Category Archives: Relationships

Surprises are for birthdays and competitors. Nothing else.

on August 12, 2016 in Relationships

I don’t like getting or giving surprises in relationships. The only exceptions are for birthday parties and the competition. Everyone else I try to prepare as early as I can. I do my best to foster relationships where people feel comfortable telling me things as early as they can, even if it would make me uncomfortable. I believe my courses teach these habits through teaching empathy, compassion, and self-awareness. I’ve[…] Keep reading →

Quora Saturday: big-time failure, anger, jealousy, insecurity, and leadership

on July 30, 2016 in Leadership, Quora, Relationships

Continuing my Saturday series on posting my answers to questions from Quora, here are my next questions answered: What are some historical examples of failures managed by great leaders? Especially by taking responsibility and not throwing anybody under the bus. How do I overcome feelings of anger and jealousy? How can people overcome insecurity and jealousy in their relationships? Is it possible to overcome jealousy? If so, how can jealousy[…] Keep reading →

These two surprisingly touching Vince Lombardi quotes reveal the source of his winning leadership

on June 11, 2016 in Fitness, Leadership, Models, Relationships

For Vince Lombardi’s birthday, I wrote in Inc.com, “These two surprisingly touching Vince Lombardi quotes reveal the source of his winning leadership.” The piece begins These two surprisingly touching Vince Lombardi quotes reveal the source of his winning leadership For the great coach’s birthday, how to create winning traditions in your teams. I’m writing this article exhausted and sore because two days ago I started researching for this article. Having[…] Keep reading →

At Princeton’s ELab: How to turn cold connections into warm ones and building community

on May 31, 2016 in Education, Entrepreneurship, Relationships, Tips

I got a few short clips from my presentation on entrepreneurship when I spoke at Princeton’s Elab recently. This clip shows a great nugget of how to turn cold connections into warm ones. It has more to it, but that’s the big one. I love putting it into practice.

Why I like helping people discover their inhibited passions

on May 19, 2016 in Awareness, Freedom, Nonjudgment, Relationships

We all have strong motivations—what I call passions. Some of us feel like we don’t, but we do. Motivations that drive us our whole lives, that we can always tap for energy to do things. Some we like, others we don’t. Some are solitary, others are social. One thing for everyone: our greatest passions are also our greatest vulnerabilities. Great passions enable others, if they know about them, to motivate[…] Keep reading →

Video: What an entrepreneurship course can deliver, part 3

on May 10, 2016 in Education, Entrepreneurship, Models, Relationships

Here is an interview with a student who took my online entrepreneurship course, Nikita, who is an undergraduate at NYU, now working with a team of medical engineers on a medical device she created. Reach your potential in business and life. My courses don’t take time from the rest of life. You work with people in your life that you care about on projects that you care about without distracting[…] Keep reading →

Six Lessons I Learned at Lunch With the Best Leader in America

on April 29, 2016 in Education, Inc.com, Leadership, Relationships, Stories

My post on Inc.com today, “Six Lessons I Learned at Lunch With the Best Leader in America,” begins Six Lessons I Learned at Lunch With the Best Leader in America Experience trumps everything in leadership and she has more than you do. From the Girl Scouts to the White House. Is Alan Mulally, former CEO of Ford, whose stock price went up 18 times under his watch, a fair judge of good leadership? How[…] Keep reading →

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