What we can learn from Dietrich Bonhoeffer: “these difficult years have forged an even closer bond between us than ever before.”
Dietrich Bonhoeffer lived in a culture whose values he disagreed with. He could have dropped his values. It would be easier and more comfortable not to have to push against resistance. He didn't. He chose to live by his values, even when it was hard. One result was that he couldn't spend time with his family in person. Did that separation mean they loved each other less? Did it deprive him of expressing his love for them or receiving their love for him? Did it deprive them of expressing their love for him or receiving his love? No on all counts. On the contrary, he wrote to them, regarding the separation: "these difficult years have forged an even closer bond between us than ever before."…
