Fitness


When the best way to solve a problem is to solve it, not analyze it forever

One of the greatest improvements in my life was switching from what I call the Dandelion Model of solving problems to the Burning Building Model. This week's New Yorker describes a major successful application of the Burning Building Model in James Surowiecki's article, "Home Free?". Briefly, the Dandelion Model of problem solving starts with the belief that if you don't solve a problem from its roots, then like a dandelion, it will keep returning forever. The Burning Building Model starts with the belief that if you know a solution to a problem, just doing that solution will often solve it, like if you're in a burning building, you don't have to know the fire's cause to know you should get out fast. The Dandelion Model…

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1,000 days of burpees

If I did my math right, today is my one-thousandth day of burpees, starting at one set of ten per day, now up to two sets of twenty-five per day. That's somewhere over 40,000 burpees. I've done them in North Korea, China, and across the U.S. Following the principle that if you miss one day you can miss two, if you miss two it's all over, I haven't missed one rep since starting. They are about discipline and dedication as much as fitness. More important for some people, since I've done most of them on my own and no one would know if I skipped them, they are about integrity. Some advantages to them I don't mind repeating. They put me in the best shape…

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Pain, discipline, and self-reliance

I woke up this morning with pain in my back. I felt it yesterday morning too. It had woken me up both nights before, I guess when I moved in ways that caused it to hurt more. Then this morning when I did my burpees the pain got searing. I had to stop at seven. The pain was bad enough I had trouble breathing. The pain was in the same spot that always hurts---about halfway down a few inches left of my spine. I don't know why I get pain there, but I figured it was just something minor that would go away in a few days. I was throwing a frisbee around over the weekend and I could see myself pulling something doing that.…

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Cold Showers — The Series

I compiled most of my posts on cold showers into a series so you can easily read them at once. Click here to read it. If you think they're crazy, try them. At least start by reading the series. I couldn't imagine them being helpful before trying them, but I think they're incredible now.

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Simplifying personal development

People trying to sell you things make developing yourself harder. They talk like their thing is best and people invest themselves into their activities. The biggest issue to me is that people too invested in one activity try to exclude other activities, making participating all-or-nothing. I think most people like to do a variety of things without committing exclusively to any, which conflicts with the plans of people selling things. Take yoga for example. While many people do yoga sometimes, you know what I mean by yoga people. Yoga people dress, act, stand, eat, and talk like each other. They shop where yoga people shop. They talk about courses they take and all that. They make their personal development activity their identity. Look at what Wikipedia…

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Exploring boundaries means you cross them sometimes. But regrets pass.

I threw away some medals from some marathons I ran a few years ago during a stint of simplifying my life and getting rid of stuff. As far as I know, you can't get replacements. When getting rid of them I thought, "The joy and value of a marathon is in the running, the training, and the experience. A medal is just to show off to other people. I didn't run it for vanity." After getting rid of them, I regretted it. I crossed a boundary, but I only realized after I did it. But since then, I came back to my original view. The marathon was about running. Though I regretted getting rid of the medals for a while, in the long run it…

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Want to change something big and complex? Start simple and long term.

All my habit and SIDCHA talk leads to talking to a lot of people about starting and keeping habits. I've seen that nearly everyone who keeps a solo habit long-term started the habit with something simple that they can keep going without trying too hard. People who bike to work keep up their biking habit longer than people who bike separately because they have to go to work anyway. People who exercise at home keep up their exercise habit longer than people who have to go to gyms because you have to be at home anyway. Non-solo habits also benefit from simplicity, but can benefit from other motivations, like working with an effective instructor at a gym course or joining a team, but they introduce…

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Want to start a habit? Here’s the best instruction to start — SIDCHA style

I visited a site designed to help people start new habits called lift.do. You would choose one of the many habits from their list and they'd support you with instruction, pairing you with other people starting the same habit, sending you graphs of your progress, and things like that. A lot of hand-holding. I get their intention, but I find it counterproductive. I think it's effective at getting people to temporarily try habits without their taking root. The main fault I find with the site is that supporting someone externally diminishes the activity's intrinsic value. You could say the support is like training wheels that, once the habit takes root, you can let go of. I suppose, but I suspect people don't use them that…

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How to get the body you want, never buying another fitness or diet book

Since I work on motivation, I've read a ton of diet and exercise books. They generally try to fill you up with information. While filling your head with information doesn't necessarily hurt your fitness efforts, it won't likely help either. And any book claiming any latest and greatest methods can't get over that countless people before that book created fit, healthy bodies for themselves. Information doesn't make you fit. Behavior, and only behavior, does. Information can only influence your beliefs, which can influence your motivations and behavior, but that connection is indirect and weak. Working backward gives effective answers. First, figure out the body you want The first step was simple. For the body you want, do the behaviors that create it Only the behaviors…

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Exhaustion rocks! … and relaxes

Within the first few steps of this morning's run, I could tell I didn't have the energy I normally did. I kept running anyway. I don't know why sometimes my body has less energy. Sometimes my legs feel like lead. Other times I have tons of energy. I haven't done a long run, nor pushed myself hard on the rowing machine lately. I surfed earlier this week, which takes a lot out of me, but that was Tuesday and wouldn't affect Saturday. Maybe I didn't eat or sleep enough last night? Oh yeah, the temperature was above eighty most of the run, which probably contributed, though it was only in the high seventies when I started. Anyway, I thought about running a shorter distance than…

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“Wheat Belly:” Almost as worthless as Quiet

I was recommended a book called "Wheat Belly." I read a lot more books than I write about so it has to be remarkable. I started to remark how much I disliked it. The more I put my dislike into words and the more I looked in the book to explain what I didn't like, the more I found to dislike it more. I'm saddened to find such a popular and recommended book so disappointing, like Quiet, which I reviewed too. (I recommend many authors and books in my Resources and Inspirations page) I don't find Wheat Belly compelling. On the contrary, I find it irresponsible. He keeps calling wheat unhealthy, and I get that it is for people who genetically can't tolerate it but…

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Six pack pic for accountability

Scroll down for the picture I've held back from posting since this site is mostly about leadership, meaning, value, importance, purpose, emotional awareness, emotional skills, etc. First a few words. I find people's attitudes toward diet and exercise become self-righteous so I prefer not to bring up diet and exercise in conversation, so I'd generally not bring it up here. Plenty of sites show before and after pictures of people's fitness. My site isn't like theirs. But the more physically fit I get and the less effort I find it takes, the more valuable I find fitness. It feels great to become more fit. What do you have that you value more than your body? And if you believe, like I do, that your body…

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40,000 Burpees!

I don't keep track of my total burpees, but since my last update at 30,000 burpees in January since starting at ten a day on December 21, 2011, I hit 40,000 somewhere around now. In the past I've celebrated milestones by writing about the value of burpees. Today I'll write general thoughts. Moving up to fifty a day (two sets of twenty-five) from forty (two sets of twenty) was my largest single jump. I did it because my sister's basement, where I was staying during my apartment renovations, had a low ceiling that limited how high I could jump, making burpees easier. I stuck with the number when I moved back home. My latest challenge is to start my burpee set right away. The jump…

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The sadness of “I wish I could have a life like yours”

I've always wanted to experience the feeling of surfing when I'm skilled at it. Have you ever asked a surfer to describe it? They can't put it into words. I love skiing and playing ultimate. Surfing seems to have something similar, maybe more. So I've meant to learn for a long time. It turns out they teach surfing at the Rockaway Peninsula in Queens, New York City, a subway ride from my home. After years of meaning to, I scheduled a lesson Friday morning. But I'm not writing about surfing. When I left my building as the sun rose, I ran into a neighbor who asked where I was going. I told him I was going to take a surfing lesson. He said, "I wish…

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Making burpees friendly

Starting a set of twenty-five burpees is hard. I do something that makes them a little friendlier. It comes from the friend I started doing burpees with years ago. Most descriptions of burpees start with you dropping down. For some reason my friend starts with a jump up before his first burpee. Ever since I first learned he started that way, I have too: I start with a jump, then do my "first" burpee. I find the jumping the hardest part of burpees, so all this time I've been doing a half burpee more than I count each set, and the harder half. But doing it also reminds me of him, which makes them friendlier. As I've written about habits and changes in behavior, starting…

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Making fitness inevitable

I've never had a flat stomach with definition---a six-pack---but I'm close to it now and I'm amazed at how well getting close to it motivates me to eat healthily and exercise. It's not the first time I've felt motivation to get fit. Earlier times led to long-term changes nothing like what diet books seem to recommend. While I didn't grow up fat, I was chubby enough that my step-brother made fun of me and my parents tried to get me to eat more slowly. I wasn't close to today's typical fatness, but I felt shame. I love the way I'm thinking about food and my body now. I haven't felt such an improvement since I started playing sports competitively in college and started wearing clothes…

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The most important part of exercise: starting with knowing what emotion you want

Longtime readers will remember that before burpees I got a rowing machine -- see my posts "Best solo workout I know" and "First time sprints" -- and enjoyed it, putting in about half a million meters in the first year of using it. I finally it back out of storage and started using it after renovations. I enjoy using it as much as ever. Actually, I'm enjoying it more for an unexpected and counterintuitive reason. The batteries for its readout died. Instead of replacing them I decided to row without having my stats. I like it more without the real-time stats. I figure with over half a million meters on it I'm keeping my cadence and speed consistent enough without the constant read-out. Rowing is…

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Half-marathons and cold showers

[This post is part of a series on Cold Showers. If you don't see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view that series, where you'll get more value than reading just this post.] This morning I ran about a half-marathon. I say "about" because I run for the fun of it and how it makes me feel after (and this year to train for the marathon again) so I don't know the exact distance. I ran down to the river, up to Central Park, did a lap, and ran back along the river. I know people out there run fifty-mile runs. I know people train more than a half-marathon now and then. Even so, there's no getting around that running twelve…

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Why people get fat, from a systems perspective

Most people look at fitness from an individual perspective---what you eat, how much you eat, how much you exercise, who you spend time with, and so on. I find that perspective useful for many purposes, but not all. I consider it the most important perspective for the individual to plan what to do about their fitness. People don't live in vacuums. They have contexts. I find a systems perspective helpful to understand this context because we've created an environment where a lot of people are going to get fat, no matter how diligent we think people can be. If you create a system that keeps people, including medical doctors, ignorant about nutrition and fitness, pay food producers hundreds of billions of dollars to produce and…

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Hard work is never easy. You can love hard work.

Why do people not get this? If something takes hard work, only hard work will attain it. And hard work is hard. Sure, some work is easy, but some things take hard work. I talk about how much I enjoy doing burpees. More precisely, I like doing them in principle, I like the effects they have on my physical condition and motivation skills, and I like just having finished a set. Before I start every set, I don't want to do them. They're hard. Really hard. While I'm doing them, my body motivates me to stop. I have to work hard physically to do them and mentally to keep going. That's hard work. Sure it's for only a few minutes a day so I'm not…

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“Why we store fat” doesn’t make sense

You've heard the reason why we store fat. You probably never questioned it. Have you noticed it doesn't make sense? You've heard the following from any number of sources. Have you ever questioned it? The reason our bodies store fat goes back to the earliest of times. Fat storage was a tool of survival for humans. When food was plentiful people ate as much as they could. The extra food was stored as fat tissue (also known in medical circles as adipose tissue). When food was scarce at other times of the year then the stored fat was used as energy. The bodies of these early humans required the stored fat tremendously for their energy source. What is this talk of "When food was scarce…

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What a pound of juicy, ripe cherries teaches you about life

You can learn a lot from a cherry. Enjoying my first half-pound of these sweet, tangy, juicy wonders of nature of the season reminded me how much nature teaches us about life. Sorry to my southern hemisphere readers. "Multitasking" makes you do multiple things poorly. Focusing on one thing gives you quality. I was about to start reading while eating. But wait! Why would I allow something to divert my attention from the cherries' flavor and how they burst with juice in your mouth. Nor could I process what I read while giving any attention to the fruit. No, better to do one thing well than two or more things poorly. Experience and base feelings trump intellect. Did parents and school value grades over recess…

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370 Burpees in one day! 100 the next.

Remember I found a guy in England who did a one-year burpee "ladder" in my post "A burpee brother?" A burpee ladder means one burpee on the first day, two on the second, three on the third. A one-year ladder means you go until you do 365 on the last day for a total of almost 70,000 in the year. I've meant to do 365 burpees in a day since then. So I did. Ten days of meditation has its ups and downs. Day five they asked us to hold our positions for the full hour, which led to searing pain and sweat about forty minutes in. By day six my body had figured out which muscles to relax so they weren't fighting each other…

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“Want to eat more” and “tastes good” aren’t the same feeling

Do you notice the difference between something tasting good and something making you want to eat more of it? If you want to eat healthy, you'll care about the difference because companies that make junk food know the difference and use it to manipulate you. You end up spending money on unhealthy things that are profitable to them and you lose control of your eating habits. Most of the time these feelings overlap: a mango tastes good and when you have some you usually want more. But they don't always overlap. Eat too much mango and while the taste will stay the same so it will taste just as good, you won't want to eat more of it. See the difference? I find most fruit…

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SIDCHAs are a floor you won’t drop below and they don’t depend on others

Have you had problems? Have you felt depressed? We all have. Sometimes life feels like it's free-falling, like as bad as it gets it seems like it can still get worse and does. When life brings you down, it helps to have things that keep it from dropping lower. Friends and family are resources people commonly cite as keeping their lives stable and keep them from dropping too low. As much as they help, friends and even family are outside your control, meaning you could lose access to them, leaving you vulnerable to suffering. SIDCHAs, Self-Imposed Daily Challenging Healthy Activities, keep your life from deteriorating and they don't depend on anyone else. Having a few SIDCHAs stabilizes your life and helps keep you from getting…

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