Some insensitivity I perceive from parents
I hear consistently from parents, "Since you aren't a parent you can't understand the challenges of raising a child and how it makes doing what you do about sustainability impossible," or words to that effect. They often imply or even imply, though not as bluntly: "You haven't held a newborn you created and have to care for for its survival. You haven't felt that love. You haven't experienced as much as I have." No one has lived anyone else's life so no one can know or feel what it's like to live as someone else. I'm not them so I don't know exactly what they mean, but similar messages come from many sources, so I think I catch some of the pattern. I think they…
