Hear me on Guiding You Through the Maze with Lisa Lentino

Lisa Lentino hosts the Guiding You Through the Maze podcast and runs The Coaching Connector, which connects people looking for coaching with coaches and gives resources for both. For example, she recently posted an interview with friend, mentor, and podcast guest Marshall Goldsmith. From Marshall, Lisa moved to me and hosted a conversation on learning to lead. If your career or life isn't at its potential and you know you're capable of more, you'll value the conversation. Click to hear our conversation. From the show notes: Leading with passion is not as easy as it seems, which is why aspiring leaders need coaches who can guide them on the road to efficient leadership. Joshua Spodek, a leader developer and host of the Leadership and Environment…

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206: Jeremy Ryan Slate, part 1: Leadership: Doing What Others Don’t, But Want To

This episode is about doing what others don't, but want to. We recorded it nearly 2 years ago when I was still getting into my groove.  We start talking what sounds like about oranges but we're talking about leadership -- doing what others want to but don't. It may sound weird at first, but turning one healthy food into two unhealthy foods looks pretty weird to me. Everyone I know says "You shouldn't care so much what other people think," usually in a condescending voice, but they succumb to social pressure too to keep doing what everyone else does. Leaders find ways to do what they value. Jeremy shares his journey of addressing what others think and learning to manage it. Look at the guests…

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Who knew silence and stillness could bring such joy?

Thrive Global is launching a meditation podcast and asked its contributors, including me, to write stories on meditation. I updated my 2009 post Jumping for Joy. The new story is also called Jumping for Joy. My Thrive Global piece begins . . . By the second day at a recent five-day silent meditation retreat, the mental static of everyday thoughts had mostly passed. Silent meant the whole shebang: no reading, writing, talking, internet, or anything but instruction and focus. Intense and challenging but rewarding, in my experience. The 9am session switched techniques from focusing on breathing to body scans, observing sensations. After one or two scans I found I could hardly sense anything subtler than, say, my shirt on my shoulders. Frustrating. I sensed how…

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205: Notes to a Future President

The U.S. is ramping up its Presidential campaigns. The environment is an issue for many reasons. At first you'd think because of global warming, plastic, mercury in fish, extinctions, bees are mysteriously dying, and so on. But any candidate knows it's important because people care about it. Any leader knows that when people care, a leader can tap into that emotion and motivation. One of my definitions of leadership is helping people do things they wanted to but haven't figured out how. I'm going to help you, political candidate, help voters achieve what they want but haven't figured out how. Because an overwhelming majority of people can see the litter on their ground, probably on their property, to know our environmental problems are out of…

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Hear me on the Better Leaders Better Schools podcast

Want to lead people so they want you to lead them again? To take initiative effectively? Many people ask counterproductive questions, like "How should I do X?", "How do I convince someone to do Y?", or "What do I need to know to become a leader?" The most effective question is "How do I learn to lead?", or in entrepreneurship and taking initiative, "How do I learn to take initiative?" Leadership doesn't come from knowing more information or facts, nor from a one-time action, nor from convincing people. It comes from practice. By focusing on how to learn to lead, I help people become leaders. You have to practice. It takes time, not quick tricks, but it works. I focus on becoming the best teacher…

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204: Michelle Tillis Lederman, part 1: The Connector’s Advantage

I've known Michelle longer than almost any guest. I met her in business school, which would mean 2005 or 6. She may be the friendliest guest of the show, partly from our being friends. But I've seen her in a room of unknown people where she attracts people. They like her. It happens from skills she learned through practice. She's devoted herself to teach and develop them in others. I know because she wasn't always that way, nor did becoming that way come naturally, as she shares. She approaches connecting to help you develop your skills and to enjoy your results. To make the work feel good and for you to feel good working. I have little patience for people whose idea of connecting and…

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203: Hunter Lovins, part 1: A Finer Future

A friend introduced me to Hunter and I met her in person a day she was teaching in Bard's MBA program. We start with Limits to Growth, the 30-year update (the book, a synopsis), preparing to talk about her new book, A Finer Future, which follows its tradition. I felt the root of our conversation was responsibility. We know what to do. We don't need more technology. We lack political will -- leadership. I hear it over and over. We cover her history, experience working on sustainability, and the people she's worked with. She works with organizations, in contrast with many environmental groups, though she works to replace them, when appropriate. The big view that got me thinking was the inevitability of the energy transition…

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Your Daily Environment 007: Greta Thunberg to sail the Atlantic, July 31, 2019

A friend emailed that Greta Thunberg will sail across the Atlantic. This is Leadership. Anyone could have done it first. I've been trying to sail. She got invited. Everyone who says flying is necessary or that they can't avoid it. . . well, she put the lie to that excuse. If she's achieving her goals more by not flying, what's out there for the rest of us to do next? Can you lead your family similarly? Can you find the joy in sailing? In eating locally? In avoiding packaging? https://youtu.be/e1ntySDJBLY

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Your Daily Environment, 006, Earth Overshoot Day (was yesterday), July 30, 2019

Yesterday was Earth Overshoot Day, the day humans used up for 2019 the resources the Earth takes a year to regenerate. I consider the connotations of being in overshoot, in the language of people who study complex systems like our population. Here's Your Daily Environment, covering overshoot, collapse, aliens, and more. https://youtu.be/3F_V-UhHd8Y And here is the scene from Independence Day I mentioned. https://youtu.be/ZlawibQ_QKI

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202: How We Choose

I hear a lot of people's reasons for not flying, for using single-use plastic, for leaving the air conditioner on when they're not home. I know them not just because people told them to me. I know them because I'm human and we all think similarly. When I want something that pollutes, I feel my mind justifying why getting it should be okay. It took years of training my mind to resist that knee-jerk thinking and to consider not just what I get from, say, flying or using the air conditioner, but how my actions affect others—also known as the golden rule. We believe we use logic to come up with reasons for doing things. We don't. Our ancestors made choices before we evolved reason.…

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Why the fixation on toothbrushes and toilet paper?

When I talk about reducing waste, people consistently ask me what I do about a few things more than anything else. Toothbrushes and toilet paper top the list. Why the fixation on them? I'm sure these people order tons of takeout, with its overuse of single-use packaging and containers, drive unnecessarily, eat more meat than nearly anyone in history, and pollute in plenty of other unnecessary ways that even they know they'd prefer. They know they're polluting tons, but they ask about comparative trivialities. Why don't they ask how to take the subway, bike, or take public transportation more? Why don't they ask about taking a stay-cation instead of a vacation? More importantly, they're holding themselves back from meaningful progress to live more harmoniously with…

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My latest contribution to the public domain

20 years ago tomorrow, we filed the first patent for the technology that eventually became the basis for my first venture, Submedia. Entrepreneurship gave me an escape from the path academia laid out for me that I loved at first but no longer wanted. Working on an invention, a business plan, and so on reinvigorated me. I didn't know it would help lead to my latest book, Initiative, hence "Over twenty years in the making" if you click the link. Here is a video from our 2002 New York City launch. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CjIpsx29GQc I first conceived of the idea, developed a working model, and wrote most of the patent, but a team of a co-founder, engineers, salespeople, investors, advisors, suppliers, and more made it possible. Oh,…

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Your Daily Environment, Day 005, National Review, July 26, 2019

Today I looked at the National Review. According to the site: "National Review was founded in 1955 by William F. Buckley Jr. as a magazine of conservative opinion. The magazine has since defined the modern conservative movement and enjoys the broadest allegiance among American conservatives." For some reason people associate environmental issues with liberals and the left. We all share the same air, land, and water and we all vote in the same elections, so I consider it imperative to converse with everyone. Near the top of the page I found a story on attitudes and beliefs on climate change from a conservative perspective, though I think the writer meant environmental issues in general, not just climate change. I agree panic will not help maintain…

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Your Daily Environment, Day 004, Salon.com, July 25, 2019

Considering spraying snow on Antarctica, as Salon reports scientists considering, raises questions about the role of technology regarding our environmental issues. Here are my extemporaneous comments: https://youtu.be/PaZwahQdxIQ For more depth on my point about strategy and tactics, listen to my podcast episode 183: Reusing and recycling are tactical. Reducing is strategic.

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Your Daily Environment, 003: Trevor Noah on plastic and science doesn’t motivate

Day 003 address two emails from friends. The first told me about a segment Trevor Noah and the Daily Show did on plastic: fewer countries are accepting America's garbage. We're going to have to deal with it ourselves. The problem with the coverage? It barely treated the only viable solution: reducing production. What it treated it joked about. It's a comedy show, that's it's point, so I don't begrudge it. It highlights that no one else is treating it seriously either. Here's the original segment at the Daily Show's web site. The second told me how a science lab devoted to environmentally relevant science next week will raise prices for single-use plastic. If knowing science influenced behavior, this science community would have stopped buying single-use…

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Your Daily Environment, day 002: The Environment as a Moon Shot

Day 002 is on the environment as a moon shot. What is a moon shot? What does it mean for something besides going to the moon to be a moon shot? I talk about what everyone gets wrong about the environment and what we stand to gain by acting on our environmental values even if no one else does. https://youtu.be/fDllbsmHQ1U

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Your Daily Environment, day 001: The New York Times

I've thought about recording news talk, like AM radio hosts, from an environmental leadership standpoint for a month or so. I've learned the way to learn is to start. I don't know if the best way is audio only, video, showing me talking to the camera, showing the news, etc. Should I start a channel? What host should I use? How long should I make each episode? Should I prepare? I know that trying will lead to iterating and the best measure I know for the a thing's quality is how many iterations it's gone through (see my post My number one criterion for quality of a complex solution or something creative you're developing.) I expect my voice and focus to evolve. Maybe I'll run…

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Where to buy the best food around New York City

Anyone who eats food I cook hears me unable to contain how much I love it. I probably eat to more satisfaction than anyone I know. I feel full, even stuffed, after every meal, yet I eat fewer calories. My food tastes sweeter than ever, yet I eat less sugar. I pay less than ever for my food. The source? My three CSAs and my food coop. They are the most amazing sources of food in Manhattan. I recommend them all. If you want the story why I belong to three, ask. In the meantime, I'm going to share them so anyone looking for CSAs anywhere near New York City will know to join them. My first CSA: Stoneledge Farm My first CSA comes from…

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Reflections on 48 years

Today is the 50th anniversary of the first lunar landing, the 75th anniversary of the closest to successful attempt to assassinate Hitler, and the 48th anniversary of me. As my mom likes to remind me: 9 pounds 8 ounces in sweltering summer heat. At near the halfway point, some reflections. I don't feel older Five or ten years ago I found the quote "Inside every old person is a young person thinking, 'What the hell happened?!?'" and it resonated. I researched its source. I expected to find it came from a famous thoughtful person. The best source I found was a bumper sticker. I'm as fit or more, which makes me feel young. Here is a picture I took today, if you don't mind a…

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201: James Altucher, part 1: More Curious and Adventurous Than Almost Anyone

James is fascinating and, I believe, fascinated. He interviewed me as much as I did him. The recording starts mid-conversation since we were just talking but his engineer started the recording. You'll hear a few minutes in when we found out we were being recorded. Since his engineer mixed live as we went, I'm giving you the conversation unfiltered. No removing ums even. We talked about initiative, education, how to learn social and emotional skills, my category of ASEEP fields and how I teach, cold showers, exploring nature, my podcast strategy, and why it brought me to him. James has written and spoken at length on taking initiative, alternatives to mainstream education. He seemed fascinated by my teaching style. I gave him a copy of…

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More Joy of Life Without the Crutch of Flying

An article stating that "taking one flight emits as much as many people do in a year" led me to post the following on the site that linked to it. I thought it captured my feelings on flying since then. Learning information like this finally led me to take responsibility for my actions that affected others. I challenged myself to go one year without flying. Like everyone, I have family all over and earning money meant flying. Now I'm in year 4 and it's one of the best choices I've made. After a few months of transition, figuring out how to resolve the challenges, I changed from expecting to be on a flight on day 366 to going for another year, no longer out of…

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Recipe to get rich in America in 2 easy steps

How to get rich in America in two easy steps: Find something that people like but suspect or know is unhealthy.Sell a product or service that makes them feel it's healthy. Examples: High fat and keto diets: I'm not saying they're unhealthy, but a lot of people think they are. They like the food. So selling the diet will make money. Supplements: As far as I know, none of them make much difference. Occasionally one will harm. But telling people they are healthy will lead to making money. (Bonus trend: homeopathy). Social media: I think most people know that what we call social media decreases happiness and quality of relationship. I would call them anti-social. They're still promoted as increasing connection so they'll make money.…

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I do more burpees before 9am . . .

I can't believe I didn't think of saying the phrase until the other day: I do more burpees before 9am than most people do all day. It's satisfying to write. I could have said it years ago. Friends are surprises I haven't said it. When I said it to someone out loud, he pointed out I could say: I do more burpees before 9am than most people do in their entire lives.

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Another million-dollar business idea

Years ago I'd write business ideas as I came up with them. I don't remember how long ago I posted the last one, but one of them ended up getting a large number of posts by people considering doing it. Readers of my latest book Initiative, which I recommend reading, know the principle The idea of a lifetime comes once a month, so why hoard ideas? Doing them takes the time and resources that may take a lifetime, but the idea itself? They're abundant. The origin The other day I noticed how many free couches are available all the time on Craig's List, at least around New York City. I just checked. There are at least 53 free couches available now around New York City…

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