Near New York City? Watch the marathon November 3!

Wait, I want to lead better. Why should I care about marathons? Running a marathon takes discipline, dedication, practice, drive, determination, and many skills relevant to becoming a leader and practicing leadership. You've heard many parts of leadership described as marathons, not sprints. Whether you want to train for and complete a literal marathon or just something like one, having marathons in your life as a competitor or spectator, improves your leadership skills. Even if you don't run a marathon, interacting with them puts those skills and people with them in your environment, which increases them in your life. It motivates you to increase those skills and adopt comparable practices in your life. Besides, watching or competing in a marathon, especially the New York City…

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A book I haven’t finished and why I recommend it

I first met Sebastian Marshall about five years ago in New York City through mutual friends. Though he was just over half my age at the time, I don't hesitate to say I've learned as much from him as nearly anyone -- and I've studied with Nobel Prize winners. He's been a great friend since. We've since met in Kuala Lumpur, Beijing, and often on the internet. I continue learning from him. I'm amazed and inspired how he keeps developing and producing. I mean to write about his book today, but you have to know a bit about him to give context to his book. [NOTE: I haven't actually spoken to him in a while and am writing this review independently of him. I haven't…

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An essay on money, part 2

Today being Labor Day makes it an interesting day to think about money. I've noticed my post "An essay on money" gets almost the most number of hits of all my posts so I re-read it periodically. (Speaking of money, today is the also the last day to get the early discount on my awesome seminar on September 21 and 22 -- "Leadership Through Self-Awareness and Emotional Intelligence" so sign up now and save money!) My mom pointed out we never went on welfare when she read that essay, just that they gave the food out on our block without checking because the neighborhood was so poor. We loved the food I now wouldn't touch because the bread was so sweet and white and the…

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A model to help you get more out of traveling and to save money traveling at the same time

[This post is part of a series on "Mental models and beliefs: an exercise to identify yours." If you don't see a Table of Contents to the left, click here to view the series, where you'll get more value than reading just this post.] Most people I share today's belief with seem surprised or even shocked when I express it. Probably because the way I say it -- that I don't like traveling -- seems contrary to something nearly everyone values. Also, I travel a lot and talk about how much I get out of it. If I have to travel, I'll find ways to make it amazing, but if I don't travel I can make staying home just as amazing. The best way I…

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Summary of North Korea Videos
The best book to understand North Korea

Summary of North Korea Videos

Any trip to North Korea will be eye-opening and amazing, even before Dennis Rodman visited. I visited last April for the celebration of the anniversary of Kim Il Sung's birth. I believe visiting creates more understanding and communication than potential problems. As I've explained before here and in my book on North Korea, I consider such interactions among the best ways to increase communication and understanding with North Koreans, which I consider the best ways to bring about more peaceful relations. I believe all related governments have motivations to maintain adversarial relations, so I don't have much faith in them to create peace. As I say in one of the videos in this series, I believe regular people like you and I will have to…

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The Barnes Foundation!

If you haven't heard of the Barnes Foundation and you like art, find out about it. If you're anywhere near Philadelphia, go there. Albert Barnes was a successful entrepreneur who lived in and near Philadelphia (and went to my High School) from 1842 to 1951. According to Wikipedia, "in his 30s Barnes began to study and collect art. He acquired his first 20 pieces by commissioning his friend, the artist William Glackens, to buy modern work for him in Paris. After selling his business, he devoted himself to the study and collecting of art." His collection is now worth about $25 billion and a few months ago they opened a new building in Center City, Philadelphia to show it. I visited the other day and…

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Video: Teaching our North Korean guide colloquial English

Last year we tried teaching our guide, Ms Yu, the phrase "You're so money and you don't even know it." So this year when Jordan was busy doing something else, I decided to teach it to Ms Han, then have her say it to him. I don't think she quite got the meaning of the phrase, but I think the fun came across. About halfway through the video switches to her saying it to Jordan. Like I've said before, I don't know when the United States and North Korea will have peaceful relations, but we're bringing it closer -- more than any diplomat. I wonder if she'll remember it the next time we visit. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yeGWJMHu748

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North Korean tour guide singing

One of the more touching moments of our trip was our guide, Ms Han, singing Arirang for us on our last night after nearly two weeks. According to Wikipedia, the song "is sometimes considered the unofficial national anthem of Korea." Since the government requires tourists be accompanied by two guides plus a driver at all times and the guides communicate only the party line about North Korea's history, politics, etc, people who haven't visited tend to presume the guides are drone-like agents of the state or overseers. On the contrary, they're regular people with lives, stories, family, etc. We created great relationships with ours. I'm sure all of us would keep in touch but for the North Korean government controlling communication. I defy you not…

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Video: North Korean subway museum

North Korean museums do things differently than museums elsewhere. First, I don't remember seeing art museums there. They seem to make museums for historical and technical things, like wars and subway systems. Second, instead of trying to present the history or teach understanding of the technology, its development, or the people who created it, they do two things: describe the involvement of Kim Il Sung or Kim Jong Il and make elaborate, detailed dioramas of it. I shouldn't overstate things. They do show some historical things and technical things, but those don't seem their main goals. I'm used to inspiring kids being a major part of a museum. I didn't see that in museums we saw. Here is a video of a subway museum diorama…

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Video: Little boy and his mom with pop-gun by Arc of Triumph in Pyongyang, North Korea

Near Pyongyang's Arc of Triumph (bigger than the one in Paris!), we saw this boy with his mother at a county-fair type target practice contest. How could we not stop and watch the his calm determination and his mother's help shooting a rifle in the middle of town. The rifle only shot little corks, but it was fun to watch. Not weird, but just different than you'd expect to see in America. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJ2T9H05Xos

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Video: Incredible kids in a North Korean country schoolhouse

If you want to see the most amazing kids, you might be surprised to find some in this country schoolhouse in North Korea. Yes, we only see what the government lets us see, and the government seems to have learned showing off its kids shows off a part of the country the world will love, but this did happen and it's part of North Korea. Watch this video. You won't be disappointed. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=04zR_KCQ7F4

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Video: Incredible kids in Hamhung, North Korea

Another reason visiting North Korea became one of my most educational and thought-provoking experiences, as well as of my travel-mates. This experience was too incredible not to include it on my blog's main page (if you haven't been reading my North Korea posts, click to see the videos I've been posting of my trip there last April -- some inspirational, all educational). Our tour bus took us to a kids camp in Hamhung, North Korea, then to the city. I don't know how they chose to take us to see kids, but it seems they brought us to a lot of kids places. After our amazing experiences interacting with North Koreans directly at Kim Il Sung Square as well as playing Ultimate Frisbee in Pyongyang…

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Video: On seeing North Koreans seeing Kim Jong Un speak for the first time

We discuss seeing North Koreans seeing Kim Jong Un speak for the first time, which he did while we were at a hotel the night before. They were utterly transfixed, some cried. His father, Kim Jong Il, spoke publicly only once in seventeen years in power. Now he spoke within the first weeks in power. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oWbVrd7C-e8 Here is a quick view of a North Korean roadside entering a modest-sized city. We visited about a half-dozen cities and they all looked similar -- soviet-looking uniform buildings. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j47ydkAYQCA

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Video: Fireworks over Pyongyang celebrating the hundredth anniversary of Kim Il Sung’s birth

Why do I show fireworks from North Korea when the whole world does fireworks? For one thing, the whole show was bigger, longer, and more awesome than probably any fireworks show I've seen. Sorry you can't see everything from just the videos here. Second, people typically think of how much the government spends on the fireworks when it's people are starving. Is North Korea the only country that puts on big fireworks shows while its people starve? Or large portions are in jail? Before you point out differences between North Korea and whatever countries you may have thought of, what similarities do you notice too? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PtwqyU7SNhI By the way, something else you can't see from the videos here is that during the fireworks was the…

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Video: Getting the block and game-winning goal in North Korea’s first Ultimate Frisbee tournament

I just realized I never posted this video of me getting the block and game-winning goal in North Korea's first Ultimate Frisbee tournament in August 2011 (actually, I posted it on a site I since enjoyed leaving.) I consider it one of the highlights of my Ultimate career not for the level of competition but for living out Ultimate's Spirit of the Game clause "Spirit of the Game. Ultimate relies upon a spirit of sportsmanship that places the responsibility for fair play on the player. Highly competitive play is encouraged, but never at the expense of mutual respect among competitors, adherence to the agreed upon rules, or the basic joy of play. Protection of these vital elements serves to eliminate unsportsmanlike conduct from the Ultimate…

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Video: North Koreans after a parade

While we were stuck at the little state-fair-like celebration for foreigners, the elite and military of Pyongyang were participating in this: You may recognize the place as Kim Il Sung Square, where we were meeting and joking around with regular people just the day before. We did, however, get to see everyone streaming from the parade. Our bus couldn't move because we got stuck behind a road closing. First we waved to people from the bus. Here you see lots of friendly North Koreans and North Korean families exiting from the parade. We're saying the only relevant Korean we knew, which was "an yang hassimnika," which means hello. I understand that in South Korea it's formal, but standard in North Korea. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XicbwYTr_yc Getting out of…

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Video: Reflections on the Revolutionary Martyrs’ Cemetery at the celebration for foreigners

I interviewed Joe, who had been living in South Korea before visiting North Korea, about the experience at the Revolutionary Martyrs' Cemetery, since it was such an emotional experience. At this point we are in a park just below the cemetery, which is on one of Pyongyang's highest points, I believe. He talks about how surprising it was to be given such deference in the face of North Korea's social and economic situation. The country is full of contradiction, though it also reveals contradictions in other places, which contributes to why I find visiting there so educational. At the time we recorded this video, Pyongyang was holding its grand parade as you'd expect North Korea to do. Foreigners were relegated to a fun state-fair like…

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Video: Revolutionary Martyrs’ Cemetery on the hundredth anniversary of Kim Il Sung’s birth

A video of the Revolutionary Martyrs' Cemetery on the hundredth anniversary of Kim Il Sung's birth -- roughly like being at Arlington on July 4, 1976. There were many soldiers and foreign tourists, making for an odd mix. Normally the government prohibits tourists from taking pictures of the military, but perhaps for the special day, since they were there ceremonially, and since there were so many of them they let us take pictures and video of them. The cemetery also overlooks Pyongyang and the Mausoleum holding the bodies of Kim Il Sung and, presumably by this point, Kim Jong Il, though they hadn't yet reopened the mausoleum after Kim Jong Il's death by this point. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=voIgE4XraSs More footage of the cemetery More footage of the…

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Video: An amusement park in Pyongyang, North Korea and some cute girls there

Would you expect an amusement park in Pyongyang, North Korea? Not only did we go to a big one, we saw remnants of old roller coasters and other rides in other parts of Pyongyang. We weren't sure how many people got to enjoy the fun fair, but for most tourists it's their best chance to interact directly with North Koreans untrained by the government to lead their tours. We had great chances earlier that day in Kim Il Sung Square, but this was fun too. Here Jordan and I take some pictures with some cute girls. What can we say, whom else would we take pictures with? You may remember Jordan as the guy who invited me to North Korea the first time. He also…

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Video: North Korea’s War Museum and differences between expectations and experiences

Before entering the War Museum (not sure the official name), I interviewed my friend and group-mate, Andrew, on the differences between our expectations -- that the environment would be oppressive, we would be watched all the time, and so on -- and experiences -- communicating with the people and learning so much. Sorry about the sound, but as you can see it was windy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rjf0KSmk3tM Here are details of painting of Korean War battle scene in North Korean War Museum, showing the gallant and heroic North Korean soldiers. Most such paintings show U.S. and other opposing forces as hook-nosed with near-claws for hands. I couldn't figure out if the hook noses were supposed to be anti-semitic or not, but they looked that way. I'm not…

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Video: On the unexpected beauty of the land of North Korea

Here I talk about the unexpected beauty of the land of North Korea -- at least of the parts the government let us see. It was early Spring and North Korea is pretty north, so there weren't many leaves on the trees yet. And whatever your feelings about the government or people, the land, flora, and fauna remain the land, flora, and fauna and it's hard not to appreciate the beauty of nature. We had just had a barbecue lunch in a park near Pyongyang. Maybe in Pyongyang, I'm not sure because they didn't give us any maps. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTE7y4SALL4

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Video: Bringing peace sooner: High-fiving North Koreans in Kim Il Sung Square, part 2

Shortly after last post's videos, we returned to Kim Il Sung Square and interacted with more North Koreans, overcoming language obstacles in North Korea with friendly body language. If our would-be leaders don't create peace, understanding, and communication between us, we have to lead them. The more we interact the more we understand each other. That's how we show we aren't the monsters or dupes their government says we are and vice versa. When was the last time you saw so many North Koreans smiling, shaking hands, high-fiving, and laughing with Americans? The woman you see returning my camera after the middle segment was our North Korean guide, who held the camera for me. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DxWImTKf57I Images of our arrival at Kim Il Sung Square (repeated…

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Video: Bringing peace sooner: differences between expectations and experiences

Here is a quick video with my thoughts on some differences between my expectations of North Korea (and those of everyone I know who visited) and experiences. I'm on the avenue between the Foreign language bookshop and Kim Il Sung Square. You'll see Kiwi Tom being silly in the background (he does stand-up comedy, among other things) and the usual desolate, sparsely populated city. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L_g5fus697I Here I shake hands with a North Korean woman on a Pyongyang street corner near the Foreign Language bookshop near Kim Il Sung Square, trying and forgetting how to say the few phrases I learned in Korean -- basically hello and thank you. I shook the hands of many people on this street corner, saying hello and thank you. Sorry,…

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