I don’t know if the interviewers are getting better, if I’m developing in conversation, or if I’m just enjoying podcast conversations more, but it feels like the interviews are getting better all the time.
Yesterday, Jim Harshaw (scroll down to learn more about him) of the Success Through Failure podcast posted our second conversation. Second conversations lead to greater comfort, depth, trust, and intimacy, so I recommend listening. We cover a couple exercises from the book, connecting leadership to everyday living, sports, and more.
Jim was a division 1 athlete and coach, among many other achievements so he knows leadership from multiple angles. He’s taken on and overcome challenges many of us don’t even try. All this comes out in his podcast. When you don’t have anything to prove, you can enjoy a conversation.
From Jim’s about page:
Letâ€™s start with you.
Youâ€™ve set goals and maybe even set records. Youâ€™ve definitely failed and at some point found yourself questioning if you were on the right track.
Youâ€™re working hard, but you arenâ€™t quite where you want to be. And to be honest, youâ€™re not sure exactly where you want to be let alone how to get there.
You need time to figure out what comes next, but time is the one thing you donâ€™t have. Youâ€™re too busy, and you donâ€™t have a framework to help you figure out what the right goals are.
I can show you how.
My name is Jim Harshaw. Iâ€™m a speaker, consultant and former Division I All American wrestler.
I grew up in a blue-collar home so learned the value of hard work early on.
I have spent my life surrounded by Olympians, CEOâ€™s and millionaires. Theyâ€™ve all struggled and failed on their way to success. Just like you.
You need to understand thisâ€¦
Every success story includes crushing failure. Steve Jobs, Michael Jordan, Phil Knight, Elon Musk have all failed.
When you realize this, youâ€™ll see that failure isnâ€™t the opposite of success. Itâ€™s a necessary step on the path to success.
But we live in a society that tells us that when we fail it means weâ€™re not good enough or not smart enough or not capable enough. When people fail, they lower their goals and settle for less.
On March 20, 1998, my sixteenth year of wrestling ended in a locker room with blood on my face and tears in my eyes. Iâ€™d just lost the match to become an NCAA Division I All American.
But I had one more season at the University of Virginia. One more chance. And exactly one year later, in front of over 14,000 fans at the NCAA Championships, I did it. I earned a place on the podium as one of just eight wrestlers in the country with the status of Division I All American.
I followed a blueprint for success to get there. The same blueprint got me invited to the Olympic Training Center and took me overseas to compete on a US National Team.
Unfortunately, no one taught me how to apply this blueprint to life outside of athletics.
Fast forward 15 years, and Iâ€™m working below my potential and feeling stuck. But then I started noticing patterns in my life. Patterns of failure and success. I noticed them in business, in personal relationships, in my health and well-being, and in my level of happiness. These patterns reminded me of how Iâ€™d failed as a wrestler. And how Iâ€™d been successful.
I began to see how those lessons could be replicated throughout my life. When I looked at other former athletes who had been able to achieve success, the same patterns were there.
Thatâ€™s when I knew Iâ€™d found a framework for creating a path to elite success in the real world.
Since then, Iâ€™ve shared this blueprint with others. They say things like:
â€œIâ€™m shattering the goals Iâ€™ve set for myself already. I feel pretty much unstoppable. Every aspect of my life has been affected positively.â€
-Neal Ewers, marketing director, Beat the Streets Toronto
â€œWhat I found most valuable was getting a level of clarity on my most important goals that I havenâ€™t had since I was competing in college.â€
-Sam Shames, MIT grad, entrepreneur, 4X All American wrestler
â€œ[Your program] helped me get clarity and knowledge on my life. It helped me develop a system for getting the right things done.â€
-Jake Bloom, M.A., LPC, NCC, Counselor, AOD Program Specialist
â€œI took away two game changers that are now a regular part of my life.â€
-UFC veteran, author and motivational speaker, Charlie â€œThe Spaniardâ€ Brenneman
â€œI Â know it sounds cliche but I really do think it helped me change my life.â€
-Trevor Kittleson, Engineering Teacher, Football and Wrestling Coach
My clients include Olympic coaches, professional athletes, and entrepreneurs. Theyâ€™ve achieved their personal best and now you can too.
You can regain the confidence, clarity and accountability that you had as an athlete. Once you do, failure will be your secret weapon for success.
You have unique skills because of your background as an athlete.
You can achieve success by harnessing the power of failure.
You just need the framework to put it all together.
I will teach you.
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