Category Archives: Choosing/Decision-Making

There will always be something just beyond our grasp we crave. Or we can learn to stop craving.

on January 20, 2026 in Addiction, Choosing/Decision-Making, Freedom

Artificial intelligence is just the latest instance of a technology that, by polluting and depleting, deprive people of life, liberty, and property without due process of law. People think of the perks it might bring them despite violating the Constitution. So they convince themselves that it will actually benefit those it hurts. They can’t say exactly how, but they think if we just use more of it, it will somehow[…] Keep reading →

Where the problems with social media come from and the big result, part 1

on January 19, 2026 in Choosing/Decision-Making, Freedom

I’ve meant to start developing a view for a while but I keep not starting because I haven’t fully developed it. I’m going to bite the bullet and write a few ideas down, not yet complete and coherent. Sorry if it ends up confusing. When the internet was starting to become mainstream, say the 1990s, people looked forward to it democratizing communication compared to the press and broadcast since anyone[…] Keep reading →

What I wonder when people ask how I get by

on January 14, 2026 in Choosing/Decision-Making, Freedom

People ask me all the time things like “how do you get by without flying?”, “How do you get by without a contract with the power company?”, and “how do you get by producing so little trash?” I know they’re thinking about material things and mainstream values of acquiring more stuff even at the expense of relationships so from their perspective I’m depriving myself and sacrificing. From my perspective, I’m[…] Keep reading →

A sidcha and self-awareness update

on January 2, 2026 in Awareness, Choosing/Decision-Making, Fitness, Habits, Perception, SIDCHAs, Stories

Doing things consistently and daily for a long time enables you to notice nuances, which increases self-awareness. Since I have a six-day exercise cycle that I begin on the first of each month, in months with 31 days, I like to vary what I do with the extra day. In December I did two things. Sorry for the long post, but what I describe below felt like a meaningful experience[…] Keep reading →

Having the number of kids you want is freedom. People, especially government, telling you otherwise is usually coercion.

on December 8, 2025 in Choosing/Decision-Making, Freedom

The news keeps covering that population is growing less fast than before. Note that it is still increasing, just the rate of increase is slowing. They overwhelmingly treat it as a problem. They say so because they use economic models built to show population growth always helps, which is wrong. Their models saying something is a problem wouldn’t necessarily mean it was a problem even if their models weren’t wrong.[…] Keep reading →

Why I work on sustainability leadership here and now despite other things I could do instead

on November 10, 2025 in Choosing/Decision-Making, Visualization

You’ve probably heard the advice not to compare things to the Holocaust or slavery. I have. It says that however bad you think your thing is, it’s not as bad and you just end up looking ignorant. [EDIT November 16: Immediately after posting this post, I started updating and editing the graphs, explanations, and more. The changes were too big to just update this post. I’ll keep it here for[…] Keep reading →

Tik Tok and Instagram or hands-on practical experience?

on October 11, 2025 in Choosing/Decision-Making, HandsOnPracticalExperience, Leadership

Two things I haven’t kept track of but happen over and over: Sure, I could go for the quick clicks as the guy off the grid in Manhattan. I could probably get a million followers, but to change global culture, continuing the legacy of Abraham Lincoln, requires a solid, deep foundation. I’m getting closer to launch all the time, but not there yet. The reason my material has value and[…] Keep reading →

Passing fancies and shiny objects sap life of meaning, if you don’t know your values and how to live them

on October 10, 2025 in Awareness, Choosing/Decision-Making, Exercises

I said the following words today and realized I had to post them here: Chasing shiny objects means you’re running away from what you value. For background, I describe passing fancies in my book Initiative: Passing fancies are things we enjoy in the moment but don’t bring long-term emotional reward. Since everyone’s values differ, your passing fancies will differ from mine. Our world is full of passing fancies like social[…] Keep reading →

Their motivation to make doof: to drive your emotional system to buy more

on October 8, 2025 in Addiction, Choosing/Decision-Making, Doof, Fitness, Freedom

I was thinking about the people who manufacture addictive things like doof. If you believe that someone choosing to buy something means they valued what they bought more than what they paid for it, then you think that the more they buy, the more they’ve improved their lives. Then the more addictive you make the product, the more you sell. You can tell yourself that your profit means their life[…] Keep reading →

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