534: Mom, part 2: Opportunity and oppression: race and religion in my childhood

I recorded my second conversation with my mom about my childhood and before during the pandemic, in the spring of 2020. Shortly after recording our first conversation, which covered race, George Floyd was murdered. You know the rest. I knew we had spent years as white minorities in India and in a black neighborhood in Philadelphia, at least part time. I was curious to learn more of the time she would have remembered better. In this episode we talk about being redlined, being the victim of race-based violence and objectifying, as well as the access to opportunity to resources for our skin color. Also friends who narrowly escaped Hitler, why my mom converted from Lutheran to Judaism, and bringing classes of her black students from…

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A gift your partner will love receiving. No cost or waste. Minutes to prepare.

Following up on my post yesterday about Buy Nothing Season, I came up with a gift idea that costs nothing, takes almost no time to prepare, and only uses a sheet of scrap paper. I don't know about you, but I would love to receive it. I think it would build a relationship. I doubt I came up with it. More likely I heard it a while ago and it popped into my head. The gift Take a piece of scrap paper. Divide it into twelve pieces. Write on each the following, or what's appropriate to your relationship: "Good for one X within 24 hours of redeeming, no questions asked.", where X can be Shoulder rubFull body massageHome-made dinnerListening to you in an argument without…

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Tomorrow is Buy Nothing Day. Make it Buy Nothing Season. Give the gift of your presence and attention.

Our culture promotes the wrong idea that buying things brings happiness. More like addiction. Stores yesterday were busy fake marking up prices to fake mark them back down. They aren't doing you any favors. Did you know that many manufacturers make lower quality items specifically for this time of year. They break down sooner, costing you more, filling landfills more. But they really hit the poorest this way, which is how they stay poor. Tomorrow and for the rest of the year, besides food, avoid buying stuff. Give the gift of your presence and attention, undivided and undistracted by stuff. What to do instead Instead of buying, enjoy what nature you have access to: parks, rivers, jogging, plogging, cooking. Read books. Give a shoulder rub…

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533: Laura Coe, part 3: The Nature of Love

Longtime listeners will remember Laura from episodes 192 and 209, over two years ago. Her book, Emotional Obesity, made a big effect on me, as did her warmth and move from success in tech entrepreneurship to her podcast, The Art of Authenticity. She pursued authenticity in herself and her coaching clients. We became friends and kept in touch since. She's continued exploring, where it led. As you'll hear in this episode she shared with me where it's led, which she's sharing in three new books, The Nature of Love, The Nature of Self Love, and The Nature of Boundaries. In them she explores and shares about an energy field called Akasha and its access to otherwise unseen wisdom and more. I'd never heard of Akasha…

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Another reason for individual action

"What I do doesn't matter," people say. "We shouldn't get distracted from changing systems by focusing on individual actions. BP is tricking us." I disagree. Another reason for individual action. Asking if there's any point in it to solve our environmental problems is like saying "if we want to lower infant mortality. Should I change my child's diaper?" Helping all babies live sounds vaguely like helping an individual child feel better. If you didn't think too much about them, you might consider them related. They are in the same field of helping babies, but you don't change your baby's diaper to help all babies live. You do it because you do what you think is right. Separately from helping your baby, you also influence others…

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532: Michael Lenox, part 3: How to Decarbonize the Global Economy by 2050

At last, a conversation with a knowledgeable economist! Longtime listeners remember Michael here after his last book. He just published a new one, The Decarbonization Imperative: Transforming the Global Economy by 2050. His book and our conversation cover why should we go to net zero by 2050, is it possible, and, if so, how? We agree on the mission of dramatically cutting emissions and most strategies to achieve it. We disagree on the relative importance of some strategies and measures. Listen to hear our respective views, healthy agreement, and healthy disagreement.

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Buzzfeed’s privilege “calculator”: How I Did

Maybe you're one of the over four million people who have seen Buzzfeed's video illustrating how society affects us by having people step forward or backward based on their experience: https://youtu.be/hD5f8GuNuGQ I don't know what credence anyone gives the questionnaire, but I copied it from the YouTube page and answered it. Some answers I wasn't sure about, but tried to answer as honestly as I could. My Rating If I calculate right, my answers add to +2 out of a possible range -13 to +22. The average of those numbers is 4.5, so my score is below that average. Does this mean Buzzfeed considers me below average privilege? Or positive privilege? I don't know what the average score of people who have answered the questionnaire,…

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531: Scott White, part 1: The Founder/CEO of an Energy Company on Sustainability

Two of this podcast's top goals are To bring leaders to share and act on their environmental values, from any area, but especially polluting fieldsTo help change culture from expecting sustainability is a chore or burden to expecting joy, lightness, freedom, and reward. Both happened in this episode. On the second, you'll hear when I invite Scott to act, he had something in mind (he knows This Sustainable Life!). It sounded extrinsically motivated so I asked if it connected with the values he had just shared. As we spoke, more personal things emerged. Do you hear a different level of interest and depth of motivation for his second task? Does it sound intrinsic and more motivating? I heard between the two commitments the difference between…

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Genesis 1:26-28 and Sustainability

Genesis 1:26-28 says And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth. I think about the…

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On depression

First, I'm not depressed if you saw the title and felt worried. I'm taking a break from my usual topics because I read an article on depression that hypothesized it was a different state of consciousness, not just another emotion. I'm not sure what that definition means, but depressed people often describe depression as something you can't understand unless you're really, truly depressed. Blue But every description I've heard sounds like what I've experienced. I've felt profoundly depressed at times and mildly depressed many other times. I haven't felt meaningfully depressed in a while, but I've never lost the sense of what it feels like. Over the years, I've found ways to avoid it become too deep so it would be hard to get out…

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530: Cassiano Laureano, part 2: Burpees for the body, banzai tree for the heart and mind

Cassiano's first episode led to more listener comments than most. People loved his enthusiasm. I find guys who know martial arts tend to speak with a security. The opposite of insecure or desperate. So I think people found him accessible and engaging. I think you'll find him more so this episode. Of course, we talk a bit about his world record for burpees. As you can tell from this episode's title, he fulfilled his commitment by buying a banzai tree. He loved it! He shares his experience buying it, caring for it, and designing it, or grooming it. I'm not sure the right word. Sadly, I lost the video of the tree, but you can hear him describing it. You may remember from his first…

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529: Katie Redford, part 2: No distractions. Keeping oil in the ground.

I see exactly two highest priorities for material goals to restore Earth's ability to sustain life. One is keeping fossil fuels in the ground. Down there it's safe. Above ground, it's poison and deadly. However clear and straightforward, almost no one focuses on this simple, effective, attainable goal. Katie does. Our first conversation was just starting when we had to stop. We mostly talked that time about her past, groundbreaking work. In this episode we talk about her present work with pipelines in the U.S., their disproportionate effects on communities based on class, race, and more, and her work on them. You can hear her passion in every sentence. I felt connected with someone so devoted and passionate, not waiting for others to act. This…

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Profane

People define the term sacred differently, but I talk to a lot of people about what nature means to them and I hear a lot of them describe it as sacred. I understand them to mean it's spiritual, divine, not to compromise on. Recently I came across a word for the first time in a while that hit me as appropriate for pollution, deforestation, and the various other things we're doing that lower Earth's ability to sustain life: Profane. Since then, I think of the word and concept while picking up litter in particular, and while considering what we're doing the environment in general. As with sacred, you can define profane differently, but I think most people's definitions will include pollution. I share the idea…

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My brief conversation with someone smoking crack by Washington Square Park, next door to Babbo, with a twist at the end.

This morning as I walked to Washington Square Park to pick up litter, then to drop off my food scraps for compost in Union Square, I saw someone on the steps of a brownstone, curled up, fiddling with something. I'd seen that look before, of someone concealing doing drugs. Sometimes they pull their shirt or jacket over their heads. When not that many people are around, they just do the business in the open. I could have been wrong. If right, I couldn't tell if smoking, injecting, or what. The person was focused enough on his or her task not to notice me. I was crossing the street so was on the other side of the parked cars. I looked and saw a glass pipe…

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Why everything will collapse (someone else’s video)

I rarely post other people's content as the main part of my blog, but this video put together a lot of what is predicted to happen the way a few generations ago people predicted global warming and sea level rise. People doubted it not for disagreeing with the observations and predictions but because they didn't want to believe. It made them feel bad. The global economy and human population collapse, meaning billions of people dying, will make people feel bad if it happens. We're reeling from the effects of behaviors of people generations ago so what we do will keep affecting people for decades. Millennia, really. Even with all that damage locked in, there are levels of disaster and we can avoid the worst. https://youtu.be/YsA3PK8bQd8…

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People who fly do it for themselves and end up hurting others. People who avoid flying do it for others and end up helping themselves.

The title says it all: People who fly do it for themselves and end up hurting others. People who avoid flying do it for others and end up helping themselves. When someone explains why they have to fly, it's a reason that helps themselves. They may say they fly for family, work, or to be a good citizen, but it comes back to themselves. They benefit. They hurt the rest of the world: the people and wildlife displaced to dig the oil, the ten million a year who die from breathing polluted air, those hurt from sea level rise and climate change, those who suffer from noise pollution near airports, and so on. When someone says why they don't fly, some sense of stewardship and…

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Is flying to protest in Glasgow like PETA practicing animal sacrifice?

I'm not criticizing protesters at COP26. Maybe they'll achieve more than I will, though the meaningful comparison is to what they could achieve optimally. It seems to me that flying to Glasgow to protest polluting is like PETA practicing animal sacrifice to help animals or the Pope worshiping Satan to promote Christianity. I'm not trying to be coy. I think you need to practice the values you promote if you want others to follow. My point isn't about the magnitude of the emissions of their personal flights. It's about their credibility and effectiveness. Again, the relevant question is how effective could they be without acting against their values? Could they have protested as effectively without flying there? If forced not to fly, what could they…

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528: Don’t Bother With Stewardship. It Makes Your Life Worse. Especially If You’re American.

I've meant to record this episode for a while, as the idea of saying "fuck it," not trying, forgetting about the future and my effect on others, and enjoying what our society offers seems everyone else's choice. So I'm going full snarky. A rare unedited episode, starting from these minimal notes: Reasons not to care MoneyClothesTravelUnderstandingDisgust, can look awayDisposabilityKids: was going to say I couldn't look them in the eyeSales and marketingGet credit anywayShowersCarsEat anythingCommunitySociety is for you Reasons to care Help other people you don't know and aren't bornAnimals Why I can't not care I lack the privilege of scientific ignorance

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Is Capitalism Driving Our Environmental Problems?

I see a strong sentiment, especially among youth, of capitalism being the source of our environmental problems. I'm not sure if everyone agrees on what capitalism means. On the scale of the myriad ways thousands of human cultures have lived over hundreds of thousands of years, communism and socialism are pretty close to capitalism, compared to say, how hunting and gathering societies lived. I think most Americans can't imagine an alternative. I don't think the people criticizing it know of many alternatives. The more I read about other cultures, especially outside written history, the more alternatives I see. I view capitalism or any other economic set of ideologies like a technology. I don't see technologies as good or bad. They augment the values of the…

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527: Mike Michalowicz, part 1: Entrepreneurship, stewardship, and engaging, compelling writing

Mike and I are in an online writing group together. For a while I knew him as the funny and diligent guy whose books have thousands of reviews online. Then I read his big one, Profit First. I know entrepreneurship from living it, so I expected to skim it, but two things. His writing is as funny and engaging as he is and what he wrote was new and valuable. Those who have read it know what I mean when I share that I set up my five accounts right after finishing it. Next I read Fix This Next and loved it too. I couldn't skim it because it also contained richness that I couldn't just gloss over. Plus it's fun, funny, and vulnerable. Both…

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526: A recent talk on doof, heroin, crack, and sustainability
Enjoy Coca-cola!

526: A recent talk on doof, heroin, crack, and sustainability

This talk gets to the root of what I see destroying Earth's ability to sustain life and our health and happiness in the process. Here is the audio a recent talk I gave on doof, building up to what we can do to get rid of it, and improving our world in the process. I compare its effects with those of heroin, crack, and other addictions. I examine what makes something doof, like if it's advertised, packaged, fiber-removed, or the big one: if the manufacturer engineered it to create craving. I consider this audio a great talk. Enjoy Coca-cola!

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A billion-dollar simple (partial) solution to litter

A problem exacerbating all the litter in the world is that stores profit from selling it without paying the costs of the litter. Here's an idea that I propose working into legislation: Every retail store that sells disposable or packaged products must provide receptacles to accept at least the volume and weight of disposable products and packaging that they sell, available to the public any time they are open. This rule would apply to convenience stores, delis, restaurants, takeout places, bars, and more. Any place is free to sell non-disposable goods or not use packaging. Since they get their stuff from suppliers: Distributors of disposable and packaged products must accept any trash collected by retail stores. Needless to say, none of what they collect can…

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Response to a Christian reader about his friends struggling with stewardship

I'm sharing because after the email I sent below, I realized I'm approaching things differently. My friend, a practicing Christian, asked my thoughts: I'm wondering what you think about their idea of people working more to join or form a community to take action, rather than guilting themselves into thinking they have to do everything on their own (drive an electric car, or no car at all, not use any packaging, eat vegan, etc.). I responded These posts aren't exactly on what you asked about but may be relevant: The point of individual action when you want to change systems"Corporations should change, not consumers" and other nonsense But if they feel guilt, the inner conflict seems greater. Their view of stewardship differs from mine. For…

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525: Katie Redford, part 1: She beat a multinational oil company in court just getting started

Katie is the sort of role model I do this podcast to bring to the world. Her challenges are huge, but her passion and determination greater. I can find a million people who say they care about the environment. They probably do. I can find some who act on this caring. I can find a few who do things that sound great like starting companies to do well by doing good. Of them, many are helping restore Earth's ability to sustain life. Then there's Katie. She's devoting everything she's got beyond just cleaning some area. She's going to what I consider as near the root of our problems, and the most effective solution: keeping fossil fuels in the ground. Most "solutions" like renewables, recycling, offsets,…

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