Sketch for my next book’s opening

on November 28, 2025 in Creativity, SIDCHAs

I’m constantly thinking of how to make my next book as accessible as possible. How do I write something so people want to read more, want to change their lives. Usually I write ideas by hand on paper, a mode that feels like there’s less between me and what I write. Then I transfer it to my files by typing it into the computer. I also write here as a[…] Keep reading →

Book idea: How Not to Fly

on November 27, 2025 in Creativity, SIDCHAs

I’ve thought of several book ideas lately. Since I can only work on one at a time and don’t want to distract myself, though I’ll keep up the sidcha of posting daily here, I’ll post some titles, sketches, and outlines here when I think of them. I welcome feedback. Draft ideas Title: How Not to Fly: How to make your most harmful activity feel repugnant and easy to quit Chapters[…] Keep reading →

Top 2025 Christmas Gifts … or landfill within a week?

on November 26, 2025 in Addiction, Tips

Below shows the results if you search Amazon for “Top 2025 Christmas gifts.” I will bet over 95 percent of them will be in landfills, bottoms of drawers never to be used again, or some equivalent by the end of January. I’m pretty live-and-let-live about what makes people happy (though not when it hurts someone else without consent), but I couldn’t find one item there whose existence made the world[…] Keep reading →

An important perspective to understand the Israel-Gaza conflict

on November 25, 2025 in Models, Nonjudgment

Everyone seems to pick sides. Everyone who expresses an opinion seems to support one or the other but not both. I probably missed something or offended someone in what I write below. If so, I don’t mind being told my mistakes so I can learn. There are plenty of ways to look at the situation, and you may have heard more than I have, but I hear people describing the[…] Keep reading →

Simple math humor

on November 24, 2025 in Creativity, Education, Humor, Stories

Saturday I posted about a joke I did in a college math class. That math class did witness a great joke, but not by me, and it may only make sense to people who have done advanced math. The professor was going to prove that a certain group, which is a precise mathematical concept, had a certain property. The group is the set of symmetries of an icosahedron. The property[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, November 23, 2025: Lesson Plan, Useful Not True, How to Live, La Grande Illusion

on November 23, 2025 in Tips

This week I finished: Lesson Plan: The Story of the Third Wave, directed by Philip Neel and David Jeffery: If you’ve followed my pursuit to learn about the pattern of how people are induced to act against their values by culture around them—also known as corruption—you’ll recognize the subject of this movie. It’s about high school history teacher Ron Jones, who in 1967, when his students asked how Germans could[…] Keep reading →

My first time doing a NY Times crossword puzzle

on November 22, 2025 in Addiction, Habits

Last week I was working at the library. I ran out of scrap paper. They have a bunch. On the other side of a sheet was something they provide every day: the New York Times crossword puzzle. It was a couple days old when I got it, hence it being scrap. I was about to use the back side, which was the side I wanted. I scanned a few clues[…] Keep reading →

One month to the winter solstice

on November 21, 2025 in HandsOnPracticalExperience, Nature

The winter solstice is in one month. During the summer if I need to charge, I can go to the roof any time from around 8am to 8pm, weather permitting. This time of year, the sun only rises high enough to charge from about 9am to maybe 3pm. It’s cold. It’s windier so I can’t leave the panels alone because if the wind catches them, they blow like a sail.[…] Keep reading →

My short conversation with a guy injecting heroin into his neck in broad daylight, steps from my front door

on November 20, 2025 in Addiction, Relationships, Stories

I walked past this fire truck the other day. It was bright daylight, not nighttime, like when I took this picture. I saw a guy standing about where the “18” is on the truck’s bumper, facing toward the truck, doing something with some stuff on the bumper, keeping it hidden, looking at himself in the reflection on the chrome on the grill. He was focused on what he was doing[…] Keep reading →

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