Did you ever notice when someone interrupts. . .

Sometimes mid-sentence something distracts me and I lose my train of thought. Often when I do, I can't remember what I was saying before. It annoys me but I move on to something else. By contrast, if a person interrupted me to the same effect, I'd get angry, even if what I were saying were no more important. That is, if while saying the same thing, I were interrupted or distracted, despite the outcome being the same, in one case I'd get angry, the other no problem. Funny how we do that, isn't it?

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232: Michael Werner, part 2: Leading Google by bike

Michael took on a challenge many people consider: biking to work for a month. He challenged himself amid product releases at work and family obligations as his wife traveled, so he couldn't just start. He had to plan and work at it. Even so, he created cheerleaders of his riding in his coworkers. Before all that, you'll get to hear about his spectacular blow out. Michael clearly explains his plans, actions, and results -- what worked and didn't -- so if you're thinking about biking more or any environmental action, you can use him as a role model. I'm curious if he'll follow his personal experience with leading people more at Google or steering Google beyond where he would have otherwise.

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231: How are you justifying your polluting behavior?

When we pollute, we think we act for the reasons in our minds that justify that behavior, but those reasons generally come after we choose, motivated to justify behavior we consider wrong. Most environmental analysis looks at the science of what pollutes more or less. Today I look at the mental processes and emotions behind choosing polluting behavior. Almost always pollution results in separating yourself from others---you don't want to pollute your world. Avoiding polluting connects you with others because you account for your effect on them. Acting sustainably and regeneratively build community and connection. I suggest that when you get this pattern and internalize it, you will stop trying to justify what you've been doing that pollutes and that those behaviors and results will…

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230: Brad P, part 2: Change your habits, change your life

Brad identified the problem of people acting or not as our emotions and behavior, which many forces contribute to. We also talk about media and scientists. This refinement of the understanding to emotions points to what to work on that I see few environmentalists unaddressing: emotions, feelings, and community, not technology, innovation. Almost the only emotions they evoke are fear, panic, and worry, which don't motivate acting on the environment. They motivate disengaging from the speaker. If you associated attraction coaching with trickery or games, you might not expect this identification. On the contrary, Brad knows about relationships, people, and teaching. These things happen to lead to more intimacy---physical, emotional, and intellectual---and they are big elements of leadership. We talk about vegetables, CSAs, helping people…

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229: How might future generations view us?

I believe many people believe we live in an age of wonder and that people from any other time would envy us. I believe future generations will not look at our flying and pollution not with envy but with horror, as we look at slave holders and people who didn't resist Hitler. The sooner we get that into our thick skulls, the sooner we'll enjoy life with less craving, excuses and acting like spoiled brats. How many spoiled brats do you know where you think, I like how spoiled that person is, I'd like to be like them? But they don't know it, do they? So we don't know it either, spoiled brats that we are, telling ourselves we can't live without eating pizza in…

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228: Kicking puppies praiseworthy?

People keep describing my environmental actions as praiseworthy. I think they do it to make it seem harder and less accessible to do themselves what they expect will be hard, deprivation, sacrifice, and not what they want to do. Making what I do sound good makes what they do normal. I prefer to see not polluting as normal and polluting as abnormal and worth changing. I feel that praising someone for not polluting is like praising someone for not kicking puppies or abusing their children. I suggest seeing not kicking puppies as normal and kicking them as abnormal. This episode explores this perspective.

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227: Economists don’t know what they’re talking about on growth
Should I drive growth instead of letting it happen? What do you think?

227: Economists don’t know what they’re talking about on growth

Should I drive growth instead of letting it happen? What do you think? A few words on growth and how people misunderstand it, especially economists. I start by talking about my window garden cherry tomato plants and how the inability of the insects eating them to regulate their growth and up destroying the plants and thereby their own population. Can we outdo bugs? I'm not sure. An educated friend showed surprise to me that his having four or five kids is one of the biggest effects he could have on the environment. How can we not get this? People don't seem to think in this area but instead parrot knee-jerk irrelevancies that distract from that if we don't control our population, nature will for us,…

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Thoughts on reading my love letters to my high school girlfriend after 30 years

Following up my posts Mementos of my high school girlfriend and The Most Romantic Thing I Ever Did, I finally read the letters and cards from her to me and from me to her. We wrote them from around the summer of 1988, after graduating high school, to about a year later, the summer after our first years in college. She went to school outside Boston. I went to school in Manhattan. Context For about a year and a half before then she and I talked on the phone a few nights a week for a few hours. I think my phone was rotary. We were each other's first love. The time was my first on my own, struggling for independence, especially from my father,…

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Examples of “tastes good” versus “want more”

I've written on the difference in sensation between something tasting good versus making you feel like you want more of it (see "Want to eat more" and "tastes good" aren't the same feeling). I also spoke about them as a podcast guest in Tastes Good versus Want More, explored in depth. The difference, briefly: when you bite into a fruit you love, say an apple, it tastes good and you want more. Yet rarely do I eat two apples in a row. The second apple tastes as good as the first, but the sensation of wanting more decreases. By contrast, when I bite into a potato chip, it tastes good and I want more. But a few chips in, the feeling of their tasting good…

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226: Brad P, part 1: Dating coaching, leadership, and the environment

Today's episode with guest Brad P, a dating coach and guru---well, former, since he's moved on, as he'll share---partly reveal a major part of my social and emotional development as an adult. He was in a sense my boss when I coached mostly men but a few women on dating and attraction skills, which I did before coaching executives, entrepreneurs, and so on on leadership, initiative, entrepreneurship, and more mainstream things. The episode begins with a long introduction to address the extraordinary misconception about coaching dating and attraction, especially for men. While I haven't kept it formally secret, I haven't shared it publicly, though I tell all my coaching clients soon after starting working with them since it opens up the coaching relationship and makes…

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Victory from the jaws of defeat: I froze two-thirds through my TEDx talk

Today I gave my talk at TEDxWaltham, "What Everyone Gets Wrong About The Environment." Before I got home, an attendee emailed one of the most encouraging and heartwarming reviews I've received: "I just wanted to tell you, I was extremely inspired by you and your talk today. I can't remember a time when I was more impressed by someone's philosophy and dedication to action. I hope we can chat soon by phone or video. I'd love to learn more about what your doing and how I can make positive changes in my life. I am available at your convenience if you can chat for a few when you can. Thanks for sharing your message - it was really a gift." It didn't go as planned,…

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Exhaustion glory

The other day, just walking down the street I felt super tired, like I got hit by a truck. Then I remembered that I lifted that morning and I had lifted more than ever before in my life. No wonder I felt exhausted. I had noticed I was lifting more than before that morning, but it slipped my mind when I went out for the day. I don't lift heavy weights compared to people who seriously lift, only that the longer I keep lifting, the longer I increase the weights I lift. I've lifted regularly for a few years and I've reached higher weights than ever. I'm not complaining about feeling out of energy for the rest of the day. On the contrary, I found…

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Artificial Intelligence, us, and becoming superfluous

Going off my usual topics, but when I see people talking about computers reaching and surpassing our intelligence, I only see them talk about it from our perspective. What will the machines or robots do with us? It hit me that if they out-think and out-perform us, first of all, the day they equal us, I expect the next day they'll out-perform us. Then the following day, or soon after, they'll surpass us by so much we won't know what's happening. Maybe "day" should be "month" or "year," but the point remains. If it takes intelligence to create intelligence, once they have more, they'll evolve faster and fast. Second of all, wouldn't they become the important character then? Wouldn't concerning ourselves with us after they've…

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See me at TEDxWaltham, Saturday October 5 near Boston

EDIT (11/7/19): They posted the talk: https://youtu.be/sTYiHr1lu10 Now back to my original post: I posted about it earlier and anyone who has talked to me in the past month knows I'm giving my second TEDx talk this Saturday in Waltham, MA. The theme of the event is Going Places. I proposed speaking on not flying -- a contrarian view -- and they went for it. The talk has evolved into What Everyone Gets Wrong About The Environment. I can't wait to give it. People who have heard practice versions call it inspirational and like nothing they've heard about the environment. If you're near Boston, come see it. You'll be glad you did, and likely inspired on perhaps the greatest issue facing us.

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How to plant a tree in New York City?

I realized I've never planted a tree. With around 8 million people, I'd at first think New York had too many people for everyone to plant a tree, but maybe not. Have you planted a tree? Can you help me do it, maybe pointing me in a direction to do it? Can I just bury an acorn in a park or is there more to it? I found these pages Milliontreesnyc.orgStreet Tree Planting And some more. I thought I'd post here for two goals: I figure I'd learn more from a person who's done itTo make myself publicly accountable, so later people can point out that I committed in some way The idea got into my head in conversation with a friend working on the…

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225: My role model: Jonas Salk and the polio vaccine

Polio terrorized the world. People died and became paralyzed and there were no defenses to it. Science understood it and eventually Jonas Salk found a vaccine. Just having a vaccine wasn't enough. They needed massive global public projects to disseminate it. Is the connection to our current environmental problems obvious? As I see it, our behavior is causing the problems. If I'm not too full of myself, this podcast's technique, which I describe in my TEDxNYU talk, in a sense inoculates people from inaction on environmental values. It changes people to where they enjoy wasting less and taking responsibility. We don't need a massive global public works, but what if we spread that technique globally. Instead of trying to figure out how to feed 10…

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224: Clarifying my strategy
The Leadership and the Environment podcast

224: Clarifying my strategy

The Leadership and the Environment podcast People commonly misunderstand the goals of this podcast. I tried in this episode to clear up two common misunderstandings: They mistakenly believe my goal is individual change---to influence one person at a time.They mistakenly believe I act on my environmental values to lead people by example. On point 1, this podcast focuses on leading people through community. You may hear me leading one person at a time per episode, but I'm not picking people randomly. I'm picking people on more people's community than most others. My goal is for listeners to feel, "I'm not the only one doing this. People in my community are too. It's time I acted more." I'm working my way to people known by hundreds…

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Attend the Second Annual Leadership and the Environment Panel, October 15
The Leadership and the Environment podcast

Attend the Second Annual Leadership and the Environment Panel, October 15

In New York City, Tuesday, October 15, The Leadership and the Environment, with the Columbia Business School Alumni Club, will host our second annual panel Beyond Talk and Management: How to Become an Environmental Leader. The Leadership and the Environment podcast We're featuring stellar leaders, including a Nobel Peace Prize, President of the Rainforest Alliance, and the person responsible for the largest B-Corp yet. Click to register. Beyond Talk and Management: How to Become an Environmental Leader There is global opportunity to lead in the area of the environment, but how many well-known corporate or government leaders can you name who publicly live sustainably? Many dismiss personal behavior as ineffective, but leaders can influence organizations and systems. They can create inertia or inspire entire organizations.…

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U.S. Obesity Rates Reach Historic Highs

An organization called Trust for America's Health released its latest obesity report. I don't think many would call it good news. This graph caught my eye. We're more obese than ever. The report said a lot more so I recommend reading more. It proposes remedies, but people have proposed remedies for decades and the trend continues. A quote from the report: "As recently as 2012, no state had an adult obesity rate over 35 percent and within the last five years (2013 and 2018) 33 states had statistically significant increases in their rates of adult obesity. "A second data source referenced in the report, the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES) also shows unprecedented levels of obesity in the U.S. In 2015-2016, the most…

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A review of my Google talk

On Monday I spoke on Initiative at Google in Chelsea, Manhattan. (EDIT: here are video clips from a future talk there) It was my first time speaking with them (here's my speaking page, by the way, for those looking to book an amazing speaker who will get them promoted for hiring me). It reminded me that I started using Google in graduate school because they used GNU/Linux before anyone else had heard of them, probably around 1997 or 98. Many of their current employees weren't born yet. I kept telling people to use it because it returned better search results but most people preferred portals. A few years later I kept telling people to use Wikipedia, also based on Free Software and its principles, and…

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Terrible User Interface

Here's one of the worst user interfaces I've seen. I hope you enjoy it. It doesn't get me every time, but it still does after years of using it. https://youtu.be/gTzMPq781XQ

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223: Adam Quiney, part 2: Do the Thing

This episode is two thoughtful, intelligent people sharing environmental thoughts. I think the thoughts we share are what a lot of people think but don't share enough. We cover action, leadership, motivation, caring, beliefs, integrity, and Adam's challenge on "imperfect" (which I put in quotes since I prefer non-supermarket apples) apples. I suspect you'll hear things you've thought about but maybe haven't shared, not just environmental, though we mostly hover around there. Most conversations I hear devolve into abstract, academic, analysis and blame, things like government should do X, corporations should do Y, or this law should pass---anything but acting themselves. Yet acting raises awareness more than awareness leads to acting. And the fastest, most effective way to influence companies, government, and other institutions is…

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Differences between management and leadership

I may have written these views before, but I find they boil management, leadership, and their differences to their essence, so if I'm repeating myself, I think they're worth it. Effective management results in compliance. Effective leadership results in inspiration. Leaders without management skills are often dreamers who don't get things done. Management without leadership is the DMV. If you want an engineer to sell, you can promise all the bonus pay you want, you can rarely manage an engineer into becoming a salesperson. Show that engineer how what you're selling delivers on something he or she feels passionate about and he or she will learn to sell it for his or her own reasons. But you'll eventually have to give him or her a…

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Epstein, Weinstein, Trump, the Clintons, and the Sacklers were close
The future United States President with Epstein

Epstein, Weinstein, Trump, the Clintons, and the Sacklers were close

Talking to a friend, I was surprised at how close the richest, most powerful, and scandalous people are. We wondered if all of them were in the same room at the same time. Try searching "Epstein Weinstein Trump Clinton Sackler". It's shocking how close they are. I don't have to present new information, only to point out how they may well have all known each other. What does that closeness say about democracy in the U.S.? How does it make you feel about working so hard to make ends meet while the people in authority seem to get money from drugs, engage in sex trafficking, assault, and such? Here are the top pictures and a few headlines. There are plenty more. The future United States…

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222: Why Eat Insects?

Between insects, kelp, vertical farming, lab-grown meat, and other clever options, why didn't we think of them before? Because we had better options! Few meat eaters choose crickets over steaks and hamburgers, but we've squandered what was once plenty with overpopulation. We've become more efficient, but we've lost abundance. With a lower population we could keep abundance.

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