376: Abraham Lincoln’s Gettysburg Address and Stewardship

I'm continuing my practice of bringing leadership to sustainability, following my bringing speeches and messages by Patton, Frankl, JFK, King, Mandela, Henry V, and others. Today I bring President Abraham Lincoln's Gettysburg address honoring men who fought and died in battle. I hoped to draw parallels to acting in stewardship today but faced two big differences. First, we don't have to risk our lives---the opposite. Living in harmony with nature creates joy, connection, and community. Second, nearly nobody today acts sustainably! Lincoln could speak in honor of people who acted. We can't today because we feel too entitled to flying when and where we want and everything that goes with it. I see Lincoln's address as motivation for us to act, however easy compared to…

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375: Vertical farms belie the false hope of fusion

For years I thought fusion could solve our environmental problems. Serious consideration betrays that false promise, illustrating it would only continue the the pattern creating the problems we're trying to solve. Even if it works, it leads to two results I see as problems. One, it will lead us to keep changing our world away from the environment we evolved in to allow us to thrive and enjoy a bountiful world. Two, it will lead us to keep growing beyond the limits of what it can support, as we have with comparable technological advances. If we ever expect to stop growing, why not do it now, when the stakes are lower?

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374: Andreas Larsson, part 1: Leadership and the Environment Sweden

Andreas and I go back five or ten years. He hired me as a coach when he was selling his share of a business he cofounded. He appears in my book Initiative about that experience and what he's done since. I invited him as a guest for two reasons: One, he started the Leadership and the Environment Sweden podcast. I shared with him my vision of working on sustainability in a way to help people become valuable in their communities. I coached him on podcasting. He's still ramping up with only a few guests so far, but you'll hear in this episode his experiences, how shy and introverted he felt before starting, and how much the training led him to enjoy it. Two, he's taken…

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Polluting students’ bodies: did NYU go back on its word?

NYU announced a year and a half ago: "NYU to Halt Spending on Plastic Bottles by 2020", stating The new policy, one of several sustainability initiatives announced today, is expected to reduce waste by over 330,000 plastic water bottles per year.As part of an institution-wide drive toward creating a more sustainable campus, NYU President Andrew Hamilton today announced that NYU will no longer purchase single use plastic water bottles, effective January 1, 2020. The new policy is expected to reduce waste by over 330,000 plastic water bottles per year.NYU has reduced carbon emissions by 30% -- equivalent to some 59,000 metric tons of carbon annually -- since 2007. That reduction is the equivalent of planting all of Manhattan and all of Brooklyn in forest. NYU…

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Hear me on No Backing Down

You may have noticed I've hosted a few NFL players on my podcast, including Superbowl competitor New England Patriot Marquis Flowers and Superbowl winner Philadelphia Eagle Bryan Braman. I met them through the guy whose podcast I just appeared on, Sean Stellato. He's an NFL agent who also runs a sports representation and marketing agency, runs skills camps, training and conditioning coaching, and player events and promos. His podcast is called No Backing Down, also the name of his book. Our conversation covers sports, jumping or rather being pushed out of airplanes, growing up in dangerous neighborhoods, and a lot of personal things. Listen to the episode. We've become friends through sports and leadership. At his draft party outside Boston a couple years ago I…

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What we can learn from elk hunters

A friend saw elk for the first time after starting spending time in Idaho on a ranch. He's vegetarian. He met hunters. He was talking to a hunter once. They saw a herd of elk. The hunter asked, "how many elk do you see in that herd?" "About a hundred." "I'd guess about that many too. The land around here can support about eighty through the winter." "I guess that means about twenty won't make it?" "No, about twenty will make it." The hunter explained that elk don't triage. They don't survey the food, figure out how many it can support, and tell twenty they have to die so the rest can make it. They all eat what they feel like as long as they…

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373: Jaeden Graham, Atlanta Falcon: Reaching beyond your potential

I love talking with people who strive to reach their potential and beyond, and who elevate people around them---their teammates. People like that exist everywhere, especially in professional sports. Jaeden plays for the Atlanta Falcons. We start by talking about his first touchdown pass, which you have to watch. It's what you'd dream of for a first touchdown pass. Loving sports as I do and hearing about the personal experience, I indulge in asking about that play. He said he was open, but not much. It looked like a mess except that Matt Ryan through it right to him. He got hit but bounced right back, spiked the ball and did a dance. He shares the inside view, what went different than planned and other…

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Is Psychology Today Biased Against Men and People of Color?

[EDIT: I originally submitted this story to my column/blog in Psychology Today. My goal wasn't to cause problems, but to follow "sunshine is the best disinfectant" since everything in it is publicly available on the site. The piece didn't show up. As best I can tell it was rejected.] Why not show us on the cover? I like to feel included, don't you? I've written here for a few months. I wanted to learn more about my community. I looked up a few places Psychology Today represents itself: its About page, covers, and media kit. Psychology Today's About Page Psychology Today's About page says: About Psychology Today Psychology Today is devoted exclusively to everybody's favorite subject: Ourselves Sounds great! I would expect "Ourselves" to include…

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Rowing by the Empire State Building

In my podcast conversation with Joe De Sena, founder and CEO of the Spartan Race, we talked about the difference between exercising indoors versus outdoors. He said we give more exercising outdoors. I had been thinking for a while of bringing my rowing machine to my roof but hadn't figured out how to get it up there since I don't like taking the elevator. Joe carries boulders and tree trunks up mountains and I was planning to swim across the Hudson River, so I decided to carry the thing up the 11 flights to my roof. It disassembles into two pieces, which meant Carrying one piece up 11 flightsWalking back down 11 flightsCarrying the other piece up 11 flightsRowing 30 minutesCarrying one piece down 11…

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A reader asks: “What makes a leader effective during a crisis? E.g. Covid19”
6 Lessons I Learned Teaching Leadership With a 4-Star General at West Point

A reader asks: “What makes a leader effective during a crisis? E.g. Covid19”

I remember helping General Austin co-lead some leadership workshops at West Point. He described a crisis West Point was experiencing that they all knew about---a recent graduate spoke poorly of the institution and community in a way that the media amplified. Then a former teacher---a Colonel---piled on the criticism, prompting questioning from alumni. He asked cadets how they would handle the situation. I read their expressions as caring and determined, but they couldn't figure out what to do. Graduate students in more advanced classes responded with similar uncertainty. What struck me was not that they didn't know what to do---there was no right answer---but that they didn't want to be in a position to handle that crisis. They were glad the Superintendent was handling it.…

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Everything I’ve eaten since returning home

I was curious so decided to list all the foods I've eaten since returning home from staying with my mom and stepfather for the beginning of the pandemic. I think the following lists everything. Some people say my diet lacks variety since I talk about my famous no-packaging vegetable stews so much, but I don't think I've had the same one twice and they differ so much between them. Legumes Black beansKidney beansLentils: green, french, redChickpeasAdzukiMungSplit peaNavy beansLima beansSoy beansPintoString beansPeanutsSnap peas Root vegetables Sweet potatoes purple, white, orangeBeets orange, purple, stripedCarrotsRadishesTurnipsSquash butternut, kombucha Herbs and spices Onions purple, white, springGarlicTurmeric powderWhole pepper cornsSavoryCuminGinger powderBasil green, purpleSageParsleyAllspiceCardamomMintCinnamonOreganoCacaoMustard seedJalapeñoGhost pepper (bottled, years old)Fennel seedsScallionsVinegar (homemade from apples and raisins) Vegetables Zucchini green, yellow, funny-shapedEggplant purple, stripey,…

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372: JFK, the moon, and missing leadership today

You've heard people calling for moonshots---challenges so great we take them on as a nation. But regarding sustainability we also ask people to do as little as they can, "here's one little thing you can do for the environment." In this episode, I bring you John Kennedy's speech at Rice on the original moonshot, fraught with peril, expensive, asking a lot. He spoke with resolve we lack today everywhere, entitled as our culture has become, but especially in taking responsibility for our actions that affect others helpless to defend themselves from our hurting them. For our mere comfort and convenience. For our waste! America outright wastes forty percent of our food, which we use more fossil fuels than ever to create. I am endeavoring to…

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371: Margaret Klein Salamon, part 1: Become the Hero Humanity Needs

Margaret is the Executive Director at The Climate Mobilization. Writing Facing the Climate Emergency brought her to me. Her psychology background leads her to approach the climate psychologically, which I appreciate and consider missing. Our internal resistance, fears, and emotions that we don't like facing seem our biggest challenges to act. Of course, more research and education help, but we crossed the threshold of knowing enough to act long ago. We aren't acting not out of ignorance but out of emotion and the skills to manage them. She writes about facing our fears, which leads ultimately to how rewarding acting on so great a challenge feels. People don't get how rewarding acting on our values feels. We both struggled to describe the ineffable emotional and…

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370: Viktor Frankl on the pandemic

Many people are looking to return to something they can call normal since the pandemic undid their earlier normal. In the meantime they struggle. Almost everyone I know knows Viktor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning. I don't know what they think the book applies to, but it applies to exactly this situation. I'll give the perfectly relevant quote here and elaborate in the episode: We must never forget that we may also find meaning in life even when confronted with a hopeless situation, when facing a fate that cannot be changed. For what then matters is to bear witness to the uniquely human potential at its best, which is to transform a personal tragedy into a triumph, to turn one's predicament into a human achievement.…

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Full Lotus Position

I first meditated almost fifteen years ago, starting with a ten-day no-reading no-writing, no-talking, diving in the deep end. It challenged me, but I went back periodically for more ten-day, five-day, three-day, and one-day sessions. I've written about the experiences here. I never felt the tug to meditate regularly, despite my other sidchas. This year I started two days out of my five-day exercise cycle. At the retreats, I usually sat on a stool. I couldn't sit on my butt that long. These days I'm sitting more, cross-legged. After a while I started trying a half-lotus position, where I put one foot on top of the other thigh and the other foot below the other thigh. I started working toward a full-lotus, putting each foot…

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Let’s talk about Race and White Privilege, Parts 1 and 2

As Rob Harper asked in the YouTube page: Can only white people be racist? Can black people be racist? What do you think when you see the police? What exactly is white privilege? Can blacks be privileged? Do all lives matter or just some and whose black lives? https://youtu.be/CLft33sJmmM As Rob and I speak more (here is his appearance on my podcast and my appearance on his, among many other recordings we've done since), we're speaking more candidly about more challenging subjects. We started talking about life under lockdown. We're speaking more about race now. My part of the conversation reflects my exploring speaking on the topic more recently---with bottles being thrown at me, being chastised for being a white male lacking diversity, and things…

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369: Another Decision From My Past I Feel Ashamed Of

I shared a story with a client the other day that he found deeply meaningful. I'd never shared it with anyone before because it felt so shameful. Enough time has passed that I can talk about it, so I'm sharing it here, but I still cringe over it. When others share stories they say make them feel shameful, it never sounds as serious to me as it seems to to them, so I hope my story doesn't either. I'm not going to write it here so you have to listen to the episode if you want to hear it, but it starts with girls, or rather lack of relationships with them, and ends with huge life decisions in other areas that I would not have…

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75 years since Hiroshima

Growing up I thought the strategy of mutually assured destruction, while tragic, kept the peace. Speaking to Nobel Peace Prize honoree ICAN member Seth Shelden, I learned that we've advanced from that line of thinking and our world changed to where it doesn't apply any more. As much as I'd like to hold on to something that made me feel comfortable or at least content, I have to drop believing that maintaining nuclear weapons keeps peace. Too many people can start wars. ICAN---the International Campaign to Abolish Nuclear Weapons---led the UN to adopt the Treaty on the Prohibition of Nuclear Weapons (TPNW) by a vote of 122-1. The Treaty, when ratified, will prohibit the development, testing, production, manufacture, acquisition, possession, stockpiling, transfer, use, and threatened…

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Left mouse button broke. Still posting, not missing my sidcha.

I haven't missed a post here in almost ten years. My left mouse button broke---rather the track pad, an integral part of the computer. I found a used mouse on Craig's List I can get tomorrow I think I can use while ordering a new track pad, which I think I can install myself. In the meantime I'm seeing if I can post without a left button and keep the sidcha going. I posted daily for the two times I was in North Korea without internet as well as at meditation retreats with no reading, writing, talking, or internet. Those times I wrote posts ahead of time and scheduled Wordpress to publish them each day. This time I have to use tabs and control characters.…

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“One-Third of New York’s Small Businesses May Be Gone Forever” Another problem with efficiency

People are finding many new ways to be more efficient---recycling, crickets for food, and seaweed for food for example. I've written many times how efficiency can be a good tactic within the strategy of reducing consumption, but doesn't stand on its own. The New York Times headline, One-Third of New York's Small Businesses May Be Gone Forever illustrates what happens when we value efficiency so highly in the market. The opposite of efficiency doesn't have to be inefficient. It can be resilience. The article begins Small-business owners said they have exhausted federal and local assistance and see no end in sight after months of sharp revenue drops. Now, many are closing their shops and restaurants for good. A pandemic is only one force that can…

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368: Chester Elton, part 1: Asking and listening across color lines

You're about to hear a conversation post-George Floyd by two leadership writers. Normally we write for mostly business audiences. this conversation felt more personal. Normally when a friend introduces a potential podcast guest, we start by talking each other's work and figure out scheduling. With Chester---maybe given his openness and, I think, mine, as well as the protests raging---we jumped into talking about race and our interactions with people of different color. We spoke for a couple hours about a topic that polite conversation often avoids, let alone makes it the first thing two people meeting for the first time discuss. Those past conversations set the tone for the conversation you're about to hear, also the continued protests, media discussion, and our growing friendship to…

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367: The Surprising Mantle of Leadership

Here are the notes I read from for this episode: Stand up comedians Growing up in 70s I thought everyone would want to lead, to give I Have A Dream speech of their generation Felt so natural, though universal So until recently felt others could do better, wouldn't want to compete Dawning on my almost nobody wants to Nobody seems to want to change I expect they'll be happy to change if they don't have to do work After all world has changed. Seems easy to change with it Maybe people are waiting for someone and I can or should be it Crazy for me to think nobody wants it Question I've asked lately: Genie Mandela choice I thought all the people competing to be…

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366: The Cops, Jocko Willink, and Joe Rogan

Here are the notes I wrote and read this podcast from: It's no secret the tension between police and protesters in this country. I've talked to a lot of protesters in my day, having protested myself many times, especially in college. In grad school a post-doc once worked as auxiliary policeman Recently listened to Jocko Willink on Joe Rogan's podcast. I won't explain who they are because they're both big public figures and you can look them up. Except Jocko is a former Navy SEAL and Joe hosts the world's top podcast. As a martial artist, he speaks Jocko's language and they both talk about cops and uniformed people. I'm going to play about a minute from their conversation that inspired me. <play clip here>…

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A million-dollar business idea in sustainability

Context An attendee at my webinar on Initiative to Booth, the University of Chicago Business School, Eric Zoerb, followed up that he wanted to start a business on sustainability. Like many, he was looking for efficiency. Most of my life I considered efficiency the top strategy. It felt right. Nature doesn't react to feelings, though, so no amount of feeling it will work will make something work. If you make a polluting system more efficient, you will pollute more efficiently, which we've been doing since before the industrial revolution. Changing elements of a system rarely change the system. Efficiency is an important tactic under a strategy of reduction, but you need that strategy first, which means changing the system. I speak in more detail on…

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Superman and picking up garbage

As you probably know, I pick up at least a piece of litter every day from the ground and put it in a trash can. I'm not reducing the amount of trash, but at least saving some from reaching the ocean. More importantly, I'm developing skills, experiences, and beliefs about changing culture around trash. Since restaurants and bars started serving outdoors on mostly single-use plastic, the amount of litter has skyrocketed. Every trash can in my neighborhood is filled to overflowing by around noon, spilling into the gutters soon after. People's slightest whim for, say, water instead of waiting an hour, leads to trash that will last centuries. I end up picking up ten or more pieces a day, just pieces in my path that…

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