Which way of living embodies more love: Picking up litter or walking past it?

We didn't ask to be born into a culture that produces so much garbage, but we were. Now, nearly any place you live, if you walk in a public place, you pass litter. I don't go out of my way to pick it up, but when I pass litter and it doesn't take too much effort, I pick some up. I don't pick up everything. I give myself constraints to make it easier. I generally don't pick up: Things the size of a cigarette butt or smaller Absorbent things Wet things Flat things that are hard to pick up, like sheets of paper When no trash cans are near If my hands are full If I'm in a hurry With those restrictions, I commonly find…

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824: Dr. Rob Reed, part 2: Learning to love leading effectively

Rob starts by sharing his experience from leadership coaching in the context of a hospital with people in intensive care as well as their families. Situations are often emotionally intense. Treating just facts doesn't work, or can work against you. It can be "terribly ineffective" (not unique to medicine). He recounts learning to lead through emotional awareness, using social and emotional skills he developed through practice in our coaching. He connects with people meaningfully: patients, their families, the other members of his team, everyone. He talks about not telling people what to do but to listen and act with empathy and compassion, that he's developing through deliberate practice. Maybe the most heartfelt part of our conversation comes at the end where he speaks about his…

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Love Is Love, Garbage Is Garbage, and Pollution Hurts People: Pride 2025

Yesterday was the annual Pride March, which means a wrecked Washington Square Park. I make it an annual habit to take pictures of the state of the park after. As usual, to clarify, I'm selecting the event not to say anything about the march itself, its causes, or its people, but for the garbage. My mission is to change American and global culture and the pictures illustrate our culture. I wish I could record the noise overnight of the street sweepers, garbage trucks, and leaf blowers. They sounded like jet planes right outside my window, hour after hour. In past years, I've gotten up around 3am to take pictures. This year I went around 7pm, when the march had just ended and park was still…

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This week’s selected media, June 29, 2025: two about Corrie ten Boom, Mathematics of Love, Pomodoro Technique

This week I finished: A Faith Undefeated, about Corrie ten Boom: I learned about Corrie ten Boom from Edith Eger's The Choice. Eger only mentioned ten Boom's name. Corrie ten Boom was a Dutch woman who lived with her family in Haarlem, Holland. The family ran a watchmaking and repair store that had operated over a century. They were devout Christians and when the Nazis took over, they helped Jews by hiding them in their house and helping them escape. They were betrayed. They were imprisoned and sent to concentration camps. Her father died soon, though Corrie didn't learn until after the war. She and her sister were imprisoned and enslaved for years. Her sister died in December 1944. Corrie was released twelve days later,…

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I love when a team hits on all cylinders: when everyone acts with their specialty and we collectively achieve more

I should have written about this fun interaction with the core team working on the alumni community site this spring. Four of us were on a call. We were struggling to figure out a technical challenge. We wanted to do something that the host software didn't seem capable of doing. We felt close to giving up. Would we have to pay for the higher tier? Pay for a service call with the company? Switch software? Give up on functionality we wanted? One guy mentioned how a text message outside the system had prompted him to act in the way the the software was supposed to. I commented that we might be able to work around at least part of the deficiency. Another person commented how…

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More love for the recent heat wave now that it’s passed

I wrote the other day in Why I love the heat, even when it’s 95F (35C) on the way to 102F (39C) about how the heat, while uncomfortable, gave me reason to grow, learn, and connect. Among other things, it connected me to the countless people around the world and back in time who live and lived in such conditions. I can learn from our grandparents and people in other cultures. More love for challenge This morning I woke up for the first time in three days after not waking up sweating. Had I not experienced the heat, last night would have felt hot. Instead it felt comfortable. Not relatively comfortable. Comfortable. Complex durable systems like our bodies and minds develop resilience from being stressed.…

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Can you love your neighbor as yourself in challenging times?

I didn't realize the media had covered the heat spell so much. I only knew people kept asking me about sleeping without air conditioning the past few days. Now that I looked up the news from a couple days ago, I see they were going nuts about a heat dome. All I know is that for the past three nights, I woke up sweating and had trouble falling asleep, even setting up a separate mattress closer to the window. There wasn't much breeze. Regular readers know I don't use air conditioning. Was I suffering? While, I won't deny discomfort, in my heart I wasn't thinking about global warming, the environment, or anything abstract like that. I was thinking of the people I would hurt if…

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Why I love volunteering

A few people commented on my delivering food yesterday at the hottest part of the day. The temperature hit 101F (38.3C) while I was pulling around 80 pounds of food in a cart, according to my phone's app . People often also flap their gums about not having time to volunteer. I never hear them say they don't have time for social media or other screen time, yet Americans average over 5 hours of screen time per day. I rarely spend that much time volunteering per week. And, depending on the volunteering task, I count some as cardio work. Plus my food delivery volunteering leads to free food. I help neighbors. I reduce waste. Volunteering as an auxiliary police officer helps make my neighborhood and…

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Why I love the heat, even when it’s 95F (35C) on the way to 102F (39C).

New York City is supposed to hit 102 F (39 C) today. So far it's 95 F (35 C) and since my battery was drained and the rest of the week is forecast to be cloudy, I'm out in the park charging. The park is mostly empty. Here's my view right now, showing a fraction the number you'd see when the temperature was lower. You can also tell I'm sitting in the shade. It cools me probably ten degrees. Yes, I'm more lethargic and less active than usual because I overheat fast if I move around. My burpees this morning I did significantly slower than usual and felt well more winded. I could go on about how much less comfortable I feel. I'll also probably…

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Today, 1988: Global Warming on front page of NY Times. Today, 2025: Americans pollute and deplete more than ever. Where’s the love?

Today in 1988, the New York Times front page headline said "Global Warming Has Begun." Today today, Americans blame, rationalize, and justify, but pollute more than ever. They blame CEOs, companies, and politicians, denying and suppressing that they pay them to do what they do. We can stop if we choose to. It would mean valuing other people's suffering over our convenience.

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I love how much leading in sustainably leads to learning the history of liberty and freedom

Pollution destroys life, liberty, and property. Depletion violates the principle of leaving enough as good in common for others. Basic principles of how people can live together include protecting life, liberty, and property and leaving enough as good in common for others are among the most basic and necessary. The language looks like it comes from Thomas Jefferson, John Locke, and their Enlightenment peers. I would say their Enlightendigenous peers to include the new world people who brought hands-on practical experience with democracy to the old world ones, who didn't. I knew some about them before starting to lead in sustainability, but now I'm learning more. I love learning about people who worked for liberty and freedom, including overcoming slavery, Apartheid, Nazism, caste systems, and…

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Not hurting innocent people a “purity test”? I think your ignorance or internal conflict is showing.

Thomas Jefferson owning slaves, including his own children, wasn't an abstract immoral act. He hurt people. He took away their freedom and hurt them. It isn't a "purity test" to say that by owning slaves he hurt people. When people act like living more sustainably is a "purity test" I see two possible causes. The generous one, which I find implausible in today's world, is that people don't know polluting hurts people. People often tell me "Josh, they really don't know. " When I respond that they know enough and if they pretend not to know, they're deliberately keeping themselves ignorant, people generally agree, and intentional ignorance doesn't make you innocent. It means they knew enough to know they're hurting people, they just want to…

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More junkies shooting up in broad daylight in the park

The title says it all. Here are pictures of more junkies shooting up in broad daylight in the park. Sorry the exposure isn't brighter for the people but I was trying not to draw attention to myself. I was in the park charging and trying to work. There were half a dozen people in the group shortly before I took these pictures. If you magnify the second image you can see the syringe going into his arm. For the record, as far as I can tell, people who fly, drive, buy doof, order takeout, buy fast fashion they dispose of soon after, or shop a lot online hurt other people and communities more than these junkies. A lot more. It's just less visible, or rather…

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How can anyone imaging this self-indulgence a better life?

My building neighbors often have deliveries to their doors, which I presume happens all over New York City. Here are some recent deliveries, first, I think, coffee, pastry, and other doof: Next, unnecessary sundries: I know plenty of people who marvel at how convenient modernity has made life. I wouldn't be surprised if I looked enough into my past if I found I liked the prospect of not having to leave my apartment, talk to a person, or even interact in any way with a human or challenges of life to get luxury, polluting, inessentials. I don't remember the last time I bought paper towels. Probably before I started avoiding packaged food, which would be over ten years ago. Meanwhile, I have more sponges than…

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Can I save this apple tree a neighbor threw away?

It's tragic what people throw away in our culture that rewards and values disposability. Across the street from my building I saw this apple tree being thrown away. It looks nearly dead, maybe past gone, but there are some hints of green if I look. I don't know who bought it, but why bother watering a tree when you can just throw it away and buy a new one, right? I brought it home and will try to resuscitate it. I doubt I can but all I have to do is water it. If I fail, I didn't have much chance anyway so no great loss. If I succeed, I'll get apples I help bring to life. Even if I water it optimally, the angles…

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The joy of understanding people we disagree with

The paragraph and three questions below appeared in a recent post about learning from people whose ideas and views I don't know enough to agree or disagree with. After writing them, I thought they deserved their own post. Part of why I'm posting and practicing these things is how clear disagreements become when one seeks to understand everyone independently of taking a side. Have you heard of the trend to counter the concept of a Fear Of Missing Out with Joy Of Missing Out? I want to counter the fear of understanding someone we disagree with implying we support them with the joy of understanding them leading us mutually to resolve conflicts. Anyway, I wrote in the post: I’m trying to understand people on their…

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Juneberries, the law, and discovering local fruit

Juneberries are just going out of season. I love their taste. I love the process of picking and eating them. I don't know their nutritional value, but I understand that purple in the plant kingdom usually means lots of antioxidants and that berries in general are very healthy. [EDIT: I got lucky and found a couple pages on juneberry nutrition and it turns out they rank near the top of antioxidant content of all berries. Score!] So I eat tons of them. While eating them, I constantly say to myself, "Only a handful more, then I'll leave. If I want more I can come back tomorrow," then keep eating them. No regrets! A few people pushed back, saying it must be illegal to take them.…

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823: Mark Mills, part 5: We’ll Never Have an Energy Transition

Reading Mark's recent piece We’ll Never Have an Energy Transition in Manhattan Institute's City Journal prompted me to write my recent post, When they say “transition fuel,” they mean “more polluting and depleting,” not less pollution or depletion. Read them both and you'll see he inspired what I wrote and he wrote a lot more, with more research and editing. I recommend reading it and listening to his podcast episode there, but I'd start with this one. In our conversation, you'll hear more details and back story. The core idea of his piece: Every fuel we’ve ever used, we still use, and more than ever. If you think that by ramping up solar and wind that in any way that new energy availability will decrease our use of…

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How we act when at the top of a dominance hierarchy: Learning from Thomas Jefferson

I've written many times about Thomas Jefferson embodying American culture today. He said all the right things about freedom and liberty. He considered slavery wrong. He still practiced it. His rationalizations and justifications are ours. I link to a bunch of those posts at the bottom of this post. I recommend them. If you want to understand how you sound to someone who lives by values you likely say you do, like do unto others as you would have them do unto you, live and let live, leave it better than you found it, and love your neighbor as yourself, read Jefferson's rationalizations and justifications. You know they're bogus. He knew they were bogus. He just about said he knew he would go to hell…

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This week’s selected media, June 2025: Thomas Jefferson and The Choice

This week I finished: Thomas Jefferson: The Art of Power, by Jon Meacham: I'd been seeing lately how much the pattern today of Saying all the right things about freedom, liberty, and values we support Saying others should act by those values, in fact all of society But not living by those values ourselves Even though we could Claiming, against clear, incontrovertible evidence, that we can't repeats how Thomas Jefferson lived. Today, people recognize his flaws. We wish that on slavery he had acted differently. We wish he had, as a politician, acted more to end slavery. We wish he had freed his slaves. We recognize that his personal actions caused internal conflict that inhibited him from acting politically. If I was going to talk…

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I wrote a poem: The Poem of the High-Fiber Diet (trigger warning: juvenile humor)

Am I going to get in trouble for a puerile post? Will it distract from my sustainability leadership focus? I hope not. I had a blast making the poem. Regular readers know my sidchas and standard operating procedures mean that I meditate as one of my first morning activities. Before meditating I go to the bathroom. Between my routine being so consistent and my diet containing so much fiber, I poop every morning around the same time. This morning I woke up about fifteen minutes before the alarm. As I sat on the toilet, my digestive tract wasn't ready to send the poop out, being fifteen minutes ahead of time. The situation brought to my mind the classic poem that people used to write on…

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More on “How the liberation of living more sustainably feels”

I have to add to what I wrote last month on How the liberation of living more sustainably feels. In that post, I wrote To describe what living more sustainably feels like, imagine one morning you walk out from your home and step into a puddle, drenching your feet. Imagine further that you’re in such a hurry that you don’t have time to change so you end up wearing wet socks the entire day. Living more sustainably is like taking off wet socks that have been making you miserable all day, the awareness of which you tried to repress but you never did. It’s like that but many times stronger. It feels like freedom and liberation. I left out scope and scale I left out…

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Are there people who eat absolutely zero unpackaged food? I think so.

I was out in the park along the Hudson River picking juneberries. Not only was the food not packaged, I picked them myself. They're incredibly delicious. The tree evolved to provide fruit to be eaten. I saw a lot of people picnicking on the grass, eating at the outdoor bar in the park, and eating while they walked. Every piece of food or beverage I saw them eating was bought pre-prepared, pre-packaged with disposable garbage that hurts people, with the exception of a few reusable bottles. I didn't see even one apple or other piece of fruit or non-disposable food container, like Tupperware containing something homemade. I saw pizza, Gatorade, bags of chips, plastic platters of crudités, takeout containers, and mostly doof. It got me…

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822: Ryan Mandelbaum, part 1: Wildlife Is Everywhere, Including (especially) NYC (and where you live)

This recording went far beyond my usual preference for recording with guests in person when I can. We met in Prospect Park on one of the peak birding days of the year. Tons of people were out with powerful binoculars and cameras. You'll hear lots of birds chirping in th background and even people who knew Ryan coming up to talk to him. Nature is everywhere. We can enjoy it where we are when we want. You'll pick up how much fun we were having, wonder we were experiencing, and community we were connecting with. Nature makes such experiences happen. Have fun listening to us in nature watching and listening to birds and birders. Keep in mind: the point is only superficially birds and birders,…

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