Habits aren’t my thing, despite what you might think

I want to clarify a point of confusion, probably my fault. Since I talk a lot about sidchas and habits, one could conclude that I focus on habits as a big part of my life. On the contrary, though I consider them important, they are less a big part of my life than they make worry and insecurity a small part of my life. For clients that come to me for them, I focus some of my coaching on them. Even then, the goal is to make them automatic---a source of mental freedom. Someone today suggested that I must be a blogger, as in a big part of my identity, since I blog daily. I said that would make me a tooth brusher since I…

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340: Michael Turner, DDS, MD: On the front line of Covid-19 in New York City

Want inside views of covid-19 in the epicenter of the epicenter? Michael has been working at the front line of Covid-19 in New York City. He's also my brother-in-law who has known me since the 80s. I started the pattern of bringing people to share inside views of my work with my mom's episode, which I encourage you to listen to. He shares inside views on the flaws and weaknesses of both. He starts by sharing stories only surgeons can---for example, of saving someone's life on an airplane. You know in movies when the plane captain asks if there's a doctor on board? It happened to Michael when he was the only doctor on the flight---then just starting. He says he didn't fully save a…

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339: Brooklyn Borough President Eric Adams: Food Matters

Brooklyn Borough President means Mayor of Brooklyn. If Brooklyn separated from New York City, Eric Adams would be the mayor of the third most populous city in the country. If it separated from New York State, he'd be Governor of more people than 15 states. In this episode you'll hear why in 2013, Adams was elected Brooklyn borough president with 90.8 percent of the vote. He shares his transformation from his diet causing him to nearly losing extremities and vision to loving food they way I do. We cover the gamut of food issues---politics, education, business, history, but most of all family, community, and personal joy, community, and connection. It's hard to keep in mind hearing him how far he came in only three years---meaning…

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I planted my first tree!

Last October I asked in a post How to plant a tree in New York City?. Yesterday I planted one---a juneberry tree. Here's the best picture my crappy old camera phone could take of it. In a few years it will grow past my height and deliver delicious juneberries. I didn't plant it in New York City, but instead in the yard of my mom and stepfather's house about 90 minutes northwest. Here's the sapling, a gift from a friend, before planting: I did it now partly from being the debut guest on the new Leadership and the Environment Sweden podcast, the first new branch of the Leadership and the Environment podcast. The host, Andreas, led me through the podcast's four-step process to lead to…

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The Market and the Good podcast hosts me for two episodes

Chris Gassman of The Market and the Good podcast posted two episodes with me. The first covered my work in under 10 minutes. Since I described my podcast 4-step process, he chose to try it out, which we did for the second episode, as a deep dive. Most podcast hosts shy away from being guests on their shows. They tend to feel vulnerable at answering questions, especially about stewardship. Chris went the other way, embracing vulnerability and responsibility, as leaders do. Check out the episodes:

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Three Latest Videos on New York City’s lockdown with Me and Magamedia.org’s Rob Harper

I can't describe the unexpected fun and growth coming from my conversations with Rob. When I learned of Ruth Bader Ginsburg's friendship with Antonin Scalia, I couldn't get it. How could one tolerate someone who worked to make the world the opposite of what they wanted, especially with the stakes so high? Reading John Stuart Mill's On Liberty, I intellectually understood his point that you have to share your ideas to have them challenged or you don't know what you're talking about. I didn't internalize it. Living with two people---my mom and stepfather---who look on Trump with disdain, I think all three of us are surprised at the friendship and conversations Rob and I are creating. I think my surprise is pleasant. Theirs is more…

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Recovering from running a marathon versus rowing a 2k
After I finished running a marathon. This picture came hours after finishing, meaning I had already recovered a bunch.

Recovering from running a marathon versus rowing a 2k

I recently shared this experience with someone who described the feeling of suffering after beating their personal best for rowing a 2k: This picture came hours after finishing a marathon, meaning I had already recovered a bunch. Can you tell how miserable I felt? And it was my sixth marathon, so I had experience to help handle it. Your story reminds me of finishing my first running marathon. In the area where runners could get their bags and put on warm clothes, some happy-go-lucky guy, despite also having just finished, jauntily walks in saying spritely, "You did it! It hurts now, but the pain will pass and you'll always be able to say you finished!" The rest of us, nursing our pain, looked at him…

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Learning to walk barefoot again

For years I had to wear orthotics when running in regular running shoes and still felt back pain to where I gave up running. Switching to minimal running shoes returned me to pain-free running. Interviewing podcast guest Nir Eyal, he talked about barefoot running. Most people mean 'minimal shoe' when they say 'barefoot,' but Nir meant barefoot. I decided to experiment running barefoot. Switching to minimal shoe running, where I land on the balls of my feet, took months of building up my calf muscles and getting used to the new gait. Now I'm used to it. Running barefoot means building up my soles to handle the pavement. In Manhattan, running along the Hudson running and bike path, the surface is smooth, but here in…

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338: Abbey Ryan, part 1: Technique and Mastery Through Practice

I consider leadership a performance art and the environment the most beautiful thing around. Abbey and I talked about beauty, art, performance, teaching, technique, craft, and everything that goes into mastery. She has little experience with burpees. I have little with painting, but we connected on mastery. I think I can safely say we both look forward to our next conversation. Just after stopping recording we both commented on how much we enjoyed connecting on what underlies all fields amenable to mastery. Abbey has painted a painting daily since 2007. As someone who has done burpee-based calisthenics and written blog posts daily for nearly as long, I couldn't wait to talk to Abbey about the personal growth, community, connection, self-awareness, self-expression, and so on that…

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Leadership and the Environment Sweden launches!

Ledarskap och miljön Sverige (in English Leadership and the Environment Sweden) launched today! It is "En podd om att agera pÃ¥ sina värderingar för naturen och att finna glädje och mening i det" or "A podcast about acting on your values for nature and finding joy and meaning in it." Beautiful! I'm proud to be the first guest. Here's the first episode: https://shows.acast.com/ledarskap-och-miljon/ Why start a new branch of Leadership and the Environment? I've shared for a while the opportunity to start new branches of Leadership in the Environment X, where X is something you love that I'm not, for example Leadership and the Environment CaliforniaLeadership and the Environment WomenLeadership and the Environment FashionLeadership and the Environment PoliticsLeadership and the Environment Basketball Andreas, the host,…

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“The Value and Joy of Individual Action”: Hear me on the Growthbusters podcast

One of the few podcasts I listen to every episodes of is Growthbusters. Hosts Dave and Erika invited me for a second appearance, which went live today, The Value and Joy of Individual Action. I list Dave as one of my environmental role models. My first Growthbusters appearance Here is my first appearance on Growthbusters: Changing the World Starts at Home. The Growthbusters movie I recently posted about the Growthbusters movie, having rewatched it and found it more informative and prescient than I remember: Our greatest taboo is the greatest issue of our time. The show notes: Is there any use in choosing to live more sustainably if you're surrounded by an unsustainable system? There are those who argue there is little value in making…

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How Bill Gates and the 1% can help the environment

I posted the following to my Psychology Today blog: Image courtesy Freepng.com An article today, Bill Gates Thinks That The 1% Should Foot The Bill To Combat Climate Change, said, "Bill Gates believes that private investors should foot the bill for increased spending on technologies to fight global climate change. He has pledged to commit $2 billion himself." Does something strike you as disingenuous? Don't Gates's yachts, jets, and mansions burn through fossil fuels more than nearly anyone in history? When one person's actions matter Before you say, "he's only one person. He could only infect a few people, what's that out of 7.7 billion?", imagine him donating to fight covid-19 while meeting large groups of people without a face mask, coughing a lot without…

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337: Why we feel miserable under lockdown

Fresh and organic vegetables at farmers market Below are my notes for my podcast episode: 337: Why we feel miserable under lockdown. I got more feedback on it than usual and some said they might want to comment on it, which my podcast doesn't allow. The notes are just the skeleton. As you'll hear listening to it, I elaborate on them somewhat. I discuss the connection between perceiving lack of variety in food made from scratch and feeling miserable and bored under lockdown, despite having access to all the world's art, music, literature, and culture ever recorded and more material abundance than kings only a few generations ago, despite our material abundance being only slightly less than a few months ago. Here are the notes…

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337: Why we feel miserable under lockdown

I discuss the connection between perceiving lack of variety in food made from scratch and feeling miserable and bored under lockdown, despite having access to all the world's art, music, literature, and culture ever recorded and more material abundance than kings only a few generations ago, despite our material abundance being only slightly less than a few months ago. Fresh and organic vegetables at farmers market Here are the notes I read from for this episode: Yesterday recorded episode with Rob and my stepfatherTalked about food variety, said mine lacked varietyOnly tried three timesPeople always see theirs as varied, others as notPeople say I don't like Chinese or Indian, billions, huge varietyI see McDonald's and Taco Bell as sameCount Chocula versus Froot LoopsI made something…

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Science discovering “tastes good” versus “wanting more”

Have you noticed the difference between something tasting good---that you like the sensation---versus wanting more---that it motivates you to eat more, though doesn't always taste good? If the nuance sounds foreign, I've written on it several times. I use it to illustrate the difference between craving and emotional reward. In my experience, the difference seems subtle until you get it. Then it's huge. Emotional reward improves life, craving enables others to control you, among other differences. Here are some of my posts on it: Tastes Good versus Want More, explored in depth "Want to eat more" and "tastes good" aren't the same feeling Examples of "tastes good" versus "want more" Avoid that addictive tug People study this difference. They usually use scientific terms, which I…

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336: Julian Guderley: GreenPlanet BluePlanet

If you measure an interaction with someone by how much it affects and improves your life, my conversation with Julian was profound. Why? His conversation led me to start meditating regularly---something I've considered for year but never implemented, until the morning after our conversation. Longtime listeners know I've meditated for nearly 15 years. I've chosen infrequent deep dives---5-10-day retreats with no reading, writing, phone, internet, or talking---finding that I've gotten most of the value of daily practice from my other sidchas. The morning after our conversation, I started and have kept going since. I credit Julian's conversation. I met Julian after hearing an episode of his podcast featuring Wen-Jay Ying, an entrepreneur who founded one of the CSAs I get my vegetables from in New…

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335: Rhonda Lamb, part 2: reversing food deserts

The quote you just heard was Rhonda's description how showing people how to cook the way I showed them could save time and money for people to enjoy fresh fruits and vegetables. After Rhonda and my first conversation, I recommend watching the video of my going to the Bronx for the group Rhonda assembled at a church for me to demonstrate cooking my famous no-packaging vegetable stew. This conversation came shortly after that potluck. Rhonda and I share hear how that event went. One woman said you couldn't cook that way up there, but then everyone else said it was possible. Rhonda knew everyone there, so listen to our episode to hear her read. Rhonda sounded to me upbeat about her Bronx community finding value…

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Life-Changing Habits Even (Especially) Under Lock-Down

Here is the video from my webinar last week on life-changing habits during lock-down (and the rest of your life). https://youtu.be/BfnO0nQSuPk Wondering if you should watch? Quoting attendees: "My boyfriend was an Olympic fencer and I texted him: this webinar is like  an insight into your brain. Now I see how you do everything and how you're so productive." "Holy cow, it's so simple. It's so true. I could immediately see the ways . . . I'm pretty fit, I was a collegiate athlete. I work out. I'm doing the insanity program now and I was like 'Wow!'" "We talk a lot about freedom, whether it's financial freedom. Mental freedom is not something I've thought of. I thought about freedom with my time---I'm an advertising…

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My third TEDx talk: People Don’t Want to Do Small Things. They Want to Do Meaningful Things

TED and TEDxConnecticutCollege posted my third TEDx talk (scroll down for my first two). I can't express my gratitude for the organizers for the opportunity to develop and deliver this talk. The event was February 29, just as the pandemic was starting. I believe the pandemic only makes my message more valuable. People Don't Want to Do Small Things. They Want to Do Meaningful Things. https://youtu.be/3GMTpaxlLGg I consider it my most meaningful talk. Times rehearsing it, tears streamed down my face, thinking of role models who led us through challenges before---especially that boat. If you like it, please share and upvote it. Here's the direct link: https://youtu.be/3GMTpaxlLGg. If you don't like it, I appreciate constructive criticism. Either way, I'd love your thoughts. Here's how to…

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Beautiful, modern life before plastic, corn syrup, and Walmart

If you haven't seen the pictures recently published by Charles Custer, who drove America's route 66 with his wife in 1950-51, you're in for a treat---and, for some of you, a challenge to preconceived notions about progress. They show in wonderful detail, composition, and style, an America now gone, replaced by uniformity, efficiency, and overpopulation. I'll take the liberty of posting one, but there are 148 of them here, and I recommend viewing them all. Some of the backstory: Charles Custer recently died at 91 years old, leading the photographs to resurface. The Chicago Sun-Times wrote more in an obituary: Charles Custer, dead at 91, with wife Irene Custer took photos capturing a time capsule of Route 66, Americana. What to look for You'll find…

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Keeping your habits and sidchas

I found a better way to characterize daily habits and sidchas. I used to think of them like brushing my teeth. I don't remember the last time I went to bed without brushing. That characterization made my sidchas easier for me, but not others. They still think of daily habits as hard, rigid, burdensome. They suggest I take a break: "Josh, really, what would happen if you took a break and laid in bed more than 60 seconds? Live a little!" They think I'm depriving myself. Think of daily habits like feeding your dog Think of a daily habit like feeding your dog. Would you consider taking a break and "living a little" by not feeding your dog for a day? Dog owners who travel…

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The Great Isolation Part 3

Rob and my conversations are becoming more interesting all the time. This week goes in two new, exciting directions. First, Rob shares his writing experience---what I've come to learn happens a lot, but first heard from him, that his characters speak to him. I since came across a study that a Majority of authors 'hear' their characters speak, finds study. We end the conversation with on-the-fly starting to schedule a town hall for me to address his conservative audience about the environment. I don't see it as any more a political issue than traffic laws. I expect speaking to this audience about the environment will lead some to attack, as Rob points out, suggesting I talk to liberals who themselves aren't doing what they tell…

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334: Jethro Jones, part 2: Biking in -40 degrees. Why not?

This episode starts off strong with Jethro's matter-of-fact description of riding a bike in minus 40 degree weather. He's a principal going to school, but could be talking about radical mountain biking. I don't remember my principal being this badass. I don't remember anyone talking about activity like this so understated. I wouldn't be able to hold myself back as he does. Tell me if you don't laugh when he talks about what the cold does to his tires. You'll notice we recorded a long time ago when we talk about Greta Thunberg. Listen to the end, especially after he talks about his daughter, where we get into what actions like these are about. It's about meaning and purpose and living an intentional life of…

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333: A racist with a heart of gold is still a racist

This pandemic continues to reveal new aspects of relationships—or rather spending time with people does. I think we used to spend more time with people, not mediated by the internet or distracted by screens and other powered things. I shared a new analogy in my conversation with my mom that several people liked. I found that my stewardship contrasting with my mom and step-father's wanting to live like they always have reminded me of the 70s television show All in the Family. For those who don't remember it, the show garnered huge audiences and stellar reviews. From Wikipedia: All in the Family is an American television series that ran for nine seasons, from 1971 to 1979. The show revolves around the life of a working-class…

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