Category Archives: Tips

Video: Do what others fear, easy version

on February 8, 2016 in Fitness, Nature, Nonjudgment, Tips

I’ve posted how unhealthy fruit juice is, how beverage corporations (Coke and Pepsi, mainly) turn even so-called “100% juice” orange juice into chemical concoctions (which led to a beverage industry PR person contacting me to try to change my story), and how healthy orange peels are. They’re full of fiber, vitamin C, and flavor and texture that contrast and complement the juice inside. Since most people think of citrus fruit[…] Keep reading →

Video: Three Leadership Secrets You’ll Never Learn Reading A Book

on February 6, 2016 in Awareness, Events, Exercises, Leadership, SIDCHAs, Tips

I just finished my first webinar, “Three Leadership Secrets You’ll Never Learn Reading A Book“. Here is the recording of it for those interested but who couldn’t make it. If you like what I write about and want more, contact me about what you want and I can tailor webinars to what people are looking for. I prefer to stick with topics I cover here but I’m flexible too. From[…] Keep reading →

Inc.com Today: 2 Questions To Ask in Every Interview So They’ll Want You Back (Video)

on February 5, 2016 in Inc.com, Leadership, Relationships, Stories, Tips

My post today on Inc.com, “2 Questions To Ask in Every Interview So They’ll Want You Back,” begins: Instead of trying to show off, making you look like a commodity, use these techniques to make interviews two-way conversations where they’ll want you back. Isn’t that what you want from an interview? If you want one thing most from an interview, you want the interviewer to want you back. If you want[…] Keep reading →

Introducing the most effective leadership course available anywhere

on February 2, 2016 in Audio, Awareness, Choosing/Decision-Making, Creativity, Education, Entrepreneurship, Exercises, Leadership, Models, Nonjudgment, Relationships, Tips

If you read this blog, you know I care about leadership and how to improve yours—in business, personal, family, and every other part of your life. I presume you do too. As much as you’ve learned from the blog, you can learn more from doing. If you want to improve because you’re moving up the corporate ladder, just finished school, starting your own projects, or any other reason that you[…] Keep reading →

Pressure cookers rock!

on February 1, 2016 in Fitness, Nature, Tips

I posted this elsewhere and couldn’t help reposting here, risking repeating from earlier posts: Bought an electric pressure cooker a few months ago (Cuisinart CPC-600, $50 pre-owned but unused from Craig’s List). One of the best purchases of my life, especially combined with my farm share, which brings me fresh seasonal vegetables. Also avoiding food packaging, which nearly eliminated food from boxes, bags, or other packages. I tell myself I’ll[…] Keep reading →

Inc.com Today: How to Build the Best Relationships With Both Leaders and Superiors

on January 29, 2016 in Inc.com, Leadership, Relationships, Tips

My post today on Inc.com, “How to Build the Best Relationships With Both Leaders and Superiors,” begins: Misunderstanding how we like helping others holds many back from building relationships with leaders and superiors. Getting their help can advance you. You get that meeting with that decision-maker/founder/CEO/titan/guru/expert who can make your project happen. You’ve dreamed of this chance for years. How do you interact with this person? If you’re like most[…] Keep reading →

Do you lie to yourself about your priorities?

on January 23, 2016 in Awareness, Choosing/Decision-Making, Tips

Does this sound like a reasonable question: “Do you do things in order of importance?” I don’t think it is. I suggest the question gets things backward. Your priorities don’t determine what order you do things in. The order you do things in determines their priority. What you do first is your highest priority, given all your values and constraints, and if you tell yourself otherwise, you’re lying to yourself.[…] Keep reading →

Why not to ask if something is worth doing

on January 22, 2016 in Choosing/Decision-Making, Perception, Tips

You get chances to do cool things: classes to take, hobbies to try, relationships to develop, books to read, movies to watch, and so on. How do you decide which to do? Most people look at the new thing and ask if it’s worth doing. I recommend not asking that question. There are many things worth doing in the abstract. Too many. I recommend instead asking what you’d have to[…] Keep reading →

Another reason to say no to a lot of good things to have a great life

on December 24, 2015 in Awareness, Choosing/Decision-Making, Tips

Think of your heroes and role models. How many of them reached their greatness by doing many things in many areas at once? All the ones I can think of reached greatness by excelling in one area. After greatness they may have branched into other areas, but they all focused with discipline at first. Most people I know spread themselves thin on many projects. They don’t say no to good[…] Keep reading →

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