactics of big tobacco. It happens a lot with businesses the pollute and deplete a lot. I think they're mostly relying on the book Merchants of Doubt, which wrote about how the tobacco industry created uncertainty and other tactics, not to defend themselves so much as to deflect accountability and interest. I agree with the sentiment, but tobacco companies didn't start the practices. It's been a while since I read the book Industrial-Strength Denial: Eight Stories of Corporations Defending the Indefensible, from the Slave Trade to Climate Change, by Barbara Freese, so I might misremember, but it traced them to the slave trade.…

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This week’s selected media, September 14, 2025: Common Sense and A Brighter Summer Day

This week I finished: Common Sense, by Thomas Paine: I read this book because the more I read about it, the more my book seemed to be following its legacy, though I want to be careful about flattering myself, given its sales and influence. I was pleasantly surprised at how much of this book made common sense though the language was hard to understand. I didn't realize a book had affected American history so much. I understand about 500,000 copies sold at a time when the number of colonists was about 2,500,000, meaning 20 percent of them bought it, the equivalent of 60 million copies of a book today. Paine railed on monarchy, especially hereditary, how England was helping itself, not the colonies, and was…

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I reduced my social media use even more.

I avoid Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and most other social media. I still used LinkedIn more than weekly. Still, I had come to think of it as a place of spam. I don't know what it's like for you, but as best I can tell, the words "coach" or "author" seem to invite people I've never heard of to promote "quality leads," book promotion services, and so on. I wondered if it was worth using. I don't read my feed. I rarely met people there. Yet logging on took time. Also, those tabs seemed to slow my browser most. I had to install a browser add-on to fix tab names. LinkedIn kept making them change as a notification, which distracted me from effective work. I knew…

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This week’s selected media, September 7, 2025: Parasite

This week I finished: Parasite, directed by Bong Joon-ho: I had heard people and critics liked this movie. I hadn't heard much detail about it. The title didn't sound appealing. While watching it, I didn't find it credible. Too many suspensions of disbelief caused me to pop out of being lost in the story to saying, "Okay, that part wasn't believable, but let's imagine it was and go with it" or "Is the movie trying to be believable or maybe commenting on other movies, because it's too far removed from life." At the end, I felt I understood what it was about, but didn't think much of it. It reminded me of the Christopher Nolan Batman movies the second times I watched them. The first…

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This week’s selected media, August 31, 2025: Getting to Yes, Getting to Yes With Yourself, The Mindful Body
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This week’s selected media, August 31, 2025: Getting to Yes, Getting to Yes With Yourself, The Mindful Body

This week I finished: Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In, by Roger Fisher, William Ury, and Bruce Patton: I'm sure I've written about this book before. I first read it when I was CEO of Submedia, so over twenty years ago. I've given away more copies of this book than any other that I didn't write. I reread it now because it's the choice for the book club of the alumni community of my workshop. I credit this book for transforming the concept of business in my mind from something mechanical where the goal is to win and if results like the Exxon Valdez happen then so be it to a relationship-based project that when done skillfully mutually benefits all. I took classes…

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This week’s selected media, August 24, 2025: The Problem of Social Cost; Law, Property Rights, and Air Pollution

This week I finished: The Problem of Social Cost, by R. H. Coase: I heard about this paper months ago, or maybe years. I read it because it came up in the Cato Institute podcast I wrote about in Libertarians confused on pollution, sacrificing their core values. At the root: lack of hands-on practical experience. I believe I see Coase's starting point that conflicts don't necessarily mean one person harming the other so the person harming is wrong. Conflicts can go in both directions. The two or more sides can negotiate resolving the conflict. Still, I read the paper for seeing how it applies to pollution. I think this paper misunderstands pollution, maybe because it's from 1960 and people didn't have the experience with pollution…

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This week’s selected media, August 17, 2025: Black Hole Blues, If You Can Keep It, several essays by Woodrow Wilson, The White Man’s Task

This week I finished: Black Hole Blues and Other Songs from Outer Space, by Janna Levin: Somehow I started receiving Janna Levin's Substack (that Is, Substack spammed me, though I doubt Levin caused it). I looked her up. She teaches physics at Barnard. I got my PhD at Columbia and worked with a professor at Barnard, who was one of my main reasons for returning there after starting graduate school at Penn. This book describes the path in the physics and to a degree astronomy communities to detect gravitational radiation. Its descriptions of developing and building detectors at the frontiers of science reminded me of my time at Fermilab and helping build XMM, the x-ray observational satellite I worked on. On the experimental side, though,…

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This week’s selected media, August 10, 2025: The Marvelous Pigness of Pigs, Debate: Baldwin vs. Buckley

This week I finished: The Marvelous Pigness of Pigs: Respecting and Caring for All God's Creation, by Joel Salatin: I spoke with a pastor last month. When I shared about my disconnecting my apartment from the electric grid and leadership work on the environment, he recommended this book. I hadn't heard about Joel Salatin. I found many videos by and about him online. He seemed a mix of passionate, kooky, and craving attention. I didn't put a high priority on the book, but having finished it, I'm more than glad to have finished it. Salatin is gung-ho Christian and mentions Jesus, quotes the Bible, etc nearly every page, which I guess I've gotten used to after listening to every word in the Bible, hosting many…

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This week’s selected media, August 3, 2025: Propaganda, Debunking the Stanford Prison Experiment, Fixed

This week I finished: Propaganda, by Edward Bernays: Bernays wrote this book before WWII and shared views on propaganda with Hitler, whose Mein Kampf, volume 1 I just finished. Both share views on influencing public views with modern practice. Bernays points out that the world works this way. You can deny it and still be swayed by it but be helpless to act on it, or accept it, embrace it, and use it. It's hard to imagine what it would feel like to read it when it came out, not having lived my whole life in its wake. People freak out about it, implying he's one of the most influential people of the 20th century, which he may have been, but also that he's a…

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This week’s selected media, July 27, 2025: Cool Food

This week I finished: Cool Food: Erasing Your Carbon Footprint One Bite at a Time, by Robert Downey Jr. and Thomas Kostigen: I listened to this book for a book club. I found it painful to listen to. It's nice to eat foods that pollute less so I won't argue with it, but it distracts from the problem: our culture lost values that kept humanity safe, secure, healthy, and living long lives in favor of one that tricks us into believing those things require polluting and depleting. Digging in, it misses that there are two carbon cycles and only looks at the distracting one. Know the 2 carbon cycles and don’t confuse them. And, Only specify fixing climate and carbon if you want to wreck…

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This week’s selected media, July 20, 2025: Manufactured Landscapes, Benjamin Franklin (of the city of brotherly love, where I was born)

This week I finished: Manufactured Landscapes, by Jennifer Baichwal and Edward Burtynsky: I hadn't heard of Burtynsky before reading a review of an exhibit in Manhattan of decades of his photography, which included several images. He creates images that are compositionally beautiful of scenes that are scary and horrific but resulting from our culture and lifestyles. They show mines, factories, dying landscapes and ecosystems, and apocalyptic scenes. I plan to go to the exhibit. I recommend looking at his images online, but since he takes wide format original photographs, I anticipate online images pale in comparison to the originals. This video is the first of three of his work and how he works. I recommend his images and this movie. It's beautiful and horrific. Still,…

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This week’s selected media, July 20, 2025: Mein Kampf, Volume 1, because I love learning, even (especially!) from those I disagree with

This week I finished: Mein Kampf, volume 1, by Adolph Hitler: I'm partly nervous about posting about finishing it or even reading it. The First Amendment may make it legal, but just associating with it can blemish, but I oppose that thinking. I finished other works this week but put them in a separate post since who wants to be on a page with Mein Kampf? When I teach the skill of empathy in my leadership classes, I talk about the importance of empathizing with people you disagree with most. My extreme example is that if you were a general during WWII, it would be supremely important to empathize with Hitler. It could make the difference between winning and losing. To understand doesn't mean to…

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This week’s selected media, July 13, 2025: Eichmann in Jerusalem, Madison, Akhil Reed Amar

This week I finished: Eichmann in Jerusalem: A Report on the Banality of Evil, by Hannah Arendt: I heard about this book a long time ago. I wondered if I'd ever read it. I took it on now while learning how people came to do things so contrary to what seems human we can't believe they happened, in particular after The Lucifer Effect. For a book about one of the greatest atrocities ever, it was remarkably accessible. Arendt seemed almost breezy at times and wrote about hundreds of thousands of people being killed in an intervention as you might talk about a typical workday. I didn't know about how much Nazis worked with Jewish Councils. For Nazis to work with Jews wouldn't make sense from…

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This week’s selected media, July 6, 2025: The Lucifer Effect, A Brighter Summer Day (two works I love)

This week I finished: The Lucifer Effect: Understanding How Good People Turn Evil, by Philip Zimbardo: Many of us know something of the Stanford Prison Experiment. It was a psychology experiment in 1971 where a Stanford psychologist led a team that turned the basement of a building into a temporary prison-like space. They recruited two dozen local people whom they randomly assigned to play guards and prisoners for twelve days. All were tested psychologically and found healthy and in normal ranges on all psychological traits they tested. They had to stop the experiment on the sixth day. The participants lost themselves in the roles. The guards became authoritarian and sadistic. The prisoners became learned-helpless and compliant. Some had to leave even earlier for their traumatic…

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This week’s selected media, June 29, 2025: two about Corrie ten Boom, Mathematics of Love, Pomodoro Technique

This week I finished: A Faith Undefeated, about Corrie ten Boom: I learned about Corrie ten Boom from Edith Eger's The Choice. Eger only mentioned ten Boom's name. Corrie ten Boom was a Dutch woman who lived with her family in Haarlem, Holland. The family ran a watchmaking and repair store that had operated over a century. They were devout Christians and when the Nazis took over, they helped Jews by hiding them in their house and helping them escape. They were betrayed. They were imprisoned and sent to concentration camps. Her father died soon, though Corrie didn't learn until after the war. She and her sister were imprisoned and enslaved for years. Her sister died in December 1944. Corrie was released twelve days later,…

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The joy of understanding people we disagree with

The paragraph and three questions below appeared in a recent post about learning from people whose ideas and views I don't know enough to agree or disagree with. After writing them, I thought they deserved their own post. Part of why I'm posting and practicing these things is how clear disagreements become when one seeks to understand everyone independently of taking a side. Have you heard of the trend to counter the concept of a Fear Of Missing Out with Joy Of Missing Out? I want to counter the fear of understanding someone we disagree with implying we support them with the joy of understanding them leading us mutually to resolve conflicts. Anyway, I wrote in the post: I’m trying to understand people on their…

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This week’s selected media, June 2025: Thomas Jefferson and The Choice

This week I finished: Thomas Jefferson: The Art of Power, by Jon Meacham: I'd been seeing lately how much the pattern today of Saying all the right things about freedom, liberty, and values we support Saying others should act by those values, in fact all of society But not living by those values ourselves Even though we could Claiming, against clear, incontrovertible evidence, that we can't repeats how Thomas Jefferson lived. Today, people recognize his flaws. We wish that on slavery he had acted differently. We wish he had, as a politician, acted more to end slavery. We wish he had freed his slaves. We recognize that his personal actions caused internal conflict that inhibited him from acting politically. If I was going to talk…

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This week’s selected media, June 8, 2025: The Choice and The Wrestler

This week I finished: The Choice: Embrace the Possible, by Dr. Edith Eger: At one point listening to this book, I started feeling choked up. Tears started welling up in my eyes. I asked myself, "When has a book made me cry?" "Has a book ever led me to cry?" I continued to ask myself. As the book continued, I started full-on bawling at the experience of the author, how she made her greatest struggles useful for herself, and how she is sharing them to help all of us use our struggles to reach the greatest pinnacles, to reach our potentials. Note: this is not a self-help book, though you can use it that way. When I talk about her struggles, they include being imprisoned…

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