558: Michael Carlino, part 5: Which is the danger, lowering or raising the human population?

This conversation was one of the most fascinating I've had. I couldn't have had it when I was younger. Michael and I are learning each other's world view regarding population, our innate drives, how we create or deplete resources, and related topics. We both agree we want many humans prospering. Our world views differ in what creates the resources we need to live: more humans to create the resources or fewer humans to keep from depleting them. As a result, we each see the strategy the other promotes as grave threats to the mission we agree on: human flourishing. What makes the conversation fascinating and one I couldn't have had before is that we aren't arguing or fighting. We're listening and learning. We start by…

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How did King Solomon get called wise for proposing cutting a baby in half?

You know the story about the two women each claiming a baby was hers, where King Solomon says to cut the baby in half and the woman who says to let the other woman keep it must be the mother? Have you ever thought about this story? How has it become a model of wisdom? It fails at every level. First, are we supposed to believe a woman simply claims ownership another woman's baby? As if no one else would notice? As if she herself wouldn't notice she had stolen another woman's baby? As if no one had seen either mother with the baby who could be a witness? Then she didn't run away after kidnapping the baby, but stuck around so the mother can…

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Welcome to America. I found on a park picnic table: 30 syringes, a crack pipe, and prescription opiates

Sorry to get grim, but remember as you read this post that I'm talking about abandoned property in public space. I didn't ask for it. I just found it. In my daily picking up litter, I picked up a brown paper bag sitting on a picnic table in Washington Square Park, amid some garbage from finished takeout (likely doof, but I didn't look close enough to tell) left by someone who, I guess, didn't feel like carrying their garbage to a trash can. Everything comes in disposable packaging. I find all the poisonous waste disgusting, but I seem to be a minority of approximately one. The table was in the northwest corner and it was nighttime, meaning the person who left the garbage was a…

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Why bother with individual action if it doesn’t change systems and similar, ignorant questions

Why bother with individual action if it alone doesn't change systems? The ignorance behind that question astounds me. I'll put the question in parallel, equally ignorant forms: Why bother changing your baby's diaper if it doesn't solve infant mortality? Why take the first step of a marathon if it doesn't take you across the finish line? Why eat healthy or exercise if it doesn't solve obesity, diabetes, and heart disease? Why obey the law if it doesn't stop crime? You might point out that changing a baby's diaper is different than solving infant mortality. Exactly. Each is worth doing on its own, just like individual action and systemic change. Why live by your values? Why live by your values? If you value polluting for your…

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Read a provocative profile of me by Nancy Colasurdo

Award-winning journalist Nancy Colasurdo, who writes the Unfettered: The Power of Pure Expression blog, interviewed me for a profile of me and another executive leadership coach, Daniela Bryan. The piece is What Happened When I Talked Sustainability with Two Coaches (the same piece on Medium). You'll find it provocative for the comparisons I make between pollution and historical atrocities others consider incomparable, but are smaller already, with the death and suffering from pollution increasing and accelerating. It begins: Josh Spodek has unplugged his refrigerator because he doesn’t need it anymore. I’m going to start there.It’s where his journey in being more environmentally conscious led him and frankly that bit of information has the power to scare me right off the whole effort.You know what else…

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557: Rollie Williams, part 1: Comedy and climate change

I hope you know Climate Town. Watch a bunch of episodes if you haven't. This Sustainable Life listeners and hosts talk about the show. It's funny and fun, yet intelligent and informative. On top of the content, I watch the backgrounds, which often take place where I live in lower Manhattan and where I went to school, at Columbia, where Rollie went to. So I contacted him and his team. We spoke. Within minutes I could tell why Climate Town is so funny. He and his team are funny. Immediately, I could tell I could learn from them. Here he is. We talk about his and his shows' origins and goals. I always thought he was a scientist making humor. He's a humorist taking on…

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There is an ‘I’, it’s just not who you think it is.

Life poses two questions people have probably asked for thousands of years that I've seen zero progress in answering from any source: Why does reality exist?What is consciousness? Or, alternatively, why is there a sense of "me" or "I" that seems to exist outside reality? Regarding the first question, I can't imagine any way of finding an answer using the tools within reality. It's weird to ask or even conceive to ask "why is there anything?". But today I want to write about the second question. As far as I can tell, some time in the past, no humans existed and no consciousness existed. Some time farther back, no life existed, so I'm confident believing no consciousness like human consciousness existed. Somehow it came to…

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A chapter of my life, in the words of a massively bestselling author

Regular readers of my blog and listeners of my podcast know that before I started coaching executives and leading famous people and after decades of struggling with social and emotional skills, limiting my intimacy, especially with women, I dove headlong into learning attraction skills. I shared about it in depth in my Sex, Drugs, and Rock and Roll series on my podcast, where I was the guest, particularly the episode on sex. For years, I kept that identity secret out of fear of people with loud voices and preconceived notions that society listened to more than people like me: a guy who had to go out of his way to learn social and emotional skills. Now I don't promote it, but I don't hide it…

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556: Judith Enck: Beyond Plastic’s Founder and President

Judith shares her work, motivation, and vision on a problem everyone sees killing people and wildlife, but shies from applying themselves to, maybe because we value our polyester clothes, bottled water, laptops, and such. Have we lost the ability to imagine the world before plastic was invented? Her perspective, vision, and plans are common sense, sadly not common, yet, but she's working to bring us there. We do not need to use as much plastic as we do. Beyond Plastic's mission, from its web site: Launched in January 2019, Beyond Plastics is a nationwide project based at Bennington College in Bennington, Vermont, that pairs the wisdom and experience of environmental policy experts with the energy and creativity of college students to build a vibrant and…

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Challenge question: Can you use fossil fuels without polluting?

I asked before if you could think of how to pollute without fossil fuels, or if you could. You could point to, say, mercury or animal feces as non-fossil fuel pollution, but what use of mercury comes without using fossil fuel? Can we get high enough concentrations of poop without fossil fuels? Nuclear fission and fusion require fossil fuels to create their plants and one could argue that as non-renewable resources, they're a form of fossil fuels. New question: Can you think of how to use fossil fuel without polluting? I'm finding it hard to think of an answer. With nearly all pollution at least partly resulting from fossil fuel use and nearly all fossil fuel use resulting in pollution, it seems fair to conclude…

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555: EJ Perry, part 1: Brown’s quarterback on clutch performance

Who doesn't love knowing about something big before everyone else? EJ Perry is something big, a very talented quarterback being scouted by the NFL, coming from the Ivy League. Rarely do people reach pinnacles in multiple areas of life so young. (I'm posting early so you can know to see him play in the Shrine Bowl next week, February 3 at 8pm eastern on the NFL network.) Regular listeners know I like bringing top athletes to the podcast because they've faced challenges, victories, losses, and adversity and had to return to the game and life. We didn't ask to be born into a polluted world, but we did. I believe we can learn from athletes and other leaders. I indulge in asking EJ about playing…

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Coach John Wooden on sustainability

I just finished reading Wooden: A Lifetime of Observations and Reflections On and Off the Court. His coaching tells more how to live sustainably as individuals and a culture than anything else I remember reading or hearing. For those who don't know, from Wikipedia: John Wooden (1910 — 2010) was an American basketball coach and player. He won ten NCAA national championships in a 12-year period as head coach for the UCLA Bruins, including a record seven in a row. No other team has won more than four in a row. His teams won a record 88 consecutive games. Wooden won National Coach of the Year a record seven times and the AP award five times. They had four perfect 30—0 seasons, won 38 straight…

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I blew up a jar fermenting chutney, which got all over my ceiling

I was scared of fermentation when I first learned of it, and that people fermented things in their kitchens. I thought it was rare, required specialized knowledge or skills, and could go wrong. I thought breeding organisms could easily lead to breeding the wrong ones so could be dangerous. I was ignorant. The first time I made sauerkraut, which means fermenting cabbage, I learned it was easy. Each time since I learned it's safe. As far as I can tell, it's not just that there's a wide margin for error, it's safe and makes food more safe. So while I'm sharing about a small explosion I didn't expect, the experience doesn't change that I'm going to keep fermenting and ferment more. I started with lids…

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What God meant by fruitful and dominion.

Major cultural touchstones and motivators for many people to growing material production, sales, and population are the words "be fruitful and multiply" and "have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth." People nearly universally misunderstand both parts. You can be fruitful by living a sweet life and you can multiply by multiplying happiness. To live a sweet life and multiply happiness sounds divine. Even if you interpret the first part to mean to have offspring, which isn't a given, the second part would limit that growth. For one thing, you can't have dominion over something extinct. Human overpopulation and overconsumption are causing millions of species to go extinct.…

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Why grocery stores destroy food: Serving the market versus serving people

When farmers grow for CSAs (where buyers like me pick up a weekly drop-off direct from the farm), they grow for specific people. They're motivated to grow for flavor and quantity most, it seems, as a customer who keeps buying from his CSA because the flavor is out of this world and the quantity for the price is high. When farmers grow for a farmers market, they grow for the produce to sell through a market. Flavor and quantity matter, but appearance and shelf life start to matter more. When farmers grow for supermarket chains, economic conditions, consistency, shipping durability, and other things that matter more to commodity markets in general than what I look for in a peach start to matter more. When farmers…

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554: Sea walls won’t protect us from our garbage. Stopping polluting gives us our best chance.

My notes that I read from for this episode: Sea wall for Manhattan, like Holland: expensive, huge, likely won't workControversial already. Natural solutions might work better.Let's say they worked.On Staten Island, Fresh KillsAlso everywhere, all coasts unprotectedNow think of Cancer Alley Gulf coast, oil refineries and global toxic dumpsAll that pollution will be dispersed to seas and biosphereI'd guess hundreds of thousands of yearsThink of the sufferingChallenge is more than energy. Also thermodynamics. Everything will disperse.Best solution: stop using fossil fuels now.Yes, we'll face problems, but we'll solve switching problems more easily than global garbage.Not an option: keep going as we are and maybe the problems won't happen.

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Sweating the details: Now when I mop, I focus on the corners.

I mop as part of my six-day exercise cycle. Part of my ritual before my lifting days is to mop the floors, so every six days I mop the whole apartment. More accurately, I shifted from mopping to getting on my hands and knees and cleaning with a sponge. The ritual reminds me of monks, who seem to take on tasks with a measure of quality that focus the mind and body. I used to pay most attention to the middle of the floor; after all, that's where I walk and see most. I didn't pay as much attention to the corners. I don't walk in the corners of my apartment that much and figure we don't look there as much. The result is that…

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More places I’d be killed for just being me

I wrote recently about the two biggest chips on my shoulder, one of them being that when I describe challenges I've faced, people keep saying that I've had an easy life, I think because they see a straight white male in the United States. When I talk to people who have lost limbs or eyesight, which seem pretty significant losses, they don't talk that way. The ones who tell me I've had life easy never ask about my experiences, they just tell me what they must have been. I've long felt scared to share my experiences, since they box me in, but I'm going to explore these areas and stop accepting their checkmating me. I have had an easier life than most people on Earth.…

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553: Gaya Herrington, part 1: How far have we passed our limits to growth? What does that mean?

Five months ago, Gaya's work led to headlines like Yep, it's bleak, says expert who tested 1970s end-of-the-world prediction. The 1970s predictions weren't exactly predictions, but the headline refers to the book Limits to Growth. If you're not familiar with it, we start by talking about it. We both consider its views and analysis among the most important. The book simulated possible outcomes for humans on Earth. Those outcomes varied from lots of happy people to billions dying. The authors' goals were to show what patterns we might expect. Still, people since have wondered if we and Earth have tracked any of those outcomes. Gaya's work does just that and shows that we have a slim chance of avoiding collapse, but a good chance of…

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Four reasons the explanation why we crave sugar and fat and store fat seems wrong
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Four reasons the explanation why we crave sugar and fat and store fat seems wrong

You've probably read things like Until the last century, people were at more risk from malnutrition or starvation than they were from obesity. This lopsided pressure may have shaped humans to be more prone to store fat than to lose it. The ability to store extra calories as fat during times of plenty could help someone stay healthy and fertile when food was scarce. I'm no anthropologist, but I've concluded the reasoning must be wrong, for several reasons. If any seem wrong, I'm happy to change my view back. So far, the mainstream view I believed for a long time seems wrong. First, if our ancestors lived like hunter-gatherers today, they ate more predictably and healthily than we do, not less. The Hadza and San…

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552: Hilary Link, part 2: colleges and universities talk sustainability but rarely act. This college president does.

Hilary describes her commitments as achieving some success and some failure, but learned from both. We start with her personal experiences and memories of ice skating and cross country skiing as a child leading to her sometimes painful lessons today. More than just ice skating again, she took lessons with her child. Listen to her for the lesson and why it was painful, but I'll share that she learned to wear a helmet. She also talked about driving less, which led to what she could do with her community not to accept that not driving has to be hard, but how to improve the situation. She talked about eating less meat, which I heard creating more connection within family. From the personal, we moved to…

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Sustainability basics almost everyone gets backward, twisting them up inside.

Things I've learned from experience: Apples taste sweeter than Ben and Jerry's, though not at first. Broccoli tastes better than Doritos, though not at first. Exercise feels better than heroin, though not at first. Not flying connects you with family more than flying, though not at first. Eating only local foods in season gives you more variety and connects you to more cuisines than foods flown in from anywhere, though not at first. Not flying teaches you more about other cultures and connects you with them than flying, though not at first. More electric cars pollute more than fewer cars, though not at first. More solar, wind, nuclear, and fusion doesn't mean less fossil fuels burned. Making a polluting system more efficient makes it pollute…

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The Struggle of Living Sustainably in a Society That Supports It in Word But Opposes It in Deed

I indulged in posting a first draft of something I feel important to share, probably overly bitter or snarky. Acting against the mainstream always makes life difficult, though differently for choosing different directions. I chose to act sustainably and to lead others to. Here are the challenges acting in this direction create. You can read into it as much as you like, but mostly it's a rough sketch of something I'll develop more and believe that posting it publicly will help me develop it more, faster. Introduction I don't remember another time being treated as stupid or misunderstood as much as since I've tried living sustainably. People lecture me on things any idiot would know as if I must not know. People tell me they…

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551: Chad Foster, part 4: Flying to skiing, but not camping in the back yard

In this episode we talk about how to lead people, but I can't help notice on listening afterward how quick and easy it is for him to fly his whole family across the country several times a season, but impossible to pitch a tent in his back yard. Whatever effect I've had on other guests, it's not happening with Chad. What he shares about leadership, I agree with and his life transformation to adjust to circumstances he couldn't have predicted, we can all learn from, so I recommend listening (sorry about the sound quality on my microphone). He lost his sight, which hasn't led to a worse life, as best I can tell. We're losing our ability to eat meat, have as many babies as…

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Challenge question (and answer): Could you pollute before fossil fuels?

I used to think polluting was an inevitable consequence of living. The best we could do was minimize it. But thinking about our ancestors who lived for hundreds of thousands of years in a region, they weren't polluting. It seems to me the concept of pollution must be recent. I've been challenging people with the following question: can you pollute without fossil fuels? Or a similar question: could people before fossil fuels pollute at all? It's easy to pollute with fossil fuels: artificial fertilizers, pesticides, forever chemicals, greenhouse gases, and so on. Without them, it's not so easy. One person suggested the methane that cows emit, but methane as part of the ecosphere's carbon cycles isn't a problem. The carbon in it comes from plants…

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