Today’s business models: Why we fight to keep what makes us miserable

on November 19, 2025 in Addiction, Freedom

People have figured out business models to lock people in: Find what people want, deliver it, then become the intermediary. That is, cut them off from it without you. The results Now people think Facebook and American Airlines connect them with family even though they cut us off from them. They we Instagram brings us friends even though it cuts us off from them. We think restaurants bring food but[…] Keep reading →

When did yoga become so plastic?

on November 18, 2025 in Fitness, Nature

When did a 5,000-year-old practice to attain liberation and promote physical and emotional well-being come to hurt people for centuries, even millennia? Here’s a definition of yoga I found online: Yoga : a Hindu theistic philosophy teaching the suppression of all activity of body, mind, and will in order that the self may realize its distinction from them and attain liberation : a system of physical postures, breathing techniques, and[…] Keep reading →

More garbage insanity: collecting leaves and sending them to landfill

on November 17, 2025 in Nature

In a decade of picking up litter daily I’ve seen about five other people picking up litter. I’ve seen many litter. Since buying packaged food supports what becomes litter, nearly everyone who buys packaged food or takeout, or shops online causes litter. In the park, I see tons of people bring packaged food then act as if it wasn’t their fault when the wind blows their napkins away, they forget[…] Keep reading →

This week’s selected media, November 16, 2025: Here Comes the Sun, Green Tyranny, Fossil Fuel Abolition, Democracy in a Hotter Time, Judgment at Nuremberg, The Idea of America

on November 16, 2025 in Tips

This week there wasn’t much sun, so I read and listened more than usual since they take little to no power. I finished: Here Comes the Sun: A Last Chance for the Climate and a Fresh Chance for Civilization, by Bill McKibben: I’ve met Bill and support his environmental work. Bill writes in this book that he doesn’t believe people will change their levels of consumption so concludes that only[…] Keep reading →

Library strollers and nannies. Why are nannies almost only female? Where is the call for equal employment for male nannies?

on November 15, 2025 in Education, Nonjudgment

Longtime readers may know that when I lived for a year in Paris in 1990-91, I was an au pair. I lived with a family and took care of their young daughter. It was a wonderful opportunity for all. I don’t know if you can tell from the pictures below, but my neighborhood library is a popular place for young kids in strollers, taken there by adults. As far as[…] Keep reading →

Am I the only one who sees these problems with America’s liberals, conservatives, and libertarians?

on November 14, 2025 in Awareness

I’ve meant to write this post for a while, but I feel like people will misunderstand and think I’m saying something I’m not. Sometimes I feel like everyone sees the main problems with America’s liberals, conservatives, and libertarians. Others I feel like I’m the only one. In fairness, each group does what the others do, but each specializes in the following: Does anyone else see that the biggest problems with[…] Keep reading →

My wonderful dream last night, playing with a dog.

on November 13, 2025 in Stories

I don’t usually remember dreams, but I half woke up before the alarm this morning. I was half in the dream and half awake. In the dream I was playing with a dog like in this picture. I’ve never owned a brown lab, but that’s the dog in my dream. I remember being about the size of the dog in the dream and the dog wasn’t particularly big, so I[…] Keep reading →

The average American spends 5 hours per day on social media but claims not to have time to cook. Yeah, right.

on November 12, 2025 in Addiction, Relationships

The title says it all. Anyone who spends more than an hour a day on Instagram or Facebook is lying to themselves and others if they claim they don’t have time to cook. It’s the addiction speaking. Claims you’re spending time with family are lies too. I’ll be happy if you correct me if I’m wrong, but history, anthropology, and personal experience tell me that f your children are older[…] Keep reading →

Differences between environmentalists’ strategies and mine

on November 11, 2025 in HandsOnPracticalExperience, Leadership, Nature, Nonjudgment

I’ve been increasingly realizing and pointing out that I am not an environmentalist. I surprised myself to discover it. I had long felt misunderstood when people asked, “If you like nature so much, why don’t you go to the woods live in nature?” It had long been obvious to me that we needed to change culture, not escape it, and New York is an influential cultural center. Then I checked[…] Keep reading →

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