The Ethics of Visiting North Korea

Continuing writing about my North Korea trip... If you read this blog regularly you know I don't find value in people telling others what they should consider right or wrong, which ethics discussions usually do. I try to avoid using judgmental or evaluative language except when the criteria for evaluating are clear. Talk about visiting North Korea and you'll find people want to talk about the rightness or wrongness of going. I can't say what's right or wrong for anyone else, but I can share how I worked things out for myself. If that helps you, I'm glad. If not, feel free to share your disagreement. I might learn something. The North Korean government presents itself as the best in the world. The rest of…

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The Method: the foundation, part I

The Method is based on the Model. Keeping in mind that like any model, the Model simplifies what it represents for its purpose. The Model's purpose is to improve our lives by helping us understand our motivations, emotions, and emotional systems. As with any model, it can't be absolutely right or true. Neither can any alternative. I mention the above for context because the discussion on the Method will all adopt the perspective of the Model. Let's start our discussion on the Method with its foundations. Recall two points from our discussion on the Model. First, you can control some parts of your emotional system while others you can't. You can control you environment, beliefs, and behavior. You can't, except to a limited degree, control…

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What’s touring North Korea like?

Continuing writing about my North Korea trip... The next most common question after how to get to North Korea and its legality is what it's like. This blog will cover the experience in depth. For now some overall conditions of touring North Korea. Later posts will cover the sites and experiences. This post covers the basics of how the tour goes. Limited choice The North Korean government gives you a limited choice in the places you can go, basically choosing from a list of a few dozen government-approved places. Want to go elsewhere? Not likely. If you read where others have gone, you'll hear the same short list almost each time and see pictures of the same places. Since almost no one knows what North…

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How to get to North Korea and if you can legally

Continuing writing about my North Korea trip... Mention you went to North Korea and you'll hear two questions more than any others: How do you get there and is it legal? With proper paperwork Americans can legally tour North Korea, according to the State Department, but it warns you you're taking serious risks, you just have no legal recourse from the U.S. government because the two countries have no diplomatic relations. How to get there, on the other hand, can be easy. I hear doing all the paperwork yourself is impossibly complex. On the other hand, letting Koryo Tours handle the paperwork, as we did, makes everything easy. All you have to do is show up in Beijing with a double entry visa to China,…

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From the Model to the Method

I've written about the Model, my foundation for understanding value, meaning, purpose, importance, etc in life, based on understanding yourself, particularly your motivations, emotions, and emotional system. I'll now start on the Method, which covers how to implement the Model. I developed the Model on my own, without intending to create something meaningful or helpful, though I think I ended up doing so. The Method, however, came from applying the Model in life. If you learned the Model and implemented it in your life, I expect you'd come up with the Method too or something similar. By reading my Method you can save time and resources by avoiding my mistakes. I can't think of anything more valuable in life than to replace more of your…

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North Korea!

The trip of a lifetime began with this message on my birthday from my friend Jordan Hey happy birthday man! All the best! What do you have planned for this year? p.s. I'm going to North Korea in August -get jealous! :) North Korea?!? That came out of the blue. I had never considered going before. Could I travel there legally? Safely? I didn't even know what questions to ask. But I knew Jordan. He's a great guy with great friends. I knew enough that if he was organizing, I would love the trip. Besides -- f'ing North Korea! I agreed to go before thinking what would come of it. I didn't have the budget after Shanghai the month before. But who knew the next…

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The Model: summary

[I replaced this post with a series on The Model. Click here to view the series, where you'll get more value than reading just this post.] For the past six weeks I've posted on the Model, my model for human motivations and emotions. The Model forms the foundation of what I consider the best way to view and live life. For those who have been reading along, I recognize it may have been a bit dry or academic. I expect later posts will make life and living the lifestyle you want seem easy and obvious, but require referring back to the Model, in which case this summary will simplify learning it. Today's post summarizes all those posts, which will probably end up a chapter in…

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My next two leadership seminars: October 23,30 and November 5,6 at the New School

  LEADERSHIP THROUGH SELF-AWARENESS AND EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE In a two-day seminar, learn how to develop your personal leadership skills, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence by utilizing the latest advances in cognitive behavioral science, evolutionary psychology, and positive psychology. The course is open to all area business school students, alumni, and colleagues. In the past the seminars have sold out quickly, as such we are currently offering two courses.  Below you will find the dates of the courses and a link that you can follow to sign up. If you have any questions feel free to contact me. Schedule: (Note both sessions cover identical material) October session(consecutive Sundays): Day One: Sunday, October 23, 2011  noon–5pm Day Two: Sunday, October 30, 2011 noon–5pm November session(one weekend): Day One:…

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Union Square in Motion summary

Click here for all my posts on Union Square in Motion. A summary of my Union Square in Motion posts: Opening event pictures Fantastic behind-the-scenes making-of video Press and media about it Video of child viewing it Invitation to opening and map More videos Video of installation Map to find it Announcement of initial installation, pre-fine-tuning, with making-of images

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Union Square in Motion: opening event pictures

Pictures from the September 26, 2011 opening of Union Square in Motion, presented by MTA Arts for Transit, Parsons the New School for Design, and us, the producers and artists. My friend with the camera left when the crowd was still building and before the reception at Parsons. I'll try to find more pictures of the festivities. EDIT: found a couple pictures of the signs posted at Parsons where they hosted the reception, but not during the reception.   In the meantime, click here for all my posts on Union Square in Motion.

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The Model: what is freedom?

[This post is part of a series on The Model -- my model for the human emotional system designed for use in leadership, self-awareness, and general purpose professional and personal development -- which I find the most effective and valuable foundation for understanding yourself and others and improving your life. If you don't see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view the series, where you'll get more value than reading just this post.] Ask people -- yourself! -- what they value and freedom will rank near the top. What do they mean by freedom? I bet you don't know and that this post will show you can have more. The better you know what freedom means, the more you can bring…

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Communication skills exercises, part VIII: breaking the ice

[This post is part of a series on Communication Skills Exercises for Business and Life. If you don't see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view the series, where you'll get more value than reading just this post.] For many people, meeting someone at all is a major challenge. Today's exercise gives you an all-purpose introduction you can use in all circumstances. It's simple, requires no preparation, won't come off like a line, and starts conversations. I'm not saying it solves everything. You still have to keep the conversation going, which the previous exercises are for. But, assuming you're reasonably well-groomed and your body language doesn't shock people, no one will think ill of you for introducing yourself this way. The…

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Audio interview: how travel improves your life — even without traveling

Why do you travel? How does traveling improve your life? If you do, you probably have many reasons -- experiencing new cultures, food, languages, natural beauty, etc. In this interview, I share some of my life lessons from international travel, probably with some new perspectives. I also talk about how I get the value of traveling without traveling, saving time, money, and other resources, finding greater richness in daily life than you'd expect otherwise. [audio:https://joshuaspodek.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/life_lessons_travel.mp3] [videofile]https://joshuaspodek.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/life_lessons_travel.mp3[/videofile]

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The Model: strategize, then enjoy

[This post is part of a series on The Model -- my model for the human emotional system designed for use in leadership, self-awareness, and general purpose professional and personal development -- which I find the most effective and valuable foundation for understanding yourself and others and improving your life. If you don't see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view the series, where you'll get more value than reading just this post.] A quick followup to yesterday's post on first learning to manage your emotions, then enjoying the freedom mastery brings you. Here is some general advice for anything that requires planning. You probably already know it, but it bears repeating. First strategize, then act (and enjoy). In other words,…

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The Model: bring about emotions you want and enjoy them, don’t dwell on them

[This post is part of a series on The Model -- my model for the human emotional system designed for use in leadership, self-awareness, and general purpose professional and personal development -- which I find the most effective and valuable foundation for understanding yourself and others and improving your life. If you don't see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view the series, where you'll get more value than reading just this post.] Creating a lifestyle you want by bringing about the emotions you want is an art. I've written a lot about the craft -- the functional view of emotions, which is useful for bringing about emotions you want. Let's talk about the art today. The functional view may sound…

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