A model to help live and let live

on May 29, 2013 in Exercises, Freedom, Models, Nonjudgment, Tips

[This post is part of a series on “Mental models and beliefs: an exercise to identify yours.” If you don’t see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view the series, where you’ll get more value than reading just this post.] One of the things I love most about where I live, the West Village, is its diversity. And not just in the things people most talk[…] Keep reading →

A model to get in fewer arguments and influence more effectively

on May 15, 2013 in Awareness, Exercises, Models, Nonjudgment, Tips

[This post is part of a series on “Mental models and beliefs: an exercise to identify yours.” If you don’t see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view the series, where you’ll get more value than reading just this post.] Do you get in more arguments than you’d like? Do you feel like people don’t understand you and you have to explain yourself a lot in[…] Keep reading →

A model to help accept things without judgment or feeling sorry for yourself

on May 14, 2013 in Exercises, Freedom, Models, Nonjudgment, Perception, Tips

[This post is part of a series on “Mental models and beliefs: an exercise to identify yours.” If you don’t see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view the series, where you’ll get more value than reading just this post.] Do you find yourself feeling sorry for yourself and not like feeling that way? Do you get depressed or feel helpless when things don’t go your[…] Keep reading →

A model to rid your life of guilt and blame in favor of getting things done

on April 16, 2013 in Exercises, Leadership, Models

[This post is part of a series on “Mental models and beliefs: an exercise to identify yours.” If you don’t see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view the series, where you’ll get more value than reading just this post.] Do you get that guilt and blame don’t help your life but you can’t stop yourself from blaming others sometimes and feeling guilty other times? Do[…] Keep reading →

A model to motivate success instead of feeling sorry of yourself

on April 11, 2013 in Exercises, Models, Tips

[This post is part of a series on “Mental models and beliefs: an exercise to identify yours.” If you don’t see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view the series, where you’ll get more value than reading just this post.] Do you envy others’ achievements? Or happiness? Or true love? Or something someone else has that eludes you? Today’s belief helps keep me resilient to feeling[…] Keep reading →

A model to motivate physical and emotional fitness

on April 10, 2013 in Awareness, Exercises, Fitness, Models, Tips

[This post is part of a series on “Mental models and beliefs: an exercise to identify yours.” If you don’t see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view the series, where you’ll get more value than reading just this post.] Your body is the physical manifestation of your thoughts and behavior. Two starting points for today’s belief. First, how do you decide what diet, exercise, and[…] Keep reading →

A model for stress that calms you down

on April 8, 2013 in Awareness, Exercises, Models, Nature, Tips

[This post is part of a series on “Mental models and beliefs: an exercise to identify yours.” If you don’t see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view the series, where you’ll get more value than reading just this post.] Does the world stress you out? Do people and things cause you stress? Do you get even more stressed at your helplessness to reduce how stressful[…] Keep reading →

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