Category Archives: Nonjudgment

Do conservatives oppose the practices of seeking diversity, equity, and inclusion or just those practices being mandated?

on April 23, 2025 in Choosing/Decision-Making, Nonjudgment

I understand that liberals/progressives support DEI programs and that conservatives attack them, but I haven’t followed this culture war that closely. I think the battle affected the presidential election. I hope I don’t make myself look too ignorant about an important issue, but it seems that there is a distinction between what is being attacked and what conservatives actually object to. I wonder if conservatives value practicing these things, though[…] Keep reading →

More cultural exchange because of not flying: plinking and target practice

on April 22, 2025 in Freedom, HandsOnPracticalExperience, Nonjudgment, Relationships

I don’t know your views on guns, but I value both exploring different cultures and not polluting, which destroys life, liberty, and property. When my friend invites me to go to target practice at his shooting range outside the city, I’m happy to explore a culture as different from Greenwich Village, NYU, and Columbia as most places on earth. Unlike nearly anyone I know, I find cultures as diverse as[…] Keep reading →

Filter bubbles, algorithms, polarization, and living in different worlds? What you can do about it.

on March 22, 2025 in Nonjudgment, Tips

We’ve all read stories about how algorithms, polarized media, and so on are leading to situations where people with different political views learn such different information about the world we might as well be living in different worlds. If one person watches only liberal media and another only watches conservative media, they view events through different lenses. One may view the environment as an issue about protecting wildlife while the[…] Keep reading →

Why do people like hearing me share my vulnerabilities?

on February 7, 2025 in Awareness, Nonjudgment, Relationships

People like hearing me share my vulnerabilities. I’m not special. People like hearing anyone share their vulnerabilities too, but I noticed it this week about myself. At the beginning of this week, I thought about blind spots. We all have things we do or don’t do, or know or don’t know, and we aren’t aware of the consequences differing from what we expect. Learning about them can help us improve[…] Keep reading →

The value of family support when living by your values when society opposes them: Janae Marie Kroczaleski, part 2

on January 25, 2025 in Fitness, Nonjudgment, Relationships

Living true to our deepest values is its own reward. Fewer rewards are greater, all the more so when it requires struggle. All the more so when it deepens our closest relationships. Living by the values of sustainability—community, health, reciprocity, liberty, freedom, and stewardship, for example—is challenging today. No matter what I do in trying to live more sustainably and leading systemic change toward sustainability, people say others can’t do[…] Keep reading →

The emotional struggles of living by your values when society opposes them: Janae Marie Kroczaleski, part 1

on January 24, 2025 in Choosing/Decision-Making, Fitness, Nonjudgment, Relationships, Stories

Almost ten years ago in this blog I wrote about an experience of art expressing something I didn’t know could be expressed. Ingmar Bergman’s Fanny and Alexander captured an emotion I felt with my father and no one else. That emotion hit me hard. It was powerful. It influenced big decisions in my life, especially to learn and teach the social and emotional skills of leadership. I just experienced a[…] Keep reading →

“I never had a more optimistic outlook than when things were going to shit,” said my friend about suffering a debilitating disease

on January 10, 2025 in Nonjudgment

A friend reminded me of a life lesson we could all use in facing our environmental symptoms. In her words: “I never had a more optimistic outlook than when things were going to shit.”

Disposable means imperialist. So does polluting.

on December 30, 2024 in Freedom, Nature, Nonjudgment

The dictionary defines imperialism as: The policy, practice, or advocacy of extending the power and dominion of a nation especially by direct territorial acquisitions or by gaining indirect control over the political or economic life of other areas. Making something disposable means when you’re done with it, you put it into someone else’s space. Likewise with pollution. In principle, if the disposable thing biodegrades, it might decompose, but most disposable[…] Keep reading →

“They blame me for their guilt”

on December 28, 2024 in Nonjudgment

I heard someone speaking on nature conservation. After he spoke someone in the audience described how people who promote conservation in words but don’t practice it in deed often call people who also practice it pushing too hard, too self-righteous, or the like. The speaker responded: “Yes, they blame me for their guilt.” The statement rang true. People acting against their own values feel guilty not because others who act[…] Keep reading →

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