Op Ed Fridays: Challenging beliefs on men and masculinity
When I turned 17 I received the letter from the federal government that they required me, by my next birthday, to register for what it called Selective Service and and that I call the draft. I don't remember the details, but I remember something about punishment if I didn't. I also remember thinking I didn't feel I had the experience or maturity to comprehend this obligation imposed on me to risk my life and possibly have to kill others. Neither of my sisters received a comparable letter. The experience was one of the first I realized that society treated men differently---expecting us to risk death and killing. It felt sexist. Years later, I remember my mother describing my step-brother's relationship with his ex-wife as her…
